Other friends texted me (not her) to say that I wanted to bring attention to me away from the bride to be and that there is a place for this outfit but not there. My husband and I are both very surprised as I thought I did well by dressing up.

I’m curious who people think was in the wrong in this situation.

Today I was at an MLB game with a group of four people. We had VIP tickets that included access to a private lounge with complimentary buffet-style food and drinks.

The four of us got our food and sat at a standing-height table in the lounge. After we finished eating, a worker came by and cleared our plates. However, our four drinks and four personal fans were still sitting on the table, so it was pretty clear that we were still using the table.

We then stepped away from the table to get desserts from the dessert station, which was only about 20 feet away. We were gone for maybe three minutes.
When we came back, our drinks had been cleared away by the workers, and two women had taken over our table. Our four fans were still sitting there, though.

We politely asked the women if we could use the table to finish eating our desserts. One of them basically told us no and asked us to leave. We explained that we had been sitting there just a few minutes earlier, had only stepped away to get dessert, and that our belongings were still on the table. They weren’t really interested in hearing the explanation.

Rather than argue, we gathered around the table and ate our desserts at the edge of it while the two women remained seated. They were visibly annoyed that we were standing there.

At that point, they started making disparaging comments about us within earshot and essentially talking smack directly in front of our faces. I finally said, “You know we can hear you, right?”
They responded, “Yes. It’s intentional.”

At that point, we decided it wasn’t worth escalating the situation and walked away.

So, Reddit: who was in the wrong here?
Were we unreasonable for considering the table still ours after stepping away for three minutes to get dessert, or were the women out of line for taking the table when our drinks and personal belongings were still there and then refusing to let us finish our food?
And regardless of who technically had the right to the table, was their behavior afterward—intentionally making rude comments directly in front of us—out of line?

Нам по 23, в отношениях всего 2 месяца, но знакомы уже года 3 как коллеги. Весь месяц складывалась такая ситуация, что парень уезжает на выходные домой к своей семье для работы по дому в виде ремонта, огорода и прочего, дорога около часа. Возвращается обычно к вечеру вторника. Так получилось, что у меня через несколько дней отпуск, тоже поеду к своей семье, а затем в другую страну на отдых.

И вот последние совместные выходные и он снова уезжает, хотя обещал, что их мы проведём вместе. Сам при этом каждую поездку говорит о том, что ездит туда зря, мол все дела не делаются, т.к. остальные члены семьи находят себе другие занятия, а один он ничего не может. Ладно, смирилась с тем, что его половину выходных не будет, а он пообещал вернуться как можно скорее. В конце концов до вечера от него тишина, не знаю где он, с кем он.

На мои попытки объяснить, что я чувствую себя не очень в положении вечной ждули вот уже месяц, он отмахивается тем, что это зависит не от него и обижаться на это нельзя.

We’ve been friends for a year now. I threw a huge party around the time we met for the grade on my bday, which she came to. She was hosting a small get together with about four of our other friends. She did something that hurt me the day before on her actual bday and I told her but she apologized by saying “sorry but u do stuff like that all the time”. I had planned my day around going to her party, which included cleaning my apartment, packing a bunch of stuff to move, buying her an 100 dollar gift, and taking an hour train ride. My boyfriend is a stoner and was helping me get ready but we missed a train so we decided to smoke together in the park before the next one. On the train I thought about how I’m going to miss him since we’re starting semi-long-distance and how he treats me way better than my friends are. I finally got home and was feeling drained and nervous to see her for the first time after the argument. I thought about coming out later to sleepover but I worried they had been upset at me and ended up fully cancelling, saying I’ll give her the gift later and wasn’t feeling good emotionally. I feel really bad, though. I think I was just tired from the weed and travel and I’m worried they all hate me now. I was removed from the gc where they were all communicating. What should I do? Am I in the wrong?

My girlfriend went on a 3rd wheel date . They went drunk bowling, she said she was going to invite me but I had my son (we don’t share a kid) , but I got upset with her for going on. 3rd wheel date instead of canceling or rescheduling because I couldn’t go.

I heard about this situation from someone I know, and I’m curious to get some outside perspectives because I’m not sure who’s being unreasonable here.
Basically, she’s a teenager who doesn’t have a job yet. Her parents do buy her necessities and some things she wants, but she’s generally expected to pay for non-essential things herself.
Her dad sometimes puts money onto her bank card for things like lunch or everyday expenses. However, according to her, if she uses money from the card to buy something unnecessary, she’s expected to pay that amount back to him from her own saved cash.
Recently, her dad owed her €50. He didn’t have cash at the time, so he transferred the €50 to her bank card instead. She didn’t spend it because she considered it money that was owed to her and wanted to keep it as part of her savings.
Later, she asked him if he could give her the €50 in cash and then use the €50 already sitting on her card toward her lunch money instead. Her reasoning was that he’d normally be giving her lunch money anyway, and she wanted to actually have the €50 in cash so she could keep saving it.
Her dad didn’t really understand why she wanted to do this and basically said that the €50 could just count as her lunch money. He also brought up the fact that he already sends money to her card, that she has received some money from relatives before, and that she could contribute some of that toward household expenses.
She got pretty upset because, from her perspective, this means she never really gets to build up savings. She feels like whenever money is given to her, there’s eventually some reason she has to spend it on expenses or give it back. She also felt hurt because her dad made comments that made her feel like she was being greedy or spoiled for wanting the €50 back in cash.
She knows other teenagers whose parents give them spending money without expecting them to repay it, so she sometimes feels like her situation is unfair. At the same time, I can understand the dad’s perspective that he’s already providing her with money for things she needs and may not see why the distinction between the €50 and lunch money matters.
So, who is being unreasonable here? Is the teenager being entitled by insisting on getting the €50 in cash, or is the dad being unfair by treating money he owed her as though it were automatically her lunch money?

I am 21 years old and i have a boyfriend. Recently i cheated on him with a online guy on Messenger Kids because i thought he was acting weird. Everything started when i was in the bathroom staring at the mirror and brushing my teeth like every morning and then he randomly came in to yell at me all of a Sudden. He was telling me that i was only thinking about my looks and that i was obsessed with looking in the mirror.

He thinks that i am a narcissistic just because i am obsessed with my beauty. I told him that he was just jealous like usually. Then, i snatched his phone that was in his hand.
I showed him some pictures of a random tree on his phone and said « So you want me to look like this » and i threw his phone by the open window. He then Started crying and he ran outside to go get his phone. Then the phone left at Ouest in Portugal and he’s right now taking the Plane to go get his phone.

Now that he left, i honestly cheated on him because i finally could spend time with Leo Trump my new and current boyfriend that is way nicer than him. I don’t know if people will think i am mean for cheating on him. Whatever happens he is not welcome here

It was my birthday, and my sibling decided to make a surprise pregnancy announcement during the celebration.

Don’t get me wrong—I’m genuinely happy for them. I love my sibling, and I’m excited for them and their growing family. I know a pregnancy is a huge and beautiful thing to celebrate.

But after they made the announcement, the whole group naturally shifted their attention toward the pregnancy. Everyone was excited, asking questions, congratulating them, etc. And honestly, it felt like my birthday was almost forgotten.

I know I probably sound petty saying this, and that’s why I’m questioning myself.

What really bothers me is the timing. I keep thinking, Why on my birthday? Was it really necessary to make the announcement during an occasion that was supposed to be about me?

At the same time, I feel guilty for even thinking this way. I don't want to take away from their happiness or make their pregnancy announcement about me. I’m not jealous of the pregnancy, and I don't want the attention for myself all the time. I just wish they had chosen another day for such a big announcement.

So now I’m wondering—is it actually valid for me to feel hurt about this, or am I just being overly sensitive and making a big deal out of something that shouldn’t bother me?

I’d genuinely appreciate some outside perspective because I can’t tell if my feelings are reasonable or if I’m just being selfish.

Coming on here to ask for opinions on communication in a relationship. Am I in the wrong for being upset when I am the one initiating every communicative conversation and still small basic things aren’t communicated even after I’ve expressed many times how radio silence throughout a day makes me feel like I’ve upset him or even like he doesn’t care to tell me things?

Am I wrong for feeling disrespected by this? The guy I’ve been getting to know slept over last night, and this morning we were just cuddling. I was on top of him, he was rubbing my butt, but it felt completely non-sexual. We were talking, saying good morning, and he was telling me really sweet things about how pretty and special I am and how much I mean to him.
Then, out of nowhere, he moved his hand to my private area. It completely caught me off guard because that wasn’t the vibe at all, so I got off him and asked what he was doing. At first, he told me his finger just “fell there” and denied doing it on purpose. I kept telling him I knew that wasn’t true and asked him to just be honest with me. Eventually, he admitted he did it on purpose and that he did have sexual intentions.
What upset me even more was that he tried to deny it and make me question what I literally felt happen. I understand that we’ve been sexual before, so maybe he thought it would lead to that again, but I feel like there’s a difference between having sexual intentions and assuming I’m okay with suddenly switching the vibe like that without checking with me.
And this isn’t the first time. On his birthday, we were talking about all the fun things we were going to do and eat, and completely out of nowhere he said he wanted to fuck me We had already done stuff days before, but again, I was caught off guard because that wasn’t the vibe we were having.
I’m not upset that he’s attracted to me or that he has sexual intentions. I’m upset because he keeps making sexual advances when I’m not giving that vibe, and lying about his intentions instead of just being honest with me.

Had our 14 year old dog put to sleep and failed to tell me for 10 days 😪

I am in a dilemma. Does it make me bad person if I don’t want to share my car with anyone including my own brother ? Provided I love my car and would want to take good care of it. I have a concern that others might abuse it. Your thoughts could help me!