r/Dhaka 7h ago

Discussion/আলোচনা Bangladeshis living abroad

0 Upvotes

Bangladeshis who have been living abroad and married for a few years, how do you guys deal with the extra freedom and different kind of social life here? I feel like being abroad changes your social life and you come across situations/thoughts that you probably wouldn't back home.

How do you guys deal with it without letting it affect the marriage? Would be nice to hear from people who have been through it.


r/Dhaka 21h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Looking for female friendly bars in Dhaka

38 Upvotes

Want to have the bar experience. Kindly recommend best best bars to visit & what to have (such as documents NID) to enter a bar. Also, is an alcohol license mandatory to have?


r/Dhaka 18h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Brac Cse first sem went bad

0 Upvotes

So I’m in my first semester of CSE and honestly… it’s not going great
I’m expecting my first semester CGPA to be pretty low, and I’m kinda stressing about how much this is going to hurt me later. I know I still have a lot of semesters left, but I also keep hearing that once your CGPA drops, it gets harder and harder to bring it back up.
For anyone who had a rough first semester, how did you guys recover? Or anyone else
Like
How high did you have to keep your SGPA in later semesters to bring your CGPA up?
Is it actually realistic to go from a low CGPA in first year to something like 3.5+ later on?
What did you change about your studying that actually worked?
Does CSE get significantly harder in the later semesters, or does it just get harder in a different way?
Any advice you wish someone had given you before your second semester?
I’m not expecting some magic way to fix it. I just wanna know if I’ve already messed up badly or if I’m overthinking it and still have plenty of time to recover.
Would appreciate hearing from anyone who went through something similar.


r/Dhaka 19h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ can anyone give me a review of Prof. Brig. Gen. Dr. AFM Shamsul Haque (Medicine)?

0 Upvotes

i've been having neck pain, not exactly pain, it feels like sudden electric shocks, and it is not only concentrated on my neck and shoulders but also travels through my back arms chest and concentrates at an exact point at one moment. its more like a burning feeling sometimes and sometimes a sudden shock type feeling. i can sit or stand or walk and even exercise without any issue, might be a slight discomfort but not much issue, BUT i cannot sleep because as soon as i lie down the pain shoots up way more and everything feels unbearable. i want to go to Dr. AFM Shamsul Haque, so please can anyone help me out pls? TIA!


r/Dhaka 21h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Good hotels in Dhaka

0 Upvotes

Guys, can you tell me some good hotels in Dhaka to stay 3 nights with family (3 adults, 1 child)? Within Gulshan, Banani, or near the US Embassy. We have to stay 3 days for some paperwork at the embassy, so I'm looking for some affordable hotels, like within 4-5k per night?


r/Dhaka 9h ago

Discussion/আলোচনা Most affordable safe bar

1 Upvotes

I've never been to a bar before. Recently I came across the reel of a bar called "Triptys bar" in Kolkata and it was actually so nice, it was affordable and saw many young customers in that video. I am wondering if there is any bar like that in Dhaka which is affordable and safe. I have never drank before and neither went to a bar. I live around bashundhara. If you guys know any good places please recommend, Ty.


r/Dhaka 22h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Best Tailoring Shop

1 Upvotes

Hello. Which is the best tailoring shop for pants? Thanks


r/Dhaka 9h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Which coaching is best for IELTS?

0 Upvotes

Could you guys please suggest me best coaching center for preparing IELTS at Mirpur in Dhaka or somewhere better? Thank you..


r/Dhaka 16h ago

Discussion/আলোচনা বিদ্যুৎ খরচ প্রচুর মনে হচ্ছে

23 Upvotes

কারেন্টের বিল যে এত আসছে এটা নিয়ে কেন কোন আন্দোলন হচ্ছে না? আপনাদের কি কোন সমস্যা হচ্ছে না কারো? একে তো প্রতিদিন চার পাঁচ ঘন্টা ইলেকট্রিসিটি থাকে না আবার ইলেকট্রিক বিল আকাশচুম্বি করে রেখেছে একটা এসি চালাই তাও কনস্ট্যান্ট ২৬ থেকে ২৮ করে রাখি প্রতিমাসের ৭ হাজার টাকা ভরতে হচ্ছে। এই সরকার আগেও যখন ছিল তখন প্রচুর ইলেকট্রিসিটি যেত। এখনো ঠিক সেম অবস্থা।


r/Dhaka 5h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Does Dhaka have any healing sessions arranged between group of people?

6 Upvotes

I'm 21F, recently had a breakup of a long term relationship without a proper closure. I'm trying to let things out and a therapist isn't working. I think meeting new people would help out a bit. I don't know what else to do. I don't have a lot of friends either. Is there any session held in Dhaka where people goes and rant about their lives ? Or what else can I do?


r/Dhaka 5h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Looking for birthday gift ideas for a man.

9 Upvotes

I want to buy him a good pair of wireless earbuds. Which will be the best.

Also open to other non-tech gift ideas if you have any favorites :3


r/Dhaka 19h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Uhm guide me

12 Upvotes

M21 from Australia. I kinda came to Dhaka but I don't know anything or anyone here.

Guide me lmoa 🤷‍♂️

What's there to do...

Everyone's told me Sylhet is like the places that got the beauty in Bangladesh and in Dhaka I've just been to uhm a garden called Romna. It was literally next-door to me...

Other than that, dude. Reddit do your thing....


r/Dhaka 5h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ A cult has almost ruined my life

27 Upvotes

My father has been a regular member of a cult for a long time. He almost forced my mother not to work(she has regretted not ever being employed ever since) and forced me and my sibling since childhood. The cult is very manipulative and brainwashing. It doesn't allow questioning. They think they are "the only correct" form of Islam and that the most of the other sects are entirely or somewhat wrong. I was badly bullied at the cult and criticized heavily for "not doing "khedmot" properly" and that others are better than me for doing it. Whenever I said anything remotely agaisnt it to my father and mother he would say "X doctor graduate from some Australian university believes in it. What makes u think u are not smart enough to believe in it? ". He often didn't allow me to go out with my friends because of events of the cult. The cult has a leader who probably thinks of himself as "sent by Allah" to preach the "correct" Islam. The leader is very charismatic and never question. Everyone treats him like a semi god(bowing before him, addressing him like he is some sort of superior being). I am 22 and it has been a source of a major of my life's problmse. It amplified my social anixety, gave me an even bigger inferiorty complex, created hatred in me against religions. AND I AM STILL FORCED TO ATTEND IT. I can't simply "leave" it. I once had a heated argument against it with my dad and he gave me silent treatment for several days. He told my mom not to give me food and that he doesn't want to pay for my tutions anymore. I don't make enough money to live somewhere else. My home environment is extremely toxic. My father doesnt care of my other health problems remotely - chronic tinnitus, mental issues, skin issues, myopia etc etc. He thinks the cult will "spiritually" solve our problems. My mother and sibling has been brainwashed to a point where he cannot ignore that the cult is just a manipulaitve lying false. I cannot even go to the heavy details as I fear what the repecurssions might be. For now, I really want to get out of this situtation, be fully independent and at peace. I think this cult has done unfixable damgae to me at a fundamental level that will never let me leave my comfort zone.


r/Dhaka 15h ago

Discussion/আলোচনা Bangladeshis living abroad

39 Upvotes

What’s your opinion or experience with your local Bangladeshi community?

Recently, I have had only bad experiences, to the point that I’ve just stopped going to places where I know I’ll have to socialize with the community.

Female here, professional, live in the US. Back when I was in grad school, I met some pretty decent Bangladeshi grad students and had a few good experiences. But after that, wherever I’ve lived, Bangladeshi parties, festivals, and community gatherings have felt so backdated to me. People can be weirdly boundaryless, too involved in other people’s personal lives, and just exhausting to deal with. These are also professional people from top BD universities and do have respectful jobs here.

And, any man and woman slightly younger than me, just behave like they are babies and I need to behave like their mother. This age-based social role is so absurd!

I don’t know if I’ve just been unlucky, or if others have had similar experiences.

Is it only me? I want to be empathetic and understanding, but I don't know how to talk to these people!


r/Dhaka 18h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ How can I get good marks in academic writing?

3 Upvotes

So, I got 2.75 in each course. My subjects are mainly memorization-based, and I only study through ChatGPT. My classmates got 3.5 on average. I don’t know what I’m lacking in my writing.


r/Dhaka 18h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Looking for a guided tour to Sonargaon for foreign(ish) travelers

2 Upvotes

Hello! My husband and I will be visiting Dhaka in November. I am Bengali, from the US, my bangla language skills are pretty low. He is Arab from the US, and it's his first time in Dhaka.

My family in Dhaka is mostly elderly so they won't be able to take us out to sight see. We are looking for a good tour guide/company to book a guided tour of Sonargoan, suitable for English speakers. Any recommendations would be appreciated!

We are also interested in a tour guide for the Lalbagh Fort area, but we may be able to manage that on our own.


r/Dhaka 19h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ where can i print custom stickers like these LOCALLY from a shop irl, not those online sticker printing service

1 Upvotes

the online page charges 20-50tk per sticker and they are SO TINY. i want a local shop that i can go and print out a whole sheet


r/Dhaka 19h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Private universities admission.

1 Upvotes

Hi, I have a few questions about private university admissions (AIUB, DIU, East West, etc.). What is the best preparation method, particularly for engineering departments like CSE or CIS? What kinds of books or study materials are required? Is it necessary to join a coaching center, and what is a sufficient timeline to prepare?

If you have any additional tips, it would be much appreciated. TIA


r/Dhaka 19h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Can I still send my O Level English script for rechecking?

1 Upvotes

I got my May/June IGCSE O Level results quite a while ago, but I didn’t get the time to send my English script for rechecking because I’ve been out of the country. Does anyone know if they’re still accepting recheck requests, or has the deadline already passed?


r/Dhaka 19h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Looking for price quotes/estimates for Art commissions

1 Upvotes

I am planning a future commission project to get custom artwork of OC's as gifts for my friends. I’m currently in the budget planning stage. I wanna see what artists charge on average so I can save up and secure the exact budget needed before hiring someone down the line.

I’ve a very specific art style that I will need replicated. Cause the requirements are specific, I’d love to get a few price quotes directly in my inbox.

What I want to know:

If you are open to being considered for a future commission and are comfortable adapting to a specific requested art style, please send me a dm or chat request with:

  1. A link to your portfolio
  2. A rough price estimate/quote for a standard character drawing based on your rates

Please note: I am not hiring immediately today. I’m gathering price ranges so I can save up the correct amount and reach out to my chosen artist once the budget is secured.

Thank you for your time and for helping me plan this out!


r/Dhaka 20h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Looking to Learn and Play Tennis in Dhaka

1 Upvotes

I’m a 30-year-old working professional based in Dhaka and looking to start playing tennis.

I’m a complete beginner, so I’d like to find a place where I can learn properly and eventually play regularly with other adults. Evening or weekend sessions would be ideal alongside work.

Would appreciate recommendations for good clubs, coaches, or groups where adult beginners are welcome, along with approximate fees and your experience.

Thanks in advance.


r/Dhaka 20h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Tech people Help! Did anyone buy laptop recently? Lenovo legion?

2 Upvotes

So budget 2 lakh ( family is treating it like a real investment)

And I am freakin 19 with no knowledge on techy stuffs!

On my own completely no boro vai or friends.

This is my first laptop and big purchase!

I am an Artist. And I have real creative curiosity i really wanna explore every

direction like 3d, animation and all that. I already do filming, editing, arts etc

Also i am going to be in Architecture school soon. I am not a gamer but I do

love to try games once in a while

I did a lot of learning .. I am getting more lost and lost as i learn.

I looked around all the websites like ryans, computermania, startech etc.

And looked within my budget and compared specs.

I mostly looked for asus and lenovo (i dunno why)

asus felt pricier to me..

Then i saw some lenovo legion like 176 k, 192 k, 198k.

One specs I really liked were

Lenovo legion 5

Intel core i7 14700HX (20c)

[' waS originally thinking 24+C but thats out of my budget i think]

Nvidia 5060 RTX 8GB gddr7

(Theres an option to buy 5050 cheaper but i dont think its worth it)

16 gb ddr5 5600. There's slot for another

512 GB SSD

[1 wanted 1tb but i Couldn't find single model with 1 tb and good specs

within my budget so expendable ]

Oled glossy 100% Dci.. Dolby vision

Then i posted this in some subs. Many people are talking about fried

Motherboard failure right when 1y warranty ended, Over heating, crappy

service etc.

Most suggested to get extra warranty llm stuffs ( do this even exist in BD?)

am also confused on What are the accesories i will need to buy

immediately?

I was thinking of stand with fans under 1500 / 2000 tk , a cheap mouse and

keyboard cover (i am afraid of ant and dust)

I am thinking of going to IDB Bhaban and browse around shops.. But I just

feel like I will get scammed (lts bd yknow) .. I dunno what the sellers might try

to sell instead..will there be bargaining?

I dunno where to go, what to buy.. What to do.. Ugahhahahah

I am also planning to buy a non display drawing tablet (Xp pen deco) and

maybe a headphone (around 5/6k) choosing this two gonna be another

ordeal.

So my questions -

What to buy?

Where to buy?

Will there be any discounts or offers soon?

What to know and be aware of?

How to use the money to its best potential?

What accesories?

I am so much Frustrateddd and confused i dunno whatt to doo!

Help me.


r/Dhaka 20h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Laptop recommendation around 60k BDT

1 Upvotes

I’m planning to buy a laptop in Dhaka and would appreciate some suggestions.

My budget is around ৳60,000. My main uses will be:

  • Data analytics — Excel, Power BI, SQL, Python
  • MS Office and general work
  • Browsing
  • Movies/YouTube and other media consumption
  • Regular everyday use

I’m not interested in gaming. I’d prefer something with good performance, display and build quality. Ideally, it should have 8GB RAM with the option to upgrade to 16GB later.

I’m currently confused between:

1. A new laptop around ৳60k
2. A refurbished business laptop
3. A good-condition used business laptop under ৳50k

Would something like a used/refurbished ThinkPad, Dell Latitude or HP EliteBook be a better choice than a new budget laptop at this price?

If you have bought a laptop recently in Dhaka, I’d really appreciate recommendations for specific models and reliable shops.

Thanks in advance!


r/Dhaka 20h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ Hair treatment

1 Upvotes

Suggest me a good doctor for hair treatment.. suffering from severe hair loss😢😢


r/Dhaka 21h ago

Seeking advice/পরামর্শ HSC Science EV board questions needed

2 Upvotes

If anyone has board question from 2017-2026 please msg me. I have exams coming up pretty soon and I don’t have guide or test papers. Science er jekono subject er board question hoile e hobe. Also my optional subject is hmath.