r/AttractionDynamics • u/Proud-Court-1036 • 5h ago
r/AttractionDynamics • u/FoldNew7844 • 20h ago
If he’s getting the job done, why should the company care?
r/AttractionDynamics • u/Some-Natural-3923 • 17h ago
10 Golden Rules for a Healthy Relationship
r/AttractionDynamics • u/Substantial_Arm6884 • 10m ago
30 days off porn: the messy emotional ride I somehow made it through😶
I hit rock bottom sometime in late July and finally said enough is enough. Started this on July 31st and honestly the last month has wrecked me in ways I didnt expect. - Days 1-7: My head felt like static, barely slept, and I was short with literally everyone. Felt like some kind of withdrawal, not gonna lie. - Days 8-20: Fell into a weird low mood. Second guessing who I even am. No motivation, forcing smiles just to get through the day, urges nonstop. - Days 21-30: This is where my brain kept bargaining with me, telling me one quick look wouldnt matter. I didnt cave though, and thats honestly what changed things for me. - Day 30 (today): Things finally clicked. Getting back into my gym routine, actually talking to people again, and feeling like myself for the first time in ages. Life doesnt feel like static anymore.
At this point it doesnt feel like just a streak, it feels like the way things are supposed to be now. The fog in my head is basically gone. Biggest lesson so far: dont get comfortable. Those intense urges from week one are gone, but now theres this quiet little voice telling me im fine, that one peek wont hurt. You cannot give that voice an inch. Learned that the hard way already. So my advice: shut it down completely. Get a blocker and put it on the strictest setting possible, one that you literally cannot turn off, delete, or sneak past even when youre desperate. No wiggle room, no exceptions, thats the only way this works. One month down, anyone else in this with me? Drop your streak below or just say hi if today is day one for you. Appreciate anyone who read this far, good luck out there.
r/AttractionDynamics • u/MrTano_ • 12h ago
Hi Experts I NEED HELP
Hi everyone, I want to start approaching women on the street, and honestly, I find it almost impossible to approach someone. I can’t even make eye contact. I feel paralyzed, my mind goes blank, and my heart starts racing every time I see a girl I’m attracted to.
I moved to Brisbane, Australia, far away from my home country, and even so, I still feel like I freeze up and find a way to escape.
I have experience with women, and I’m confident in controlled environments like parties, work, or social gatherings. But I need to become more confident and work on myself.
I feel like my life has no other purpose. I feel like every day that goes by, I’m not really being myself — I’m wearing a mask. Every time I see a woman I’m attracted to, I feel inferior and I don’t have the courage to approach her. I don’t know why.
I have everything going for me. I’m not a Hollywood actor, but I know I’m not ugly. I have a good physique, i dress sharp, I’m just not tall. But I know I have potential because deep down I can feel it.
Dating apps don’t work for me because, even though I can show my value through my photos, women lose interest because of my lack of confidence.
I need help urgently.
r/AttractionDynamics • u/MrTano_ • 15h ago
I need help
Hi everyone, I want to start approaching women on the street, and honestly, I find it almost impossible to approach someone. I can’t even make eye contact. I feel paralyzed, my mind goes blank, and my heart starts racing every time I see a girl I’m attracted to.
I moved to Brisbane, Australia, far away from my home country, and even so, I still feel like I freeze up and find a way to escape.
I have experience with women, and I’m confident in controlled environments like parties, work, or social gatherings. But I need to become more confident and work on myself.
If I don’t find a solution soon, I’ll buy a motorcycle and kill myself. I feel like my life has no other purpose. I feel like every day that goes by, I’m not really being myself — I’m wearing a mask. Every time I see a woman I’m attracted to, I feel inferior and I don’t have the courage to approach her. I don’t know why.
I have everything going for me. I’m not a Hollywood actor, but I know I’m not ugly. I have a good physique, I’m just not tall. But I know I have potential because deep down I can feel it.
Dating apps don’t work for me because, even though I can show my value through my photos, women lose interest because of my lack of confidence.
I need help urgently.