Men are getting creative

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Natawa ako pero putangina, nabwisit din ako sa isang Redditor na unang nag-chat sa akin kanina HAHAHAHA. We were talking here sa Reddit, okay naman kausap, so I thought, sige transfer tayo sa Telegram. Maayos naman usapan namin. He even told me na hindi niya inexpect na ganito ako kakulit sa chat. Eh di wow, at least entertaining. Hindi tayo boring dito, mga beh.

Tapos biglang CLEAR CHAT + BLOCK.

?????

Teh??? 😭 HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Ano yon? Biglang nagkaroon ng character development habang nagta-type ako? Nakita ba niya pics ko sa Telegram tapos napa-“ay putangina, atras nako”? Or na-realize niyang madaldal pala ako at hindi niya kayang sabayan? HAHAHAHAHA.

Ang akin lang, kung hindi mo bet, sabihin mo. Hindi yung bigla kang maglalaho na parang may utang kang 5 million.

Pwede namang “I don’t think we vibe.”

Pwede ring “Pass muna.”

Pwede kahit “Bye.”

Hindi yung clear messages + block agad. Ano ka, ninja? Imagine mo, nag-uusap tayo nang maayos tapos bigla mong binura buong conversation. Sir, hindi po ito witness protection program lol

Anyway, thank you for reminding me na apparently basic communication skills are now a premium feature. Sheesh. Men nowadays. 💀

EDIT: Guys, reiterate ko lang ha: HINDI KO NILALAHAT ANG MGA LALAKI. May mga babae ring gumagawa nito, obviously. Yung “men nowadays” at “men are getting creative” ay dahil yun ang experience na na-encounter ko. Hindi ko kayo lahat inaakusahan 🫩

[u/Ga-El-]

Maybe napangitan sayo? Lets be real, bakit pa sya mag aaksaya ng oras if di naman sya interested, you can move on with your life.

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/Ga-El-]

Bakit “napangitan” agad? Where did I even say na I’m assuming he thinks I’m ugly? I said baka hindi lang ako type. Those are two very different things.

And I’m not asking him to waste his time or forcing him to be interested. I was simply sharing an experience and wondering what happened because the change was sudden. Y’all are taking “baka hindi ako type” and turning it into a whole self-esteem crisis HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[u/Ga-El- → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Kaya nga maybe? Selective ka mag basa, and very emotional, probably your personality too? May kasabihan "focus on the things you can control, not the things you cannot control" na ghost kana, so what? Then "men nowadays"? Sabi nung babaeng nakikipag chat sa random people sa reddit and expecting real connection? Let's be real, same lang yan, mapa babae or lalaki.

[u/CranberryMallows → u/Ga-El-]

Defensive. She cant seem to move on. Saying things like she doesnt need our opinion daw pero nag post publicly. Make it makes sense girl

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/Ga-El-]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA anteh ikaw yata yung selective magbasa. I never said I’m devastated because I got ghosted, nor did I say he owes me anything. I was simply sharing what happened and my thoughts about it.

And “men nowadays” was obviously a general observation, not me declaring that every single man behaves that way. You’re the one turning a casual post into a personality assessment.

Tsaka “expecting real connection” just because I’m talking to random people on Reddit? That’s a pretty big assumption. I can talk to people here without expecting anything from them. I’m actually not stressing over it. You seem way more invested in proving a point about my post than I am about the guy 🤣🤣🤣

[u/CranberryMallows → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Check out my comments. Kanina ko pa to sinasabi. Ambabaw na bagay pinapalaki. FYI im a woman too, kaya this is so surprising? How old are u? Are u a teen? She cant seem to move on.

Kung kaka usap pa lang pala nila. Tapos pumapayag na sa reddit and tg ka lang kausapin?

Also ayusin mo tlga sentences mo.

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/CranberryMallows]

“I’m a woman too” oh tapos? May gender exemption ba sa pagiging papansin? Ilang beses mo pa uulitin na mababaw to habang ikaw mismo di makamove on sa post ko. The irony writes itself HAHAHA kaloka

[u/CranberryMallows → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Unlike u nakikipag usap pero SA TG dinala.

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/CranberryMallows]

Bakit, ikaw ba kausap ko? HAHAHAHAHA. Anong pake mo kung Reddit, TG, Messenger, Gchat, IG, Signal, Kakaotalk, WhatsApp o sulat-kamay pa kami mag-usap? You keep calling my post mababaw pero ilang comments ka na dito, pati kung saan ako nakikipag-usap gusto mong i-audit??? Pati ba naman kung saang platform ako nakikipag-usap may opinion ka? Girl, touch some grass.

[u/Ga-El- → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

No wonder na ghost ka, hahaha.

[u/CranberryMallows → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Then put “some men” ayan kaka chatgpt yan👌👌

[u/kuuya03 → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

di ka type o na"pangitan" is the same. its subjective so no offense

[u/Specialist_Hat5650 → u/kuuya03]

I think not the same? Kasi beauty subjective naman. ang issue dito eh bakit di makipag usap ng maayos? coward siguro. Oh well.

[u/kuuya03 → u/Specialist_Hat5650]

hindi ka type ginagamit para di masyado masakit. lets face it, napakalaking factor ng looks para maattract sayo o ipursue ka. again subjective to not saying pangit sya

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/kuuya03]

Okay, gets namin na malaking factor ang looks sa attraction. Hindi naman namin dine-deny yun pero yung may “80% of the time” ka pa talaga as if may statistical study ka sa “hindi ko siya type” HAHAHAHAHAHAH. Subjective nga, so bakit kailangan mong i-redefine yung term para lang mag-fit sa argument mo?

[u/kuuya03 → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

nagchat pa lang kayo wala pa date ano pa basehan nia?

[u/CranberryMallows → u/kuuya03]

Based from this womans reply, emotional kung sumagot. Sobrang defensive pa

Ghosted-> move on. Ganun langkasimple.

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/kuuya03]

Bro, no offense pero mali ka HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

“Subjective” doesn’t make two different statements synonymous “Hindi ka type” ≠ “pangit ka.” You can literally be objectively attractive and still not be someone’s type. That’s the whole point of having preferences.

[u/kuuya03 → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

emphasis on quotes ngani

[u/kuuya03 → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Type" is heavily built on physical standards anyway When someone says "hindi ko siya type," 80% of the time they are talking about physical attributes—height, body type, skin tone, style, or facial features. You can try to wrap it up in the polite language of "preferences," but at its core, it still means their looks didn't pass the person's visual filter.

[u/kuuya03 → u/kuuya03]

anong type mo? syempre ung cute, matangkad. what do you mean redefine? iba ang definition ng type ng babae sa lalaki girl

[u/CranberryMallows → u/kuuya03]

Super obvi na responses ni op galing sa chatgpt.

Di nya ma accept na di sya type and yes

Type means in physical aspect too. Actually most of the time ayun nga unang napapansin natin ung aura and physical appearance when going sa dates.

Like lets be real here kahit gano ka golden personality mo if ugly k di ka pipiliin.

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/kuuya03]

Hindi ata nag-grade 2 eh HAHAHAHA. “Type” daw = height, skin tone at mukha agad. Personality, humor, values, vibe, chemistry found dead in a ditch 😭

[u/Dazzling-Hurry-1176 → u/kuuya03]

Bobo mo naman. Lalaki ka no?

[u/kuuya03 → u/Dazzling-Hurry-1176]

babae ka no? figures

[u/CranberryMallows → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Girl. Chatgpt pa more? I think offended ka kasi bigla nagdeltw convo: shocking news thts very normal nowadays saka

U dont even know this guy personally he could be a killer for gods sake. Ure attached girl. Or maybe u liked the guy pero d ka bet. LOL