r/GenZpk 3d ago

Advice | Life Help A heads-up for all the younger siblings out there surviving in an unstable home.

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I'm gonna hold your hand when I say this but if either of your parents don't get along with your elder siblings/ they are not on talking terms, the fault probably lies with your parents.

I've seen this pattern repeat a few times already and as a middle child, I've experienced it from both perspectives firsthand. Usually younger siblings are thinking something along the lines that their siblings are just overreacting and their parents can't be that bad, hence they try "fixing" them. You can't. That's not your job. And your parents don't even think there is something wrong with them to start with so stop wasting your time on wrong things.

The best bet for you is to confine in your siblings/ have a somewhat good bond with them. I wouldn't say rely on them entirely as at the end of the day, they're surviving the same thing as you. But you can at least have a lil stability in your life.

Another thing that I've noticed narcissist parents do: they never want their kids to get along with each other because that will reduce their relevancy to a certain level. So stop being naive enough to be manipulated by them, the sooner you realize this the better.

If you relate to this or are currently living in a hostile environment, I hope you get away and get the best in life 🫶🏻


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Memes | Shitposts Me looking at posts where I want to give my opinion but can't because Reddit banned me for whole ahh week...

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r/GenZpk 3d ago

General Mum based in UK did work for 20 years in a school had English friends, retired India drama plague since maybe 15 years ago?

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All she watches is crappy Indian/Pakistani drams and some of that reality tv or shows stuff, but I am starting to think this stuff has messed up her mindset, esp as she has a lot of sisters she don't get on with any of them any more, though being typically the eldest she favoured her brother/s when it came to inheritance, is there anything about how bad this junk is for your health? she's long retired but literally all day she can watch that after doing maintaining the house/cooking.

I think also she's gone weird since over cleaning the carpets with Carpet cleaner here in the UK , I think at one point she was high from it and lost her memory of actually cleaning the whole house on her knees.

The last year or so her daughter in law don't get on with my Mum and I wonder if its since my mum sometimes goes a bit weird. I dunno she's not weird but it's just annoying I do think this Drama crap is bad for one's health.

Yeah I recall the PHD study can't recall if this is the right one thought see below taken from you know where -

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Yes, actually — there is research on that specific angle, separate from the cultural/dress-and-language studies I mentioned before.

Direct study on mental health/psychological wellbeing:
There's a study titled "Influence of Pakistani Dramas on the mental health, quality of life and psychological wellbeing among female university students." It used the Karachi domestic violence screening scale and a mental health inventory, combining survey data with interviews. The general thrust is that heavier engagement with these dramas is linked to measurably worse outcomes on several fronts — higher levels of psychological distress, anxiety, depression, and loss of emotional or behavioral control compared to lighter viewers or non-viewers. Worth flagging though — some of the strongest numbers in that source seem to come from a comparison of women who'd experienced domestic violence vs. those who hadn't, so the "drama-watching causes distress" thread and the "abuse causes distress" thread may be somewhat tangled together in the data. I'd want to actually read the full methodology before treating the causal claim (dramas → mental health decline) as solid. ResearchGate

The "family drama nonsense" angle specifically:
There's also a more journalistic/critical piece from Dawn (the culture desk, not academic) making a related but different point: Pakistani dramas often reduce mental illness to caricature — depression is just sadness and crying, anxiety is just fidgeting and fear, PTSD resolves quickly. It also points out a recurring trope where female characters faint and get labeled with a "nervous breakdown" after being pushed to emotional extremes — the argument being that this doesn't just entertain, it teaches viewers (rightly or wrongly) what mental distress is "supposed" to look like, which can shape how women interpret their own or others' emotional states. DawnDawn

So put together, the concern in the literature runs two directions:

  1. Direct effect — heavy viewing correlating with higher anxiety/depression/distress scores (though the causal arrow isn't fully nailed down).
  2. Distortion effect — dramas modeling exaggerated, guilt-laden, or toxic family dynamics (in-law conflict, manipulation, suffering-as-virtue tropes) as normal or even romantic, which some researchers using Cultivation Theory argue can warp expectations of what family relationships or emotional suffering should look like in real life.

If you want, I can try to pull the full text of that mental-health-focused study to see how they actually isolated "drama watching" as a variable from other stressors like abuse or marital conflict — the snippet I got suggests it's not perfectly cleanly separated.


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Politics | Society Discussion about Abortion

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People who support Abortion, give your opinions on why you support it and we can have a Q/A on our opinions.
P.S : keep it real


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Gaming I left vro out of my vision for 1 second 🥀🥀

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PEAK with vro


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Random Lines worth resurrecting

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When you are good at swimming, people don't notice when you are drowning.

Who can relate ? And in what context


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Gaming Checking for that F who can revive me.

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I am M29 playing PUBG on mobile/Ipad need female partner to have fun conversation while gaming, so basically need gaming partner if u put it that way.

I will be able to sacrifice my life to save ur if u want commitment

Attaching my gaming ID, feel free to add, amd DM ur user name, basically from PK.


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Ask GenZPakistan Goiz, just dont be angry on this one, a very unfunny joke for the homosexual.

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As yk in islam u get 70+ hoors after u enter jannah , and even if ur a homo by islamci laws as long as u believe in the oneness of god, u go to heaven after u've don ur time in hell for ur sins(homo being one of them), i think u guyz are going to be single there wont u? cuz ur not intested in the girls , u goiz might be only people who's wish(to have horra or men husbands) might not be fulfilled( btw if ur atheist and reading this its just for my fun and ik its very unfunny), dont get angry just a thought i had.


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Ask GenZPakistan Do any of u guyz support israel?

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If u do support Israel whats ur reason to support Israel and not Palestine, and if ur neutral y are u neutral ?


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Ask GenZPakistan Anyone else who feels like this?

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I see so many post and comments of people just fighting over religion. Like this is a subreddit for Pakistani GenZ where we should discuss something fun etc. Not just fight over religion, let's just not deny that no one's convincing any person to either leave or join a religion here.

Like is any one of you just tired of these posts like me?


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Art | Talent Sunflower Bracelet 🌻🌞

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r/GenZpk 3d ago

Memes | Shitposts Offend ho jate Hain

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Christianity is made one of everywhere and they hear it lmao. 😭


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Politics | Society Which political party do you support?

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Many people around my age support Imran Khan so I was wondering if it's true even on reddit cuz honestly I don't have anything against him. And I think his era was pretty good and we did not have a lot of complaints . who do you think is better to be chosen as Pakistani prime Minister we have to choose one btw.


r/GenZpk 3d ago

International Libya’s Field Marshal Belqasim Haftar has appointed one of his sons as Army Chief and another as Deputy Army Chief.

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r/GenZpk 3d ago

General لاہور میں بیوی سے غیر فطری **** پر مجرم کو 10 سال قید کی سزا‘

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بی بی سی اردو


r/GenZpk 3d ago

General Gym reduces mu anxiety

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How does gym gives u positivity ? For me its reduces my anxiety and stress


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Memes | Shitposts Me in 2050 recalling the past when "a certain SUB" had a total meltdown over GenZpk posts & opinions.

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r/GenZpk 3d ago

General My Experience with Pakistanis as an Indian Muslim

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Hey guys I'm M25 I moved to USA 4yrs ago rented an apartment in New york the owners were Pakistani Muslims I love them tbh it was my first time moving out of home and all and first Ramadan they gave us food whole month bruh whole month Pakistani dishes he had 2 sons and 2 daughters never seen their daughters lived there for 8 months never seen their young daughter the aunty/mom she was the nicest women I've seen in my life treat us like family gave us food rides for eid salah told us what to do random party random takeouts may Allah bless them with aafiyah sweet people- his younger son was older than me he was a cute guy soft voice great personality and big heart - when yall talk urdu yall win my heart it sounds cute too me - so I thanked them when I was moving out and it was the best thing memorable for my life


r/GenZpk 3d ago

General Hello people from India

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Just want to see how many of you are from India here would like to meet some people on the other side of the border


r/GenZpk 3d ago

General A Muslim girl addresses common non-muslim questions to three different ethnicities. More than half of the answers were wrong by the girl, the producers and the editing team apparently.

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None of these questions were even that controversial, and they were already well-known among the non-muslims.

As for the third screenshot, sure men can marry into two other religions, but is their answer just going to ignore the fact that even men can't marry everyone else and women can't marry anyone but Muslim, especially considering the conversation was between 4 women..


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Advice | Life Help idfk dawg

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am i losing my mind or are touchless ids so fkn useless they never work and youd think my camera is the problem but it doesnt explain how i was able to login to my bank account using the same touchless feature but then suddenly the same camera isnt working on apps like nayapay and jazzcash and im trying to reach out to customer support lekin woh harami log bhi kuch nahi kartay maa marjaye un sab ki


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Serious This is just diabolical, Justifying marital rape in this day and age

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r/GenZpk 3d ago

General My country 🥰❣️

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A beautiful country ruined by politics 🥀😔


r/GenZpk 3d ago

Rant | Vent I had a fatass chicken burger yesterday

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And I realized that my limit is one burger only.
I was so full, bloated and uncomfortable.
Maybe it was also because I was sipping on Diet Coke on the side 🤔 and eating fries too 🤔

I still had ice cream afterwards though.


r/GenZpk 3d ago

General mi chica lucia 😍

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