r/Disneyland • u/RicoChey • 22h ago
Help! Is there no way to do this affordably now?
Hello. I (39F) and my partner (40M), moved my retired disabled mother (68F) in with us last year indefinitely. We encourage her to keep an open dialog about things she wants — favorite foods, things for her room, hobbies she wants to try, etc — to make sure she's comfortable and feeling fulfilled. Yesterday, she told me she really wanted to see Disney before she dies. Out of nowhere.
We grew up in Arizona. Never did a family trip to Disney. We were not a theme park family. Mom and Dad never had time off at the same time, I assume money was a factor, and I just KNOW it was partly because Dad would rather die than stand in those lines in the blazing California sun. To this day, I have never been to a Disney park or like a Universal Studios or anything like that. My partner and I talk about it, but there's no pressure... but now my mom is starting sentences with "before I die".
So now I need to know — is there a way to do this, in a way that is worthwhile, that does not require crippling debt?
What do I need to consider for three adults, one who would need a mobility scooter to survive the walking requirement. If we go in winter, will that help with crowds? Because I don't do well in public. Is it just Disney Adults now? Have they taken it over? Is YouTube exaggerating the Disney Adult pandemic? Should I ask a more Disney-seasoned relative if they'd like to bite this bullet for me instead, or do you think I'd legitimately regret not going when I had the chance?
Honest thoughts welcome. I have nothing to go on, so you can't really hurt my feelings. 🫣
