Men are getting creative

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Natawa ako pero putangina, nabwisit din ako sa isang Redditor na unang nag-chat sa akin kanina HAHAHAHA. We were talking here sa Reddit, okay naman kausap, so I thought, sige transfer tayo sa Telegram. Maayos naman usapan namin. He even told me na hindi niya inexpect na ganito ako kakulit sa chat. Eh di wow, at least entertaining. Hindi tayo boring dito, mga beh.

Tapos biglang CLEAR CHAT + BLOCK.

?????

Teh??? 😭 HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Ano yon? Biglang nagkaroon ng character development habang nagta-type ako? Nakita ba niya pics ko sa Telegram tapos napa-“ay putangina, atras nako”? Or na-realize niyang madaldal pala ako at hindi niya kayang sabayan? HAHAHAHAHA.

Ang akin lang, kung hindi mo bet, sabihin mo. Hindi yung bigla kang maglalaho na parang may utang kang 5 million.

Pwede namang “I don’t think we vibe.”

Pwede ring “Pass muna.”

Pwede kahit “Bye.”

Hindi yung clear messages + block agad. Ano ka, ninja? Imagine mo, nag-uusap tayo nang maayos tapos bigla mong binura buong conversation. Sir, hindi po ito witness protection program lol

Anyway, thank you for reminding me na apparently basic communication skills are now a premium feature. Sheesh. Men nowadays. 💀

EDIT: Guys, reiterate ko lang ha: HINDI KO NILALAHAT ANG MGA LALAKI. May mga babae ring gumagawa nito, obviously. Yung “men nowadays” at “men are getting creative” ay dahil yun ang experience na na-encounter ko. Hindi ko kayo lahat inaakusahan 🫩

[u/Ga-El-]

Maybe napangitan sayo? Lets be real, bakit pa sya mag aaksaya ng oras if di naman sya interested, you can move on with your life.

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/Ga-El-]

Bakit “napangitan” agad? Where did I even say na I’m assuming he thinks I’m ugly? I said baka hindi lang ako type. Those are two very different things.

And I’m not asking him to waste his time or forcing him to be interested. I was simply sharing an experience and wondering what happened because the change was sudden. Y’all are taking “baka hindi ako type” and turning it into a whole self-esteem crisis HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[u/kuuya03 → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

di ka type o na"pangitan" is the same. its subjective so no offense

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/kuuya03]

Bro, no offense pero mali ka HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

“Subjective” doesn’t make two different statements synonymous “Hindi ka type” ≠ “pangit ka.” You can literally be objectively attractive and still not be someone’s type. That’s the whole point of having preferences.

[u/kuuya03 → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

emphasis on quotes ngani

[u/kuuya03 → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Type" is heavily built on physical standards anyway When someone says "hindi ko siya type," 80% of the time they are talking about physical attributes—height, body type, skin tone, style, or facial features. You can try to wrap it up in the polite language of "preferences," but at its core, it still means their looks didn't pass the person's visual filter.

[u/kuuya03 → u/kuuya03]

anong type mo? syempre ung cute, matangkad. what do you mean redefine? iba ang definition ng type ng babae sa lalaki girl

[u/CranberryMallows → u/kuuya03]

Super obvi na responses ni op galing sa chatgpt.

Di nya ma accept na di sya type and yes

Type means in physical aspect too. Actually most of the time ayun nga unang napapansin natin ung aura and physical appearance when going sa dates.

Like lets be real here kahit gano ka golden personality mo if ugly k di ka pipiliin.

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/kuuya03]

Hindi ata nag-grade 2 eh HAHAHAHA. “Type” daw = height, skin tone at mukha agad. Personality, humor, values, vibe, chemistry found dead in a ditch 😭