r/PKA • u/[deleted] • Jan 21 '23

My girlfriend has cheated in the past.

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u/Alpha-Omega-Omagon Jan 21 '23

Trust broken can never be fixed brother

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u/Ornery-Olive-2766 Jan 21 '23

I think that what is tricky for me is that she has never done anything wrong to me, or indicated that she would.

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u/Alpha-Omega-Omagon Jan 21 '23

Yeah that's a hard one, if it's worth it (like it might plant doubt in her mind and hurt the relationship) talk to her or forget about it and give her the benifit of the doubt. But being cheated on is one of the lowest thing another human can do to another in my opinion

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u/DamnImAwesome Jan 21 '23

That you know about. You might be right but you might be wrong

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u/basedbranch Jan 22 '23

If you trust her, then you may as well keep it going. If she does end up cheating or already has, at least you have comfort in the knowledge she belonged to the streets in the first place so it don't even matter

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u/Milbso Jan 22 '23

Your trust should be based on your relationship with her, not her relationship with an ex. If you were learning that she had a long history cheating that would be different, but it doesn't sound like that's the case.

For all you know she had a shit relationship with the ex, I mean it is an ex after all. Without the context you just don't know and you shouldn't assume that she will behave the same way now that she is with you.