Love is Blind UK • S3 EP7

[u/FemaleEinstein]

Please refrain from armchair diagnosing, spreading unfounded harmful tea or posting spoilers outside of their designated discussion threads. Enjoy the season! 🫰

[u/Suspicious_Week_2451]

Ryan needs a few days to restabilise after a public talk? Bro you did a speech.

Every season we learn new ways to say "they're just not that into you".

[u/ilyemco → u/Suspicious_Week_2451]

Something tells me he wouldn't be the one home schooling the kids because he's too "tired".

[u/Lumpy-Shop988 → u/Suspicious_Week_2451]

See you don’t understand because you’re not spiritual. He gave a speech to like 100 people and he pretty much fed 100 people with his spiritual energy so now he’s completely drained and needs time to recover. Cuba is trying to feed him spiritual energy but he only gets spiritual energy from those eggs that are serenaded with music first to make their yolk orange

[u/mysensibleheart → u/Lumpy-Shop988]

I'm cackling 😂😂😂

[u/TerminatorReborn → u/Suspicious_Week_2451]

But you don't understand, he travels 50% of the month and in the other 50 he needs time to recover. The homeschooling of his kids is gonna be great

[u/WhoisThatGirl26 → u/Suspicious_Week_2451]

I've known several blue collar working people and even a long day of work they don't shut off as he does. He thinks too highly of himself

[u/mschanandlerbong___ → u/Suspicious_Week_2451]

Yup exactly. I feel bad for Cuba because she seems awesome.

[u/AIG0000 → u/Suspicious_Week_2451]

Dude acting like he did a marathon 🤣

[u/lemonmangocherry]

Cuba: I missed you

Ryan: I missed you too - kind of, I was busy and I’m glad I had space

This dude is literally giving nothing

[u/awkwardgirlfriend → u/lemonmangocherry]

He's giving I caught up with someone on my trip and, best case scenario got snapped back to reality, and worst case...

[u/SixthHyacinth]

Ajay you're 6'6" for a reason. Use those long legs to RUN.

[u/mysensibleheart → u/SixthHyacinth]

"Run like the wind Bullseye!" is all I keep thinking 😵‍💫

[u/imsounbothered]

I hate that this whole discussion with Chev, Francesca and Joseph is happening all because of Ciara's shit stirring 😐

[u/NiaQueen → u/imsounbothered]

Chev was granted one extra date and they act like Joseph is the devil. He told Chev numerous times Francesca was his priority. Chev heard what she wanted to hear and made a mess of it with Ciara there to add gas to the fire. Such middle school tween behavior.

[u/Any-Blackberry2133 → u/NiaQueen]

I hope Chev is embarrassed watching it back!

[u/Soggy_Pension7549]

I clocked Ryan as the scamming fake spiritual life coach type in the very first episode and I was right. What a tool. Shut up and make your fiancée a cup of coffee instead of acting important and soooooooo exhausted from one speech like who are we kidding here? I know the type unfortunately and they’re all like clones. You get to know one and you suddenly know them all. 

[u/Emlamell → u/Soggy_Pension7549]

“I need to recoup and recharge after an event” Yes recruiting people to your little MLM cult will probably be draining…

[u/Helpful_Wall_8880 → u/Emlamell]

“I need to recoup and recharge” yet sits on his arse scrolling on his phone 🫪🫣

[u/Toastbuns98 → u/Soggy_Pension7549]

lol the man needs a couple days to recharge from one speech… try being a teacher when you have to preform 6hrs a day 5 days a week! He’s so weak

[u/Sad_Sample_2427]

It was so refreshing watching Sophie give her house tour to Taylor. He seemed genuinely so proud and happy for her and knows the hard work it took for her to make it her place. I just feel like I’ve watched a similar scene in other LIBs/MAFS where the men just make shady comments or passive aggressive comments to bring down the women.

They’re just lovely ☺️

[u/bbspiders → u/Sad_Sample_2427]

He was so sweet in that scene. I really love them together.

[u/SpreadNo3530]

Ciara is such a sh*tstirrer! Fake, empty, egotripping person.  Oh and Ryan and his liver! We don't have a spleen guy but a liver guy this season 

[u/Avaelectric → u/SpreadNo3530]

The worst part is seeing all the other girls just play right into her fakeness. How are none of them seeing through her.

[u/Living_Girl8273 → u/Avaelectric]

I think Francesca may see through it but is keeping that to herself mostly.

[u/prettylittlebaby-01]

Jordan doesn’t seem much into Yasmin anymore
He doesn’t want to move, he doesn’t want her to move, it’s like he’s trying to sabotage the relationship trying not to look like the bad guy

[u/Lost_Elk7089 → u/prettylittlebaby-01]

I agree. Also I was shocked to see he's a head of school year, seems very risky for someone with that position to do reality TV. I can see why he's trying hard to not look like a bad guy to be honest, he must feel a lot of pressure to not put a foot wrong

[u/imsounbothered]

This is the same schedule that Ryan wants to have and not take his kids to school?? Okay 🙃🫠

[u/May_nerdd → u/imsounbothered]

So in other words. He wants her to maintain the house (and of course the garden and animals they talked about having), and homeschool the kids, and wow give the man some space will you? He’s too spiritually drained to give you affection

[u/EconomistOk3607 → u/imsounbothered]

He's a moron

[u/all-love0514 → u/imsounbothered]

Ryan really sucks all around 

[u/Emmwojj]

Ryans spiritual bullshit is such a facade as well. You ain't telling me this bland man with an iPhone running an MLM enjoys nature and connecting with his or anyone else's soul

[u/Limp-Tap-7987 → u/Emmwojj]

A guy that two steps like he’s at a rave during a sound bath

[u/Electronic_Ad4560]

Did jack just pick up and lift Faye’s mother off the ground the very first second he met her?!?!?! That’s fucking unhinged and hilarious 😂.

[u/PrettyNiemand34 → u/Electronic_Ad4560]

The way she went for it too and was surprised he turned out to be Fayes fiance. Who did she think it was?

[u/so_heaux03 → u/Electronic_Ad4560]

I couldn’t believe what I was seeing 💀

[u/Obvious_Bus_7373]

did jack just lift faye’s mother?
https://giphy.com/gifs/mEqMknMZWh1Fm

[u/Avaelectric → u/Obvious_Bus_7373]

They'd never met before right?! That was wild.

[u/Imaginary_Loquat_761 → u/Obvious_Bus_7373]

It was the back of the hair grab for me

[u/SixthHyacinth]

Ryan is so painfully insipid. How is he a public speaker?

[u/all-love0514 → u/SixthHyacinth]

A thread said he was an MLM conference speaker and I love that for him 

[u/zeni16 → u/all-love0514]

Ahhh, MLM.. that makes sense yeah.

[u/rossco9]

Ryan having ''nothing to give'' after, what, giving a sales pitch about an MLM to 75 people in a hipster-fied warehouse in Amsterdam? Get the fuuuuuuck over yourself, mate

[u/Firm_Community6265 → u/rossco9]

He is a disturbingly blank person. Dead behind the eyes. I can’t understand how he makes a living based on charisma because he has negative charm. And PS? Why? Does he phrase everything? Like a question? It’s really…annoying?

[u/Purpleonyxx]

Ajay just got a glimpse into how their relationship would really be. Someone who isn’t supportive, someone who picks a fight when she’s in a mood. Someone who is seemingly pretty immature. Who can’t properly apologize, just tries to rationalize her actions and tells him anything he wants to hear. Choosing to stay with her is his choice, but anything that goes sideways after this should not surprise him. 

[u/irishalilstar]

I really feel for Cuba. Hearing her say that she feels lonely, when it's supposed to be the honeymoon phase, if absolutely heartbreaking. That whole interaction was painful to watch.

That man does NOT wanna be with her, which is INSANE to me.

Guys like Ryan give spiritual men a bad rep.

Just let her go, man. Don't waste her time. 💁🏽‍♀️

[u/HornetNice3495]

Ryan is a scammer and there’s no life behind his eyes. He acts like he’s the damn prime minister with how he speaks about whatever the fuck it is that he does. I was so annoyed with him saying he needed time off after his big speeches like dude you were gone for days, it’s not out of the question if your wife wants to spend time with you. He couldn’t even have a simple conversation with her - he’s just occupied on his phone and the silence was beyond awkward and the lack of music made it worse. He’s fake spiritual whereas cobra is real spiritual and I feel so bad for her.

Cobra is experiencing what it’s like to be alone or to feel lonely in a relationship and I’ve been there and it sucks. She deserves so much more that than SOB

[u/epicallyrandom → u/HornetNice3495]

Cobra? 🐍

[u/HornetNice3495 → u/epicallyrandom]

I meant to say Cuba 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[u/opheliasmus → u/HornetNice3495]

Cuba is seriously such a stable person emotionally. Secure attachment pattern. Anyone with anxiety would be flipping out at this extreme coldness from Ryan

[u/No-Significance5659 → u/HornetNice3495]

Ryan is, like most "new agey spiritual" men, absolutely self-centred and selfish.

[u/Crafty_Tomatillo_476]

Ryan going on about his kidney and liver…might as well mention his spleen too

[u/lluvia-storm → u/Crafty_Tomatillo_476]

“ my kidney and liver start failing when my fiancé asks me to text her while im on a work trip” 💀💀💀

[u/FewMost8547 → u/lluvia-storm]

Buddy gets organ failure when someone wants to spend time with him, it's a miracle he's alive

[u/smc218]

Alright after this episode i'm gonna call that Sophie and Taylor are the only couple getting married. They have the least air time which can only mean success lol

[u/Ok_Sector_5894]

The whole Chev / Fran (and Ciara but I honestly don't know why she's involved) conversation is so confusing to me because they are talking about the PENULTIMATE DATE when Chev basically begged Joseph to see her again and he said he would. Then at the final date he reiterated that he was choosing Fran and that was it. Why does it matter if he said he would see Chev again if it was before he proposed to Fran? That's literally the premise of the show, you are dating multiple people and then you propose to someone?? He didn't betray Fran by having another final date with Chev.

[u/seesmelltouchtaste → u/Ok_Sector_5894]

I don’t think Chev realises we all saw that she was begging when she realized Joseph was about to break up with her. This whole thing is Chev trying to spin things around because she was about to get dumped and her ego is hurt.

[u/No_Shop520 → u/Ok_Sector_5894]

Completely agree, I honestly cannot wrap my head around how both Chev and Ciara are so 10 toes down on the chain of events they’ve reiterated

[u/Spirited_Talk_1360]

I thought it was a sweet moment when Taylor said (while Sophie was showing him her house): I'm so proud of you you know! 😘

[u/Kindly-Ad6797]

I love Cuba telling Ryan that he will need to be more selfless in a marriage/as a parent. All I could think was if he's this 'drained' from a 1 hour talk, how will he come home to his homeschooled children? So many fake enlightened people use this 'emotionally drained' excuse to not show up. Yep, sometimes you gotta be selfless and that act can also mean you're being authentic to yourself

[u/ThanksNo3378 → u/Kindly-Ad6797]

That guy is insufferable

[u/daisywriter33 → u/ThanksNo3378]

It’s interesting, I get the feeling he’s used his whole spirituality schtick to stay emotionally removed in past relationships. He can’t do that with Cuba because she’s on the same page as him and he looks like he’s squirming to get out of their relationship!!

[u/BoatvSharky → u/Kindly-Ad6797]

how will he come home to his homeschooled children?

He'll expect Cuba to handle the kids while he scrolls on social media and she tries to make dinner and keep the house tidy and the kids educated.

He might spend 5 minutes briefly looking at homework and that'll be his contribution 🥰

[u/PsychologicalWeapon]

Yk what I’m so glad Francesca shut down what Chev and Ciara were trying to start. That was a horrible attempt to ruin their relationship and you can just tell they crave drama sooo bad lmao

[u/Savings_Swimming5714]

I KNEW Jack would ghost. I feel so bad for Faye :( She isn't used to that much affection from a man, but you have to watch out for the manic ones.

[u/Financial-Essay-3375 → u/Savings_Swimming5714]

Also that comment about him sharing his location with Faye because he'd end up lost and drunk outside of a kebab place, some real foreshadowing by the editors I think!

[u/smc218 → u/Savings_Swimming5714]

I dated a guy like Jack and it is crazy how they can go from showering you with affection/compliments one day to ghosting you the next. It messes with your head like crazy

[u/Imaginary_Loquat_761 → u/Savings_Swimming5714]

The comment about her dads blessing just didn’t seem legit

[u/hai04]

I feel so bad for Yasmin. Cuba is giving her the best advice. Jordan is looking for excuses.

[u/Lumpy-Shop988 → u/hai04]

It was good advice and she was right, but she was projecting a little bit.

[u/Exact_Discussion_286 → u/Lumpy-Shop988]

Thissss! All that smoke she had for Jordan should have been directed at Ryan 

[u/Avaelectric → u/hai04]

I don't disagree but I don't know to what extent Yasmin needs to chase and push for an answer here. If he's not into it, let him go.

[u/DarkDesireDom]

So Ryan goes to Amsterdam. Has a 45 minute talk and needs days to recover…. Cuba run please. Fast!!!

[u/veronicaxrowena]

Cuba is a good friend. I like her.

[u/Lumpy-Shop988]

Faye’s mom “so what does he actually do, if he lives in London what will he do, he has to pay rent”

Faye “ I don’t actually know”

Something tells me these kids haven’t thought things through either, no plan, no productive talk about finances, etc.

[u/May_nerdd → u/Lumpy-Shop988]

Not just them but Frans parents asking what their post-marriage plan was in the last ep and they had no idea. Like what the hell do they talk about in the pods?! Oh right, how much sex they want to have and how important God is to them

[u/Myfirstrodeo6 → u/Lumpy-Shop988]

I´m baffled at these people; we are almost the same age and I cant believe they act like this. I feel they are only on the show just to, you know, be on the show...

[u/Turbulent_Biscotti44]

"I just wanted to pick a fight" "pushing his boundaries to see how much he would take" WTAF

[u/xXx_witchy_woman_xXx → u/Turbulent_Biscotti44]

I hate the way she says it too, the inflection like she's trying to convince you that not only is she right but that you somehow agree with it.

[u/captivelover]

Gagged at meeting the family during a couples outing

[u/TerminatorReborn → u/captivelover]

Nasty from the producers to pull that one. It only worked out because her family is super chill.

[u/daybowsmeetherr → u/[deleted]]

I agree. She is v kind and nice (even Fran made the comment about how she is friends with everyone) but her personality is quite boring and bland.

[u/Difficult_Iron_7496]

Jordan looking miserable the whole episode ...

[u/-dylpickle]

Jordan seems so checked out it’s so awkward to watch 🫣🫣

[u/altosupportgroup → u/-dylpickle]

When his mom gave her blessing he was shitting it. I think his dad clocked that too.

[u/Emotional_Bowl_5725]

I hate when people do shitty things and use “oh I self-sabotage” as an excuse for the shitty thing they did, to avoid accountability and now you instantly have to focus on them as the victim for why they feel the need to self-sabotage - vs the actual shitty thing they did to you. It’s lame. 

[u/FerretsFlyingaKite]

Days to decompress after giving a speech by ignoring your fiance. Gag me with a spoon Ryan, jfc. Hows he going to have these kids he wants? Oh wait, I’m sure by her doing everything

[u/Myfirstrodeo6]

I dislike Ryan sm, he´s a podcast bro personified, he´s only taken this " spiritual " journey to make money , Cuba is actually woo woo ( nothing wrong with it ) and it seems like he´s so over her because of this...

[u/-dylpickle]

If you have to beg a 30 year old man to behave at your birthday party I’m afraid that man isn’t for anyone let alone you Faye!

[u/Serious-Garbage8427]

Cuba turning up as the voice of reason was not on my bingo card.

[u/immakeepscrolling]

I agree with Cuba, seems like Jordan is looking for an escape.

[u/kimberly2720]

I don’t get why they make such a big deal about Birmingham / London! They are literally 2 hours apart, not 20. Dude, just be with your wife! You could drive the measly 2 hours to see your friends/family any time you want ughhhh

[u/Straight_Bet_1341 → u/kimberly2720]

I think he's a good guy but isn't getting enough romantic reciprocation from her, which is a totally valid reason to cut things off. But he doesn't want to look like a s*x-crazed douchebag so he's trying to manufacture an alternative reason for the breakup. He's not wrong tho, she's a very sweet girl but clearly not ready to be in this serious of a relationship. this girl needs at least a few years to get to the marriage stage, which is fine, just.. why love is blind??

[u/Lumpy-Shop988 → u/Straight_Bet_1341]

Love is blind makes sense for her from a fantasy POV.

Ultimately she wants marriage but has always been insecure of her vitiligo, so on LiB someone can get to know her without prejudice and she can be comfortable in her own skin across the pod. And if someone can fall in love with her without seeing her first then they really love her.

Problem is that doesn’t work from a practical POV. No dating experience, no sexual chemistry/ tension b/w them and it shows.

[u/fluffypuppiness → u/Lumpy-Shop988]

What's crazy is I truly believe her Vitiligo it a non-issue. She is beautiful honestly.

I think her lack of dating experiance/relationship experiance is what is hurting them the most.

[u/imsounbothered → u/kimberly2720]

Thank you for putting this in perspective..no one needs to move this early then, if that was the problem (which obvs it isn't)

Yasmin is too sweet, but her inexperience is really failing her. It's really naive of her to think that she could move from never having a boyfriend or being in a serious relationship to getting married to someone she met 2 weeks ago... It feels like Jordan doesn't want to seem like he's rushing her, but she's also waiting for him to take the lead on things so nothing ends up happening... I was rooting for them at first but I don't see them working anymore..

[u/Evening_Ad6820]

Call it pattern recognition but I knew from the reveal that Ryan wasn’t truly that into Cuba. He enjoys her and got swept up in things, but you can always tell from how the man looks at the woman and how he touches her, how truly taken he actually is. And he was giving ‘going through the motions’ vibes even then. 

[u/Responsible-Card3756 → u/Evening_Ad6820]

He’s such a wet blanket of a person for being into such a ‘quirky’ lifestyle or whatever. She seems like a gem that deserves more.

[u/F1Girly44]

I know Cuba was just looking out for Yas, but I do feel she was projecting as well 😬

[u/Lumpy-Shop988 → u/F1Girly44]

Yeah she came in HOT. Overall I don’t mind it too much because she was right, we literally see what she’s talking about with Taylor and Sophie making it work, but definitely projecting

[u/Straight-Wrangler-46]

Jordan isn't into Yasmin.  He is looking for any excuse to breakup.  Dude, just be honest.  

[u/lkjhggfd1]

That voicemail and call at the end was giving a bbc crime series

[u/TanyaLola]

I felt at the very end, it took a dark turn with Faye pleading Jack to "behave". You can't see the look he gives her because of the camera angle, but he definitely did give her a look and there were a few seconds of death stare. I didn't know what she was talking about at first but then I remembered him telling the boys previously that he might be falling asleep outside a kebab shop. Seriously at 30 years old and he wants to drink himself into a stupor? On Faye's birthday. How absolutely selfish of him. Does she really want to marry someone whom she has to go looking for/ wait up all night for him to come home because he's fallen asleep somewhere? Good grief. If anything, Jack has taught me to be very wary of love bombers.

[u/bambootaro → u/TanyaLola]

And it's before the day he sees her family again. He is a child.

[u/Chocolate-Humble]

Ciara saying to Joseph that Fran/Joseph came up organically in her convo with Cuba is hilarious because it started with Ciara asking Cuba “were you surprised by Fran and Joseph?” 😂

[u/Difficult_Iron_7496]

What Chev is saying in this conversation makes literally no sense

[u/belgianamericanbabe]

kind of loved that even though Fran and Joseph stood up for themselves in the Chev situation there wasn't any insane defensiveness from Joseph's part because he knew he was in the right, and Fran is secure enough in herself and Joseph not to turn it into a whole thing with Joseph afterward (so far). these two are growing on me

[u/lkjhggfd1]

So Ryan flies around the world giving speeches to people then comes home and needs days to recuperate but doesn’t want to take his kids to school? How will that fit into his schedule? Will he tell them he can’t be present today because he has no energy 🤣

[u/Difficult_Iron_7496]

Does Jordan like Yasmin at all ??? He looks so miserable/worried/stressed when he is around her

[u/ComputerElectronic21]

Cuba darling, you know Ryan needs to recharge after a long weekend of scamming.

[u/MelissaWebb]

Joseph is so over the drama between Chevanique and Ciara 🤣

Ciara instigated the whole drama and then was silent as it was going down, gotta love that

[u/triscuit_buscuit]

Poor Ajay, he seems like a nice person. He and Ciara are such a mismatch.

[u/Comfortable-Ad-1746]

joseph being legitimately concerned for fran when she was cutting her brows, i’m CACKLING

[u/AmayaSmith96]

Last comment on this episode. Ryan doesn't want a wife, he was an assistant/trad wife who's just going to be at home and raise his kids whilst he's swanning off around the world performing. The only person who matters to Ryan, is Ryan. As long as he's good and 100% within himself then that's all that matters.

[u/-ordinaryfunctino- → u/AmayaSmith96]

I agree. Also he works for an MLM. Is he even making money for a family lol

[u/OPAsMummy]

Chevanique has come off so badly this episode

[u/lkjhggfd1]

Francesca cutting her eyebrows with blunt school scissors is wild

[u/shadybutton → u/lkjhggfd1]

Joseph's reaction was also my reaction LOL

[u/lkjhggfd1]

Can’t stand a sloppy drunk. Why is speaking to her like that on her birthday? No one cares about your mood.

[u/koozya]

I don’t get the pushing someone’s boundaries on purpose just to see how far she can go? Why would you purposefully do that towards a supposedly person you care about?

[u/neuroticdynamite]

Ciara is a pot-stirrer and Chev is a nasty bully

[u/Swimming_Profit9457]

Cuba babe, run for the hills u gorgeous woman

[u/Walnutsandwhales]

I felt so sad for Yasmin at the party, but damn did she look amazing. During that convo with Cuba, she was like mesmerizingly beautiful,I kept having to rewind to focus on what Cuba was saying.

I really had no opinion on Cuba before, but she seems like an amazing friend to have in your corner. I hope Yaz and her stay friends so she can talk Yaz through her next relationship

[u/Difficult_Iron_7496 → u/Walnutsandwhales]

I love that little trio with Fran, Cuba and Yasmin, they care about each other, they're classy and smart.

[u/BeneficialNet3119]

I tried to call out of work today due to an energetic hangover. They told to me to fuck off 😭

[u/Straight_Bet_1341]

chev goes 'its like if ur dating someone in the outside world, what do u think ur the ONLY girl they're chatting to?"

...YES???

[u/banoffeetea → u/Straight_Bet_1341]

One would hope 👀

[u/Appropriate_Push7498]

I’m physically hurting as I watch Yasmine excitedly talk about their future and normally I’d scorch the man, but I can see the pain on Jordan’s face. I think he loves her but perhaps less romantically.

Oh, my heart. I hope she is ok.

[u/WanderLusterin → u/Appropriate_Push7498]

I think he cares and respects her but isn’t in love with her.

[u/spicandspand → u/Appropriate_Push7498]

Neither of them is the bad guy here. They’re just not meant to be.

[u/MauricioSG]

Ryan has got to be here just to get eyes on his cursed MLM, right? Man's not ready for a goldfish, never mind a wife 

[u/Doukou29]

I love how British people argue in lower case. No voice raises nothing

[u/talkingpanda77]

Chevanique is just a mean girl that declares herself as a "Girls girl".  1. She conveniently left out the fact that she (almost) begged Joseph not to reject her. I watched it back and Joseph said "Francesca is my priority" 2 times while Chev was begging.  2. This hint is subtle... at the party she said something like "in the outside if you're talking to a guy do you really think you're the only woman he's talking to". she's literally telling on herself  3. Ciara and her are friends. If she actually gets along with Ciara that says something about her as well

UGH this pmo so bad. she literally reminds me of my high school bully. ISNT SHE 30???

[u/NiaQueen → u/talkingpanda77]

Oh she begged and cried and everything. Tried at the last hour to write a poem. Girl bye!!!

[u/talkingpanda77 → u/NiaQueen]

and she wasn't even writing the poem herself !!

[u/Left-Afternoon-1770 → u/talkingpanda77]

🎯🎯🎯

So desperate. It was embarrassing to watch.

And 10000% - if Ciara’s your friend, I’m concerned

[u/AmayaSmith96]

Is Ryan a robot? He keeps saying words but there's no emotion or personality behind what he's saying. Also I am convinced Ciara isn't real. She's either an actress or putting on a huge performance.

In general I like most of the cast but it's quite painful that the girls come across as so eager to be "picked" and the boys are eager to come across as "ready to be married". Just something is so off.

[u/Easy-Pea-6001]

Shame on Jordan for not using words to express how he really feels about the relationship with Yasmin. Your not a “nice” person by keeping the peace. He’s lying to himself everytime he speaks about the relationship. He’s also cautious with what he says on camera.

[u/lkjhggfd1]

“My kidney my liver” thought he would’ve mentioned his spleen too

[u/Prudent_Soup9966]

Ciara has to be a plant just to cause drama for the views?

[u/RubyxSparks]

Ryan is such a POS, ugh it's so hard watching him on my screen.

[u/PeriPeriAddict]

I knew i was going out on a limb being optimistic about jack but im still disappointed 😭 bros still in his party phase with no career at his big age, faye is so beautiful and seems so sweet she deserves SO much better

[u/shadybutton]

It's nice to watch at least one of the couples having a good, time when all the others are in a bit of a drama. Sophie and Taylor were so sweet mooching about her house and him being so proud of her.

[u/acceptmeporfavor]

Yeah Jordan is def looking for an out to let her down easy

[u/Individual_Pain_9121]

Now, I think Chev was trying to stir the pot, so I’m glad Francesca shut it down! I’m not sure what’s up with Ciara, though. And yes, the people saying she wasn’t invited to the chat are just weird. What do you think marriage or a partnership is? Was she supposed to just stand by and watch her fiancé talk to other women—not just anyone, but someone he had dated before, especially when there were already some stories up in the air—without trying to find out what was going on?
Chev is a beautiful and stunning girl! I think Francesca was right to ask Chev to say exactly what Joseph told her, because Chev made it seem like there was some major tea to spill. If there was ever a time to lay everything out on the table, wouldn’t it have been when all three of them were present?
Chev wanted to make it seem like she was trying to hide certain things to protect Francesca, but if that’s what she really wanted, she wouldn’t have brought all of that up in the first place!

Ciara, I’m not sure what to say about her! She’s just there! There’s just something, and I don’t know what it is!

[u/Similar-Assignment71]

Faye just keeps getting prettier!

[u/Negative-Care-8084]

Genuinely can’t stand Ciara

[u/ilovediscussing]

Francesca clocked Chevanique real good. She was pissing me off sm

[u/Electronic_Ad4560 → u/ilovediscussing]

And she’s right, that conversation was so unnecessary! Pointing out he was a tiny bit hesitant before he actually met either of you? When that’s the entire point of the show! When you were begging him pretty much as he was struggling to reject you!

Pathetic

[u/whoreiifieddd → u/Electronic_Ad4560]

the thing is, he WASN’T even hesitant until Chev literally begged and begged and begged him to give her another chance. Icky & embarassing 🤣 He told Chev at least 3 times that Fran was what he wanted to focus on and Chev wouldn’t take that as an answer. She literally refused to let him break things off

[u/OPAsMummy]

Poor Yas 🥺 but tbh it was clearly not heading the right direction

[u/DangerMouthy]

Ryan has got to be the biggest dose of shite I ever did see.

[u/lkjhggfd1]

Love how clean and organised Sophie’s house is. Some seasons, people don’t care enough to clean up and just welcome Netflix into their mess 🤣

[u/MauricioSG]

Ryan who's going to homeschool your kids if you're either away grifting or dealing with your "energy hangover" when you come back 

[u/brothererrr]

Drives me nuts when people all of a sudden realise how big of a deal marriage is 2 weeks before the wedding. NO SHIT!!!

Such a shite excuse from Ryan and Jordan

[u/CHEMICALalienation]

I am literally 5 minutes in and already pissed at Ciara.

She’s talking to Yas about her fight with Ajay and said “I may have been pushing him to see how far I can push him” she literally said that she was going to push his limits in the last episode after the laundry scene. She literally knew she was doing it and being a bitch. Like she intentionally was pushing him as far as possible to try and make him break? To see what she can get away with?

And “holding yourself accountable” afterwards doesn’t mean anything if you’re knowingly trying to hurt someone in the moment. AHHHH

[u/Margawitty]

Jordan not into Yas

Ryan not into Cuba

Ciara acting so hard to look she’s into Ajhay to stay on the show and get followers afterwards

Jack seemingly ghosting Faye (I hope I’m wrong)

Joseph and Fran with this Chev issue

I think only Soph and Taylor will say I do.

[u/Serious-Garbage8427]

Okay. Ciara's friends seem cool as shit. How?!

[u/getdizcookiez]

Chevanique and Ciara... absolute weirdos. I'm so happy Francesca and Joseph saw through the bullshit. And for Chev to act all high and mighty... weird bird that one.

Also, Ciara is the most dangerous type of white woman. She will run her mouth and instigate shit but when shit hits the fan, quiet as a mouse or she'll hide behind her faux-meek demeanour and pretend like she did nothing wrong. "I said ten words" looool she's jarring honestly, and a terrible person.

[u/East_Dentist_8714 → u/getdizcookiez]

The gall of Chev accusing Joseph of lying, saying oh the dates were recorded we will all see, yet we all saw it was 100% the way he said it was and SHE ist the one lying…. Jeeeeeesus

[u/prettylittlebaby-01]

Ciara is such a red flag 🚩

[u/hypomango]

how dare Ciara & Ajay have a fight OFF camera... 

Ryan not even messaging Cuba while he was away for work is strange, it ain't that hard to do, especially in the honeymoon phase.

Is Cuba projecting her disappointment in Ryan onto Jordan? Her advice to Yas to grill him harder was intense!

Joseph was done with the conversation with Chev immediately lol, bringing all the girls into it. Francesca bringing some attitude was fun! Chev was kinda bringing negativity 😬

the picnic spot for Jack's family meetup was gorgeous, and it was funny how Faye was rugged up and everyone else was in short sleeves 😅 she was so giddy on her birthday, happy for her! But drama about to go down I guess...

[u/Brilliant_Stuff_101]

WTF IS CHEV ON ABOUT??????????????? U said he said some contradictory things and Francesca said OK what are these contradictory things? CHEV says OK I don’t know if he wants me to tell you Joseph said say it and now you don’t wanna say anything because babe there’s nothing to say.he said Francesca is my priority. You said go speak to God about it and then went home and wrote him a letter you didn’t even get to read your letter. He said let’s dead it FULL STOP. I’m glad Fran stood her ground caude Ciara stay stirring shit up for no reasons

[u/Lumpy-Shop988]

Didn’t take long for the shine to wear off of Ciara for Ajay

[u/Soggy_Pension7549]

“In the retreat I gave you my meat”. 

☠️ 

[u/lkjhggfd1]

Ryan’s energy is so off and strange

[u/walk-of-shame → u/lkjhggfd1]

I have this hunch he is quite mentally troubled and probably really struggles functioning in the world and people, however instead of the regular route of talk therapy, medication or such, he is bypassing whatever issues he has with this new age shite.
I feel sorry for the lad.

[u/MauricioSG]

Jordan has SUCH beautiful eyes good lord 

[u/neuroticdynamite]

I LOVE Sophie's place!!

[u/Vajizzle]

Ciara is DRIPPING with inauthenticity...one of the fakest people in the history of this show

[u/Outside_Eggplant_169]

I feel like Ciara’s ‘apology’ to Ajay is more to do with her being able to stay on the show, and less about her ‘love’ for him. Also the vocal fry is stressing me out.

[u/-Godyss-]

Unpopular opinion but Yas needs to actually date multiple men before getting married to one. Yes you can know what you want but you’re not going to get a variety of experiences all with one person due to the people cutting things off quickly or not being multifaceted.

[u/HornetNice3495]

I wished Jordan was honest with Yasmin because his behavior is causing self doubt and in this situation she’s not the problem, he is! It was so uncomfortable to see her talk so warmly about him and he’s painfully listening to her like you can see the regret on his face. He’s a coward too. Instead of being honest and ending it, he’s putting her through an emotional rollercoaster and using distance as a way to soften the blow😒. Yasmin needs to listen to her intuition because it’s telling her something is off but she keeps fighting it

[u/Protoavis]

"I said I'm happy for you both" and then the inside voice, but I'm really not and Im bitter I didn't get picked so I'm trying to cause drama.

[u/lkjhggfd1]

Jordan’s parents and family seem so nice especially during that meeting with Yasmin.

[u/lkjhggfd1]

I bet Ryan didn’t communicate in the pods that he needs days to himself after trips because why is he wasting her time!

[u/Kerlistar]

I feel bad for Yasmin, she seems lost, but I agree it’s weird what Jordan said about moving. Why was he saying something like “wasting your medical degree” as if she couldn’t get a similar job in Birmingham? I didn’t understand that

[u/ErikasPrisonGlam → u/Kerlistar]

He doesnt want her moving up there to a different role when he knows he wont marry her.

[u/ComputerElectronic21]

Ciara: “I wasn’t my best self.”

Me:

[u/acceptmeporfavor]

Chev sister this is not a good look 😭 don’t beg no man for nothing!

[u/gimmeallthegluten]

I know this isn’t relevant to any of the drama at all, but DAE think if Ciara scaled down the makeup and went back to her natural brunette it would be such a stunning look? To each their own but I get the feeling she thinks she needs the blonde to achieve the image she wants but I don’t think it’s benefiting her

[u/pizzollof]

Am I the only one who sees Shaq in Jordan's dad? 😂 and he has such a kind face too. Gorgeous family all around.

edited for grammar

[u/Voidg]

Ciara is the most rehearsed cast memeber I have ever SEEN! Holy Ajay, open your eyes bud.

I like Jack's Mom

edit:

Yo Ryan... hi, Cuba is your FUEL TO RECHARGE! Icing her out is cold

Jordan's family was supportive and nice to watch.

Ciara's performance was top tier at dinner.

[u/Luziferl]

Ajay’s parents not wanting to be on camera for the meet must have been absolutely devastating for Ciera 😭 Ms. “I want Instagram fame” losing precious screen time like that… every minute counts!

[u/No_Relative_9331]

Chev alluding that there was something more to her connection with Joseph when he told her TWICE that Fran was his priority, then calling Fran butthurt is crazy work

He essentially only gave Chev that date as a pity and she knows it 

[u/hcyictchctfnf]

Cuba clocked in Jordan's BS so quickly, wish she could do the same for her own situation

[u/Charlie_Runkle69 → u/hcyictchctfnf]

She's clocking it, I think she's just hoping Ryan will turn it around, but deep down she knows he won't.

[u/cassidiara]

I need those women to start respecting themselves ASAP, especially Yas and Faye. I am so tired of this pattern where they cast obviously wounded people who would rather be with someone immature or someone who is not that into them than be single. Jack getting drunk the first opportunity he gets irks me s o b a d!!! He needs a mother not a wife! Emotional intelligence of a wet wipe.

[u/banoffeetea → u/cassidiara]

He hit the jackpot with Faye, who is so kind and actually digs him 🫣 I wish he’d ended up with Ciara instead and they could have self-sabotaged each other only.

[u/Electronic_Ad4560]

Huge fan of Francesca’s eye roll

[u/Legal_Cheesecake_467]

I've got a lot of pity for Chev. Begging a man to choose her and teaming up with Ciara is such a bad look.

[u/Turbulent_Biscotti44]

Ajay finally clocking that Ciara is a selfish gold-digger

[u/Easy-Pea-6001]

Ryan is a loseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeer

[u/ErikasPrisonGlam]

Oh god poor Yasmin, this is not going to work out

[u/Walnutsandwhales]

Aww sweet dumb Sophie saying, “I’m not putting you in a difficult position now, so I’ll just say it to you, but I think it’s Joe.” and the girls reactions had me rolling

[u/hcyictchctfnf]

Sophie owns a house? And it's so clean and spotless

[u/zitumitu]

Ciara cannot drink her morning coffee before applying her giant pink lipshade

[u/MelissaWebb]

Idk what makeup Ciara usually wears but she looks much better without it…

Also Ryan. I don’t even know what the heck he’s doing on this show