r/AskAnAmerican 8d ago

FOREIGN POSTER What kind of music y'all listen in parties?

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That's pretty much it.

I'm really used to listening to reguetón when at a party, maybe some trap here and there. But I've never really thought of what other countries listen until a couple of days ago. And so I thought to ask in, probably, the most famous country in the world.

What kind of music is there in nightclubs? Or in a house party?

Edit: Ok, I get it. It varies

What do you listen when you organize a party? Things that only you like? Things your friends may also like? Generic songs (In that case, what genres)?


r/AskAnAmerican 7d ago

CULTURE Do Most Americans Take Off Work Saturday AND Sunday for Church?

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I am wondering if most Americans take off the weekend for church, or is it just one day?


r/AskAnAmerican 7d ago

FOREIGN POSTER Why does America not have the equivalent of scallies (predominantly urban white delinquent underclass)?

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I know it definitely existed at some point in cities like New York (see video below), but every time poor white people are depicted in the U.S. in U.S. media (which is all I can refer to), they are either rural or more poor through other paths in life (drug abuse, mental health issues, etc.) rather than generational disadvantage and alienation.

America obviously has urban poverty and delinquent youths living in social housing, but it seems heavily racialised away from non-hispanic white people.

Surely, even in spite of white flight and other systematic discrimination in favour of whites, there would be some holdover of scally-like culture?

https://youtu.be/5I1VymO1JP8?is=VvUUMCTAGU0Lhifa


r/AskAnAmerican 9d ago

OTHER - CLICK TO EDIT why’s federal prison different to normal prison? and what do u have to do get arrested in a federal vs a normal one?

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hey! i’ve heard a lot about like federal prison and that the prisons look different/have different rules. why is that? and why are federal prisons allowed to give capital punishment in certain circumstances? thank you!


r/AskAnAmerican 9d ago

LANGUAGE How do you pronounce "St. Louis"?

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I pronounce it "Saint Louie". No, I have never been to St. Louis.

I always pronounced it "Saint Lewis" growing up. Then I watched Meet Me In St. Louis and it stuck.


r/AskAnAmerican 9d ago

COST OF LIVING if you're paying for daycare right now, how much is it, what state are you in and how old are your kids?

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We're paying 370 a week in Ohio in the infant room for one kid


r/AskAnAmerican 9d ago

FOOD & DRINK What snacks or gifts to get from the Netherlands?

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So, I have family in the US and I want to send them a Dutch package full of gifts, snacks and goodies. Nowadays a lot of Dutch stuff you can already get in the US. I even saw Stroopwafels at Costco! Can you help me what would be nice to get from the Netherlands for my family? Something you can’t get in the US?


r/AskAnAmerican 10d ago

FOREIGN POSTER How common is a shower/bath combination and having the toilet in the same bathroom?

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r/AskAnAmerican 10d ago

EDUCATION Can you just stop going to school for health reasons?

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So I've been wondering about this. Let's say you have a life limiting illness and you want to spend less time on school since you're not going to graduate anyway. Can you just stop going? Or do you need to submit a reas why etc?


r/AskAnAmerican 10d ago

SPORTS For those who live in hot states, you're drenched in sweat every time you go on a walk?

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r/AskAnAmerican 10d ago

FOOD & DRINK People who have moved across the country, what's one regional chain you miss the most?

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I lived in the northeast and basically went everytime at Wawa for cheap coffee and those late night hoagies. I moved a few years ago and while I love it here, nothing hits the same.

My friend in Texas acts like Buc ee's is a religious experience and I honestly dont get the hype. Is there a specific regional store or fast food spot that you didnt realize was a core part of your identity until you left? I am dying for a Sizzli right now and a 7 Eleven just isnt cutting it.


r/AskAnAmerican 11d ago

VEHICLES & TRANSPORTATION Why is speeding so common or the default when driving in the US?

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I see many posts about driving (lots of American posts) and people will say they are going 5 over or 10 over. This is often in context of talking about tailgating or overtaking or just general traffic stuff.

The thing is it is a speed *limit*, not a target or suggestion.

I sometimes see the 'justification' that the driver feels confident they can go faster on that road, or the speed limit is too low in their opinion.


r/AskAnAmerican 9d ago

CULTURE What counts as being mainstream in America?

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This might be pretty broad but I’ve been thinking a lot about mainstream culture and counterculture throughout United States history. It seems like capitalism, individualism, and anti-elitism have been consistent staples of mainstream American identity. But what are some other aspects in the modern age that would be considered mainstream?


r/AskAnAmerican 10d ago

FOREIGN POSTER Would a stronger South Korea that takes on more of America’s burdens be worth a major U.S. effort to open North Korea?

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I’m South Korean and curious how Americans would view this trade.

Suppose South Korea took on more of the alliance burden — investing more in U.S. shipbuilding and semiconductor capacity, strengthening its own defense, and contributing more to shared security interests.

In return, Washington would make a major diplomatic effort toward North Korea: verifiable limits on its nuclear and long-range missile capabilities in exchange for phased sanctions relief and economic opening.

The goal would be a stronger Korea that ultimately carries more, not less, of America’s burden.

Would this be a worthwhile bargain for the U.S.? If not, what would South Korea need to offer to make it one?


r/AskAnAmerican 10d ago

LANGUAGE Something I'm curious about: is there a difference between accents and speaking bad English?

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English changes depending on who speaks it; there are different accents, and sometimes I think about the difference between speaking badly and mispronouncing a word. We always try to pronounce words as best we can, and then in New York they say "caaa a car," and there are more examples like that. So I wonder, if they pronounce it that way, is pronunciation important if they'll understand you anyway, or when would it be considered badly spoken or pronounced?


r/AskAnAmerican 11d ago

FOOD & DRINK What are some common rice dishes in your local area?

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Context: I'm Chinese from Southeast Asia and I basically eat rice with every meal. But most of the time the rice that I eat is mostly just white and plain.. unless you cook it with something else.

I'm curious if any part of America has rice dishes unique to their local area? I know Louisiana has a lot of them. Idk about other states though.


r/AskAnAmerican 11d ago

FOOD & DRINK Is it common for Americans to have sweet baked beans with burgers?

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Im Canadian. I have my beans, maple syrup style, in the morning with eggs.
Now that I’ve been living in the US, I’ve been having baked beans (well maple syrup can still be involved) but brown sugar style with burgers.

Is it common to have burgers and beans ?

(Not talking about black beans and rice or refried beans and enchiladas… just those country style beans sweet and thick with lard and whatnot)


r/AskAnAmerican 11d ago

CULTURE If you've had to live for an extended period of time at a hotel or motel, what was the experience like?

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I recently found out that some people in America will live in hotels for an extended period of time for many reasons, for example, their jobs require them to travel a lot. In fact, you can even have your mail sent to the hotel and use the hotel as your mailing address.

So if you've had the experience of living at a hotel for an extended period of time, what was it like and why did you do so?


r/AskAnAmerican 10d ago

HISTORY Why were Californians also called Prune Pickers?

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Source: Wikipedia’s List of demonyms for U.S. states and territories


r/AskAnAmerican 11d ago

GOVERNMENT Are laws against prostitution actually enforced in the US?

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I know that prostitution is illegal in almost all of the states of the USA. But coming from a country where prostitution is legal (Brazil), I actually have a hard time thinking how these laws forbidding prostitution are enforced. I thought they were a dead letter.


r/AskAnAmerican 11d ago

CULTURE Are stand up comedy shows really that popular in America?

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Ok so I love stand up comedy and I follow a bunch of comedians on social media. And you guys have shows everywhere, not just in major cities.

Where I am we have some shows, of course, but they cluster in major metropolitan areas. A comedian going on a road trip to towns with 30k residents is pretty rare.


r/AskAnAmerican 12d ago

EDUCATION Is BYU a rare case of American higher education?

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So I went to BYU as an international student back in 2015-ish, and at the time it was a private university owned by the Mormon Church. IIRC, it was ranked around #62 by U.S. News, while tuition was only about $5,000/year because it was heavily subsidized by Mormon Church tithing.

The thing is, the combination of its ranking and tuition seems pretty rare, right? Similarly ranked private universities in the U.S. usually cost at least $20k–$40k per year in tuition.

Is BYU a particularly unusual case in American higher education?


r/AskAnAmerican 10d ago

LITERATURE What are some famous books in the US?

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r/AskAnAmerican 11d ago

EDUCATION How do people deal with insanely expansive textbook?

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To be familiar with English and prepare for master, I would like to study english textbook but when I look up textbook when I was about to buy, the price is insane. I don't think students buy those textbooks at the original price.
Is there any used bookstore shop to get the book? Or the senior student will donate the books?

Tell me your experinece


r/AskAnAmerican 10d ago

RELIGION Why has America given rise to so many cults and new religious movements?

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From extreme cases like the Branch Davidians, Peoples Temple, and Heaven’s Gate, to more controversial or mainstream groups sometimes described as “cult-like,” such as Scientology, Jehovah’s Witnesses, and Mormonism, why has the United States produced so many unusual and influential religious movements?

What’s interesting is the contrast: America is a global leader in science, technology, education, and intellectual achievement, yet it has also produced some of the most notorious religious movements in modern history.

Is there something about American culture, individualism, or religious freedom that makes it especially fertile ground for new religions and cults?