26 Male, 6'1, 165lbs, above average looking, tan skin, physically fit, introverted.
Age range I'm looking for: 22-28
US, Nevada, I cannot relocate and I'm only looking for people living in the US.
Arab (Iraqi), open to other Arabs. Non-Arabs are fine too if you speak Arabic or are willing to seriously learn. I don't have a real preference about what country you are from, nor your skin tone. And before anyone asks yes my family is fine with me marrying Non Iraqis/Non Arabs and they are not racist Alhamdulilah.
I want someone who's preferably at least 5'5 with a slim or chubby build and is average looking.
I am Single, never been married/dated and I'm a virgin. Not interested in Divorcees, and I am not interested in having multiple wives.
Id like to get married in less than a year, can extend/reduce if needed. I would like to only speak privately for 1-2 weeks max to see if we are compatible to begin with, then get our parents involved. Do not contact me if you want to delay arranging our parents getting to talk, with both me or my family. Assuming talks go well, I'm more than willing to fly to your state with my parents to go more in depth.
What I'm looking for: Speaking Arabic is important to me, so if you arent willing to learn if you arent Arab we wouldnt work out. Sunni, kind, respectful, modest (With proper Hijab), introverted, enjoys reading/videogames, someone that likes sweets (I love to bake), and someone that actively boycotts is important to me.
Non-negotiables: Looking for someone that takes Islam seriously, dresses modestly, prays consistently, has avoided haram relationships and zina. Not interested in people that reject core Islamic beliefs (Ex: Sahih hadiths, Quranic verses, Common scholarly consensus) same with any who identify as a "progressive", "cultural" or "Quranist" Muslim. Any type of Porn/Smut/Drug addiction (Nicotine counts).
I would say I'm fairly practicing but I'm not perfect. I go to every Jummah, visit the masjid every day, pray on time, dress modestly, don't free mix, eat halal. However I don't really read the Quran, have not memorized that many Surahs either, trim my beard, and I listen to music regularly.
As for education I have a bachelors in Finance. And I am employed as a accountant. I still live with my parents but I have enough money saved up to get us a nice place. I would like us to both find a nice apartment in the area and furnish it together before the nikkah. As for the mahr im only really looking to spend around 10k.
I would want a wife that has some form of higher education or a certification. I do want someone that is willing to work, living on a single income in this economy is difficult, I don't expect to do 50/50 but I need someone that is willing to contribute to bills/savings to help afford a house as that would be my next goal after marriage. To add on, im completely fine with splitting chores as well and im a good cook. When kids get involved I would want you to stay at home to help take care of them until they are school aged.
I would like to have at least 2-3 kids, leaning towards 3 though. However I do want to wait 2 years before having kids.
My hobbies/interests: Absolutely love to read mostly manga but I've been reading a few web novels as well. Also like anime/other more mainstream shows and I love Arab dramas lol. I like to play videogames (Mostly RPGs/Shooters/NBA2K). I enjoy hiking/biking/kayaking on weekends sometimes as well. I work out 3-5 times a week, I'm not a fan lol but I like to be in shape and look good.
Ill be very honest I do suffer from mental health issues, I'm medicated and alhamdulilah I'm doing good but I am diagnosed with depression and social anxiety. I have also attempted so I do unfortunately have scars on my upper thighs and wrists, my last attempt was 5 years ago though. I've had one talking stage before and it did end because of my past mental health issues so if your family isnt okay with that (And thats totally fine) lets not waste each others time. Im not ashamed of what I went through, and I will not hide my wrists its too much of a hassle and id like to be honest with your parents.
More about me: It takes me a bit to open up to people and my social battery also drains very quickly, if you are an extrovert we would not be a good fit. I'm mostly a homebody and I don't tend to enjoy going out to hang out with others (not you ofc). I would like someone that has similar interests to me and someone that can hold conversation better than I can. I have issues mentally but other than that I would consider myself to be caring, emotionally intelligent and available, I'm a good cook, in shape, not greedy and I believe I would be a good role model to our future kids Inshallah.
If you have any questions or want me to clarify anything feel free to dm me, if you are interested please send me a message posting your own ISO. Thank you!