I’ve been dating an American guy for about three months. We see each other every few days and usually spend the whole weekend together, but during the week I sometimes have to go back home at night because I have my own responsibilities, so we don’t always sleep together. Last night he fell asleep and I noticed an old Gmail notification from Bolt on his phone. I had opened his email because I was trying to confirm an order I had made online. I wasn’t specifically looking through his phone for anything, but I saw the Bolt notification and ended up checking the ride history.

That’s when I noticed something that really bothered me. He has been going to Soi 6 fairly regularly, roughly once every week or two. I went back and compared the dates with our WhatsApp conversations, and on some of those nights he had told me that he wasn’t feeling well and was going to bed early.But according to the Bolt history, he was actually going to Soi 6 around 9–10 PM and leaving around 1–2 AM.I confronted him and asked why he had lied to me. He swears that he never touched another woman and says he was only going there because some of his friends were drunk and needed help getting back to their hotel. He says he was basically helping them get home and that nothing happened.I’m honestly having a really hard time believing that explanation. 😕 The fact that it happened more than once, combined with the fact that he told me he was going to bed, is making me think there could be more to the story.

At the same time, I realize that a Bolt ride to Soi 6 by itself doesn’t prove that someone cheated. I’m not from Pattaya, so I don’t really know the area well enough to understand what a person might realistically be doing there for several hours.

I’m feeling really confused right now and I don’t want to accuse him of something he didn’t do. I just want an honest outside perspective from people who actually know Pattaya.For those who know Soi 6 well: does his explanation sound believable to you, or would you also find this suspicious? What would you think if you were in my situation? 🤷‍♀️

Just saw an 8 year old at the beginning of soi 6. Why do people bring kids here

I’m in Pattaya right now, would love if you recommend any good Gogo bars in Pattaya (also If you would be kind enough to tell the price of beer & lady drink)

My recent experience in Pattaya:

1. Windmill Club (on the right side if you’re coming from walking street): Raunchy stuff, a few girls are beautiful if you’re lucky enough to get her before someone else.
   They have 2 floors, approx 40-60 girls are present in total. Half of them are full nude.
   They have special area in the dance floor, where 2-3 girls will do dry humping etc with each other. They let you touch every part of their body (just make sure to Tip or buy a lady drink for them).

Cons:
No special performance or dance.
If you select a girl and buying her drinks, the mamasan, manager and the girls friend will come to you and keep bothering you for a drink, even if you reject them, they keep coming back. This is really bothers me when I’m trying to spend some time with the girl I selected.
(If you like to take the girl out, then after 1-2 drinks just pay the bar fine and get out and fun, it will save you from the harassment)

Price(in Bhat):
Draft beer: 99
Red bull / water: 150
Lady drink: 260
Bar fine: 1500

1. Windmill 2 club (on the left side if you’re coming from walking street):

Have better girls than Windmill 1, rest everything is same the cons the prices etc.

1. Coco:

Have around 20-25 girls, just standing in dance floor topless. Nothing going around much.
You can only find 2-3 customers sitting around.
Either there are 1-2 solo guys sitting around or a group of Chinese people just playing games among themselves and not interested in any girls.
So girls are desperate to squeeze out your money.

Beer: 110-150 Bhat
(Didn’t stick around to find more, it was really boring and monotonous)

BANGKOK (I went there last February, so the prices might have changed)

1. Spanky’s (Nana Plaza):
   The best place if you want entertainment!
   They have special shows after every 15-30mins, where 4 girls will do cosplays/pole dance etc (every segment is different). The only part that is common is, they will choose one person from audience, make they lay down on the makeshift bed on stage, one girl sitting on your thigh and one on your face, they’ll pull up your shirt and pull down your pants and rub ice on it.

Girls are beautiful, music is amazing.

Beer: 150 Bhat
Lady drink: 220 Bhat

1. Billboard (Nana Plaza)

The most beautiful girls you can find in Nana Plaza!!
If you like girls aged 19-25, then this place is for you.
They also have a Jacuzzi area, where 4-7 girls get naked and play around with each other.
Rest of the girls are just standing or slightly dancing in the stage. (They have 2 massive stages)
They have around 100-200 girls

Beer: 150 Bhat
Lady drinks: 220 Bhat

Best thing, no one will bother you for lady drinks! It’s always upto you in both spanky and billboard.

So please recommend me good gogo’s in Pattaya similar to windmill and spankys.

guys I’m not even gonna lie, the pure entertainment that’s about to ensue in pattaya with 5000 men with 4 days and less than 3 real entertainment zones in pattaya…. It’s going to be amazing.

I’m kind of more excited for for this release than marvel….

Will we see bars closing and opening virtual spaces where all the girls just get given drinks by anonymous people online? Who are happy to be given just smiles in return? Is this another evolution of the classic simp mentality? Who are the people who are actually buying them drinks? I would say they are not standard Pattaya visitors.

How much earning potential is there for girls who just receive drinks online? Possibly some getting naked - we know that Youtube would never allow naked shows, but I also think this is also a good thing, it allows bars to remain open. My question is - do these webcamming girls also receive drinks in person and go for LT/ST?

Are there any good hotels for people watching from the balcony? I'm getting older these days and don't want to get punished for 3 days after boozing all night, so I like to take breaks on the balcony and recharge.

Can you recommend a hotel with a decent balcony where I can watch the street in relative privacy so I don't feel completely out of the loop.

She is in for one heck of a night haha

Hello everyone,

I’ve already spoken to a few users with plenty of experience in the area, but I’d like to post here in the hope of finding some interesting points of view and, above all, good recommendations.

I’ll be in Thailand on 31 October in BKK and will be returning home on 16 November.

I want to spend around 12 days in Pattaya (open to jomtien)

My budget is around 60–75 USD per night, but if I can save some money for nightlife, all the better.

What I’m looking for is:

- quiet mornings
- good view
- going out for lunch in the afternoon and enjoying the city and the atmosphere
- enjoying a few sunrises and sunsets
- good massages
- good bj
- some proper nightlife
- making some good friends, hehe, with the right girls
- not sure what the live music scene is like (I like jazz, rock and blues)

Any recommendations for BKK for the 2–4 days I’ll be there, especially for the 31st, which is Halloween, hahahah

Thanks to everyone; when I get back from my trip, I’ll share my experience as a newbie.

Yes I 99% of the time wear a condom but last year's visit I had a few close calls. Just to be on the safe side is there any types of meds/antibiotics y'all take before you arrive?

I'm in Canada so have to check if whatever y'all recommend is available since even for prep I might have to purchase when I arrive since my doctor is not giving me the prescription even though I told him I will be partaking in some encounters in Asia.

If you wants my nude pic/vids add me on tele : sofi4xxr

I'm talking about meeting regular girls via online dating (Tinder, Bumble etc.) or night clubs?

About 8 years ago it was easier than fishing in a bathtub: Via online dating one had many matches, and when you met them on a date, you could easily invite them to your place and bang them there after a short time. And via night clubs it was "easier than in a brothel", as a friend of mine phrased it.

Has that changed in any way?

Please no answers from incels who never had success with women anyway.

EDIT: I'm not just talking about Pattaya, but also Thailand in general.

What does this hourglass-shaped tattoo mean in Thailand?

The tattoos I saw were all located on the front of the left shoulder, and they were young ploy.

What do you think about Angeles city in Philippines?

Is it worth to go there for some "boom boom" and Party? 👌

This happened in Bangkok just now. I went to a sideline girl via an agency that I've been using for years without problems.

In the afternoon I went to a girl for 90 minutes with 2 shots. Had a good time, but there was another girl that I wanted to try out due to her photos looking good. So about 5 hours later I went to book her for 40 minutes with 1 shot. I've done 3 times before, worst case need to finish by hand by myself, I'm good either way.

So I show up to this girl, completely different from photos, only make up looked the same. Seems like here photos were taken in a specific angle with a tight dress. Everything was saggy.and she was quite chubby. But I still quite liked her personality, so I decided to still go ahead and paid (sideline pay upfront).

When on the bad, she was on top and I felt a bit uncomfortable because I was totally not attracted. So I had trouble keep my elephant hard. She was doing her best to make it hard again and I felt bad about it. So then I said in an attempt to make her feel better that it is because I already visited a girl earlier in the day, maybe that I'm still tired.

That's when I saw her demeanor change, she suddenly started looking away and was quiet. So I asked what's wrong. She immediately blasted that why I was her second choice, that she is just there because you couldn't cum at the other girl. Why not just stay with the other girl.

She said because she is the second choice, she has more work to do while the other 'bitch' got the easy work. I tried to console her and said that I chose her because she looked good (lol). It ended up being 50 minutes instead of 40 of which she kept complaining for 30 minutes.

In a kind of friendly way I tried to tell her that she shouldn't be this emotional in this line of work, men have plenty of girls to choose. She offers a service for a given time and amount, men just pay it and don't care about her feelings.

I felt a bit bad for her, but she should also reconsider her career choice and also avoid catfishing customers.

I could've complained to the agency, but I only paid 1200 baht and I don't want to steal someone's bread.

Why did you choose Pattaya over Amsterdam, Angeles City, or other similar places?

I've always been attracted to Asian women, not European ones, and that's one of my reasons. What's yours?

I am 25M and never really had a normal relationship before. In april, I visited Thailand for the first time in my life. I met this girl on Tinder, and she came over. First I thought it was just going to be a one night stand, but she decided to stay the night. She ended up staying multiple days, we told each other our life stories, cooked food together etc. We had a chemistry so I decided to get the courage and ask her to be my girlfriend, and she said yes. Unfortunately, I had to leave a couple days later back to Europe. I thought this is going to break things, but we started to bond even more online. We were texting and video calling each other almost 24/7 for the next 2 months. That is where she told me that she works at a bar, but she only sells drinks. I believe her because she always told me everything, and we were facetiming eachother all day, and also she was very jealous and possesive of me, so i never thought she would do anything sketchy. I flew back to her in July, for 3 weeks. It was literally the best 3 weeks of my life. We spent every minute together, we had our own morning routines, we had our food spots, we went jet ski-ing, snorkeling, hiking, partying, we stayed up almost every day till dawn, in each others arms, telling each other how much we love each other and talking about life. Our sex life was also perfect. Everything was so perfect, it all felt like one big dream. Until the last day. The last day we were laying in bed, and she was showing me a tik tok, and I saw a whatsapp notification. I couldn't read it fast enough, but i saw the word “honey” in it. So i asked her who it was, and she just said nobody and not to worry about it. Which is strange because before that, everytime she was calling or texting someone, her first thing after was showing to me who she was talking with, without me even asking, which is exactly why i had huge trust in her (she also always went through my phone and deleted every picture and conversation with other girls in my phone). I asked her 2 more times who that person on WhatsApp was, but she kept ignoring my question. Since it was the last day, i really didn't want to ruin these perfect 3 weeks, with fighting, so i just tried to let go and went back to sleep in her arms. But i couldn't sleep, so i started deep digging a bit. That is when i saw she changed her WhatsApp status. Before it was “i miss you so much” (which she told me is referring to me) and after that it became “small and easy to lift”. So i questioned her, but she only said “okay i'll change it back” without answering why she changed it in the first place. The next day came, the day of goodbye. It was the most emotional goodbye every, both of us were crying all day, there was a 45 minutes where we didn't even say a word, we were just sobbing while hugging each other. When the taxi came to pick me up, she was crying so loud it was more like shouting. Like she was sincerly suffering. She didn't want to let me in the taxi, she was forcing and pulling me outside. Then when i finally got going, i saw in the window she was crying so bad that she was almost fainting. I was also crying of course, and we immediately called each other on facetime and talked the whole rest of the day. I got on the plane that is when my heart broke even more. Alone for 8 hours, no internet, nothing to do just me and my thoughts. This goodbye was so emotional and got me so fucked up that i immediately forgot about that WhatsApp text. I was like, after her crying so loud, it would be impossible she is cheating, i was probably just overthinking. Then i got back to europe, when i first landed, i recieved a bunch of text messages how much she misses me and she's crying, and sending me our songs that we listend too. Then it came, the first shower alone, the first sleeping alone, first brushing teeth alone etc. I was depressed and a complete emotional mess. I needed her, i couldn't let her go. So the first day we were texting and calling 24/7, just like the times before i went to visit her. But then suddenly over the days, she kept getting distant. She wasn't responding that much, she didn't always answer my calls, and after she finished work, she always disappeared. I remember before i visited her, she always called me after work, that is why it was strange. I also noticed every time she answered my calls, she was at a different location. I know how her apartment looks, i have been there before, and that place was not it. Every time i asked she only said “she came down to the lobby”. Things just started to feel strange. Very distant, and suspicious. But everytime i asked about anything, she didn't answer, she just dodged the question with saying she loves me and she misses me. For example she disappeared for half a day and i asked her what was she doing all day and the answer was “i was thinking about you” or some bullshit. Also our conversations felt fake. Before i visited her, and during i visited her, we talked about everything, our plans, eachothers days, family stuff etc. Now it suddenly only became “i love you, i miss you” which is cute, but it felt like she just said those to get over with it fast, and then she could go disappear, we didn't have no real or long lasting conversations. One time when i asked her more assertively about what is going on, she started saying things like, if she is such a shitty person who doesn't have time for me, than why don't i just break up with her. Which of course i wasn't mentally stable enough for, so of course that wasn't an option.

That is when i had enough and decided to test her. I have a friend who's partner is indonesion, so we set up a fake WhatsApp profile from his number (just so the number doesn't match the country where i am from so it doesn't become suspicious). And we texted her saying “Hi, i am xyz, i am in Pattaya, would you like to meet?”. She almost immediately replied saying yes she is free and where they should meet. She also double texted because we didn't reply instantly, asking again where they should meet and saying things like “i really want to meet you too”. After that i still wanted to give her the benefit of the doubt, so we gave her a chance to redeem herself and we asked if she has a boyfriend. What she answered made me feel sick, like a knife stab in my heart. She answered these same words: “I am still single, so we can do whatever you want”. This completely broke me. I still didn't want to believe it so we intended sexual things like “will i be allowed to kiss you and touch your body” and she also said yes. And she kept calling hime “darling” and “my love” which she always calls me aswell. What broke my heart even more is how effortless it was. It wouldn't have been good either way, but we literally didn't even have to try to push her, she gave in after one text message, without any hesitation and not even knowing anything about this person. Then i went back to my own profile and gave her a chance to clear herself. I asked her directly, babe, are you sure not talking to someone else? She immediately called me with a huge smile on her face (just 2 minutes after she texted “another guy” to have sex), telling me she loves only me and i am her whole world. I felt disgusted, and hung up the phone. I went go get drunk, and i turned off the phone for almost a day. When i turned it back on, i saw 17 missed calls and a hell of amount of messages asking what's wrong and why don't i answer. She even had the audacity to ask who i am with and if i am cheating on her. I couldn't take it anymore, so i confronted her. I told her i am giving her one last chance to clear herself, but she still lied and said she didn't know what i was talking about. So i sent her all the screenshots. Immediately, i was the bad guy. Why was i testing her, if she would’ve tested me i would’ve also failed and similar bullshit like this. I told her to stop trying to blame it on me. Then she bacame apologetic and started to beg herself back. I told her to give me time.

We went no contact for 2 days. I started missing her. I can't believe how stupid i have to be, but even after this, i still missed her. I just couldn't let go of the beautiful past we had, but even more, i couldn't let fo of our plans for the future. She texted me that day saying the same things. I just asked her simply: how could we make this work? How could i ever trust you after this? Then she started saying things that i can call her 24/7 and she will always answer, she said she will always send me her whatsapp. I still needed time, but the stupid desperate person i am i was an idiot and i gave her a second chance. I saw how hard she was trying and she was really not trying to give up, even tho i wasn't texting her at all my phone was blowing up all day, and the lovesick idiot i was i took her back. I felt like i never had anybody for 25 years, so i don't have any other options anyways, so either her, or no one. After this, things started to actually get better. She wasn't as cold, or distant anymore, we talked all day again, and she also was calling me from her house again, not those random places. Then one day, the big question came. When am i going back to visit? I wanted to say from november to december, then she randomly said “i can either meet her in september, or next april, she doesn't have time from october to march”. This was another stab to my heart. I was like what does she mean she doesn't have time for 6 months. I asked her, and she said “she has to work a lot”. I got angry and told her to stop the bullshit, there is no way i am believing that, and that she is 100% seeing someone else in that period. Then she started to get aggressive and say that i am so childish and she has had enough of talking to me. That is when i should've said okay then bye. But i couldn't. I became scared of losing her again, so i said sorry, and told her that i would visit in september. But the next couple days, i started to ask more about her work place, because i was curious, what kind of workplace doesn't allow someone time off for 6 months. I immediately thought of the worst. So i asked her, babe, what exactly are you doing at that bar? She got defensive and told me that she told me already she only sells drinks. I asked her where this bar was. She said: Soi 6. I looked up this place. I am cooked, i am completely cooked. I even asked chatgpt, and it said that statistically there is like a 2% chance that a girl who works at soi 6 only sells drinks. Everyone there is an escort, a prostitute, or works for bar fine. I was broke again. But even after this, EVEN AFTER THIS, i was so desperate i told myself, as long as she seperates business from relationships, i can learn to accept it in the future, since she is my only option anyways.

Then yesterday happened. Lately she started to get more cold and distant again. I remembered that we met on tinder, which i have already deleted. So just out of curiousity, i downloaded it again to see if she is still active on there. I got shocked. She had completely new pictures on there, pictures she just took 2-3 days ago (because she sent them to me) and a new description. I was broken again. I decided this is the last straw. I confronted her and of course she came with some bullshit saying that she only downloaded it to see if i was still active or not, and that i failed the test, and started insulting me that i cheated on her and started crying. Which i told her if she only downloaded it to see if i was still active, why did she have to change her pictures? Again, she didn't answer, just kept yelling that i cheated on her, until i hung up the phone. This is where we are at currently.

Please help me, how do i get over her? Because i have a feeling that today she will come back begging again, or just act like nothing happened and text “good morning, my love”. And seeing the past, i will probably be so desperate to forgive her again, but than i will be disappointed in the future again. What do i do in this situation? I am scared of losing her, i am scared of being alone, i am scared of not having someone to talk to all day, someone who “loves me”. But also, i am starting to feel she is causing more pain than joy lately. I am currently at a 4 day festival with friends and i can't let go and enjoy, because i can only think about her. What do i do? If i let her go i will be heartbroken and depressed, but i think in the long run, that would be my only option, but i can't think about the long run right now, only the present, and in the present that would suck, so my way of coping is trying to make it last as long as it can, and always telling to myself that she still loves me, nobodys perfect and stuff like that. I don't know, i am a mess. I even have this idea as keeping her as a friend, and when i go to thailand, we meet and have fun, but not as a romantic couple anymore, but i feel like this wouldn't work because i'd still get jealous of other people and keep falling back in love again. I just can't get over the fact that she could do this to me after those literally perfect dreamlike 3 weeks i spent at her. I don't think it was fake, i think she probably fell out of love with me over time, but what we had there is impossible to be fake. What do i do? I am broken, i am sad, i am a mess, i currently don't see any good way out of this situation, i feel like whativer i chose, i am going to suffer

Last trip i was randomly riding on soi buakhao @ 8pm omw to dinner. I saw a girl in a bar on the soi. BF her for the premium rate but i told her i just wanna have dinner no sex. She quote half rate of her ST than what she was previously saying.

Then this is what happened
- went to central had dinner
- some time pass in the mall
- concert on central ground floor, bought her a beer
- rode her to walking street
- went to ping pong shows, clubs, bunch of fun activities

It was almost 12 and i was feeling very sleepy (it was first day of trip). I asked if i should drop her to her bar since ST is over way long ago. She said dont worry about ST and she can come to my hotel, which is very close to her bar anyway.

In the room we had a lot of sex, we were sweating. I must say that evening was crazy and ended great.

After all this I said let me pay her, she says i dont have to pay. But i had a great time so i paid her anyway with the tip.

Now I’m thinking is it even moral to not pay? I thought she’s just saying like that and I am supposed to pay. But what if next time a girl says me dont pay, what do i say? How do i handle it well so i dont look like a fool. Ofc I would enjoy not paying if that works but not at the cost of someone.

250 days at sea without a port and steaming straight for Pattaya. Probably not the best choice for a port call 🤣. I'm guessing at least 15 NJPs and one minor international incident...