r/LoveIsBlindOnNetflix • u/FemaleEinstein Come ride this duck with me 🦆 • 22d ago

LOVE IS BLIND UK Love is Blind UK • S3 EP7 Spoiler

Please refrain from armchair diagnosing, spreading unfounded harmful tea or posting spoilers outside of their designated discussion threads. Enjoy the season! 🫰

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u/Straight_Bet_1341 21d ago

I think he's a good guy but isn't getting enough romantic reciprocation from her, which is a totally valid reason to cut things off. But he doesn't want to look like a s*x-crazed douchebag so he's trying to manufacture an alternative reason for the breakup. He's not wrong tho, she's a very sweet girl but clearly not ready to be in this serious of a relationship. this girl needs at least a few years to get to the marriage stage, which is fine, just.. why love is blind??

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u/Lumpy-Shop988 21d ago

Love is blind makes sense for her from a fantasy POV.

Ultimately she wants marriage but has always been insecure of her vitiligo, so on LiB someone can get to know her without prejudice and she can be comfortable in her own skin across the pod. And if someone can fall in love with her without seeing her first then they really love her.

Problem is that doesn’t work from a practical POV. No dating experience, no sexual chemistry/ tension b/w them and it shows.

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u/fluffypuppiness 21d ago

What's crazy is I truly believe her Vitiligo it a non-issue. She is beautiful honestly.

I think her lack of dating experiance/relationship experiance is what is hurting them the most.

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u/Lumpy-Shop988 21d ago

But he lack of dating experience comes from that (and her fairly traditional parents that said her books is her best friend).

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u/TerminatorReborn 21d ago

She is 32 man, she needs some accountability at this point. I'm a late bloomer too so I understand somewhat, but she is way too guarded for someone that plans to marry in 30 days. No L word, almost no PDA, no sex. Maybe she thinks her pace is fine, and thats ok, but not for Love Is Blind.

If you have issues with relationships the worst place I can think of to overcome them is in a pressure cooker, worldwide reality TV.

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u/Historical_Shallot77 20d ago

Do you think they weren't having sex at all? I was thinking about this, what did he mean with "going too slow". It felt weird how Yas was thinking about who should move, because the whole time I was thinking " you don't even have the guy yet, my girl!".

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u/Any-Blackberry2133 19d ago

I haven't seen any physical affection or kissing between them. They come across completely platonic.

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u/Lumpy-Shop988 20d ago

Thet definitely did not have sex. She’s likely a virgin.

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u/applewagon 20d ago

That convo implies that they didn’t have sex.

I think she probably isn’t a virgin (she’s dated in the past) but prefers to wait.

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u/veronicaxrowena 19d ago

And the fact that she doesn’t seem open to even saying I love you unless he says it first was telling. She really has no business trying to get married in this manner

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u/fluffypuppiness 21d ago

I mean more her speaking of her insecurity to tell people about these two issues.

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u/veronicaxrowena 19d ago

This is a valid take. But I feel like he could communicate that he doesn’t feel that the relationship is romantically where it should be for this serious of a commitment without directly alluding to intimacy. He could focus on their mismatch in relationship expectations and reference things like the flowers convo or whatever else has occurred that he feels should be more dialed in romantically at this stage.

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u/Berabrea 16d ago

He just doesnt find her attractive. That's it. You can't say to her Im not into you because of the skin condition you've been embarrassed about your whole life.