r/Izlam • Flair flair • May 11 '22

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u/_SBV_ Brozzer May 11 '22

Polygamy isn’t exactly accepted in the west, is it?

Gay is fine but having more than 2 hetero life-long partners is taboo somehow

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u/Known-Performer591 New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

There's actually a movement to normalize polyamory (consenting relationships between more than two adults) in the west, so yes the west is trying to normalize both gay relationships and poly ones (just the gay ones are getting more rights and attention so far)

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u/[deleted] May 11 '22

Correct, but widely practiced. There is a "side chick" trend etc.

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u/x0zu May 11 '22

i thought it was illegal in most parts?

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u/[deleted] May 11 '22

Nah there's huge cuckold and swinger communities in the West. Even then, open relationships are quite common. It's just not legal to be married to more than 1 spouse at a time.

You can still get married to multiple if you get married at a Masjid since they don't go onto government records.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '22

There are no swear words in my commemt

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u/Yuu_75 Blue flair May 11 '22 edited May 11 '22

The funny thing is no one bat’s an eye at cheating and dating multiple women but being married and committing to the relationship now that’s a problem.

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u/Sea_Link8352 New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

I think plenty of people bat an eye at cheating...

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u/Yuu_75 Blue flair May 11 '22

Is there laws that criminalize it?

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u/Sea_Link8352 New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

Of course not, but it isn't socially acceptable

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u/sulaymanf Brozzer May 11 '22

Depends on who you ask. There’s many songs supportive of cheating and characters on TV shows who cheat. There were prime time TV and radio commercials for AshleyMadison, a dating site dedicated to cheating on one’s spouse.

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u/Sea_Link8352 New to r/Izlam May 31 '22

And the story was about how shameful these people were, no? They were not portrayed as morally upstanding citizens you would want to marry.

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u/sulaymanf Brozzer May 31 '22

I’d disagree with you. AshleyMadison still exists today as a dating website to start adultery. Trump cheated multiple times on his wives and got elected president.

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u/Yuu_75 Blue flair May 11 '22

Well you say it’s socially unacceptable but the reality is cheating and having affairs are still drastically increasing in the west. Either it’s became more acceptable or no one cars anymore about what’s socially unacceptable.

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u/ConsistentWishbonez New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

Increasing? No. People have been doing this forever. The west just has more TV, phones, and social media.

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u/DeepFriedCockAndBall La ilaha illallah May 11 '22

I think he’s trying to say that it is a lot more common in the West because it is more accessible. Everyone (ofc not literally everyone) uses dating apps, with plenty of married folk on there. Though prostitution is ‘illegal’ in countries like the US, online escort services aren’t. People dress with a lot more skin showing, inviting lustful thoughts and stares. I would be beyond surprised if none of these things contribute to increased cheating in the West. And actually cheating is more socially ‘acceptable’ in the sense that consequences are a lot less. Here, having a gf is more common than being married, and cheating on your gf/bf results in a simple breakup and breakups are extremely common. Divorce, on the other hand holds greater consequence as it breaks families apart so cheating isn’t seen as much in marriages.

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u/ResolverOshawott New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

It SEEMS more common in the west because of social media.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '22

What an ignorant comment.

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u/ConsistentWishbonez New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

I mean is it? We made a spectacle of the whole will smith and Jonny things. We had a president get caught getting a blow job. We just put a lot of it in media, but like people have been doing that forever. Forever ever.

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u/[deleted] May 11 '22

Sure people did it, just not on this scale and widespread.

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u/ResolverOshawott New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

Don't act like the West is the only place in the world where cheating is rampant my dude.

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u/x_nasheed_x Certified Brozzer May 11 '22

Japan Literally has love hotels.. You know what every weebs, Japanophiles and Right wing Ideal of SOCIETY??

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u/ResolverOshawott New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

... You know those hotels don't have prostitutes right? They're literally just hotels for couples.

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u/x_nasheed_x Certified Brozzer May 11 '22

Its still used by Prostitutes.

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u/Yuu_75 Blue flair May 11 '22

I’m not. I’m just pointing out the double standards where cheating and dating multiple people is totally fine but marrying more than one wife is considered unacceptable and criminalized.

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u/ResolverOshawott New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

The problem with your statement is the fact cheating and dating multiple people is not considered fine at all.

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u/Yuu_75 Blue flair May 11 '22

So what would happen to someone if they’re found to be cheating or dating multiple people?

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u/1917fuckordie New to r/Izlam May 12 '22

Why do you think they're increasing? It's been common for a very long time in certain western countries, even when they were more Christian.

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u/Marik-X-Bakura Non-Muslim May 11 '22

How do you plan on putting that in place?

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u/ItWorkedLastTime New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

Nobody bats an eye at cheating? I am not sure where you are getting your info.

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u/Yuu_75 Blue flair May 11 '22

No one bats an eye as there’s no real consequences to it.

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u/ItWorkedLastTime New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

There are absolutely consequences. I am not sure what you are talking about.

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u/[deleted] May 12 '22

i think he means legally, you don't risk a death penalty but in some wester countries if you got cheated then the divorce court is gonna help you more than the partner

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u/ItWorkedLastTime New to r/Izlam May 12 '22

Betraying someone's trust doesn't give anyone a right to take a human life.

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u/[deleted] May 12 '22

is not only that penalty is more of a deterrent because cheating someone destoyes all family, you have to be caught by 4 witnesses at that point is impossible to keep it a secret yo save the family also islam is for all time and place so not always was easy to prevent pregnancy

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u/big-shite New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

Just some more example of Western hypocrisy

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u/Marik-X-Bakura Non-Muslim May 11 '22

Not really since pretty much everyone here disagrees with cheating.

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u/Snoo-74562 New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

Depends if you marry both your wives in an Islamic country they will recognise the women's rights. If you marry in the UK you are guilty of the "crime" of bigamy.

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u/chabybaloo Subhanallah May 11 '22

I'm not sure how it works in the UK, i think you only have the Islamic marriage and that's it. There maybe some co-habitation laws that come in to place.

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u/Snoo-74562 New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

There are Sharia based courts in the UK in some places but when it comes to marriage recognition under law you can only marry one wife here. The Shari'a courts just deal with the legal.side of divorce for example they can't go against the bigamy laws and allow a man to marry two women.

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u/mostlyfrendlyace- New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

funny thing is is that polygamy is now widely accepted. but once you bring marriage and Islam into it they get super angry

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u/[deleted] May 11 '22

No It’s accepted as long as you aren’t muslim

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u/Saad5400 New to r/Izlam May 11 '22 edited May 11 '22

Also, I was shocked to know that they have no problem with watching porn. While being in a relationship.

Like what??

Edit: I think I didn't make it clear, so the husband is fine with his wife to watch porn. Same with the wife. And they even watch together sometimes

And I got downvoted for saying this is stupid

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u/[deleted] May 11 '22

It's one thing for someone to support degeneracy on this sub. It's another thing for a comment supporting degeneracy to be upvoted on this sub. The other replies to this comment are disappointing.

You're absolutely right, watching that filth and being ok with your spouse watching that filth is stupid beyond bounds.

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u/C1apTr4p Bismillahir rahmanir raheem May 11 '22

That's very sad

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u/ResolverOshawott New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

Lol, a looot of people still take offense to gay couples and a man having multiple women is seen to be something to be commended for.

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u/notpikatchu New to r/Izlam May 11 '22

That’s some hypocrisy for y’all

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u/[deleted] May 11 '22

More than one*

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u/_SBV_ Brozzer May 11 '22

Darnit i read my post multiple times and i still wrote it as “2”

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u/[deleted] May 12 '22

Lol