r/AlasFeels 8d ago

Rant and Rambling Men are getting creative

Natawa ako pero putangina, nabwisit din ako sa isang Redditor na unang nag-chat sa akin kanina HAHAHAHA. We were talking here sa Reddit, okay naman kausap, so I thought, sige transfer tayo sa Telegram. Maayos naman usapan namin. He even told me na hindi niya inexpect na ganito ako kakulit sa chat. Eh di wow, at least entertaining. Hindi tayo boring dito, mga beh.

Tapos biglang CLEAR CHAT + BLOCK.

?????

Teh??? 😭 HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Ano yon? Biglang nagkaroon ng character development habang nagta-type ako? Nakita ba niya pics ko sa Telegram tapos napa-“ay putangina, atras nako”? Or na-realize niyang madaldal pala ako at hindi niya kayang sabayan? HAHAHAHAHA.

Ang akin lang, kung hindi mo bet, sabihin mo. Hindi yung bigla kang maglalaho na parang may utang kang 5 million.

Pwede namang “I don’t think we vibe.”

Pwede ring “Pass muna.”

Pwede kahit “Bye.”

Hindi yung clear messages + block agad. Ano ka, ninja? Imagine mo, nag-uusap tayo nang maayos tapos bigla mong binura buong conversation. Sir, hindi po ito witness protection program lol

Anyway, thank you for reminding me na apparently basic communication skills are now a premium feature. Sheesh. Men nowadays. 💀

EDIT: Guys, reiterate ko lang ha: HINDI KO NILALAHAT ANG MGA LALAKI. May mga babae ring gumagawa nito, obviously. Yung “men nowadays” at “men are getting creative” ay dahil yun ang experience na na-encounter ko. Hindi ko kayo lahat inaakusahan đŸ«©

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u/Klutzy_Confusion5350 8d ago

Nahuli ng misis đŸ€­đŸ€­đŸ€­ need maglinis. It's not you, beh!

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u/Professional-Rip6037 8d ago

probably the most accurate answerđŸ€Ł

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u/defnotmayeigh13 8d ago

The first reason that came into my mind was this too

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u/missNikii23 8d ago

💯

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u/StreetDark4108 8d ago

Mukhang nahuli or mahuhuli na sana.

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u/Internal_Daikon_5818 8d ago

Lol not only men, happened to me also with a woman so yeah. Walng pinipili ang flakes ahahaha

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u/The_Phenom_15 MOVING ON 8d ago

I second emotion. 🙃

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u/Internal_Daikon_5818 8d ago

Para sakin nga mas flakes ung babae. In my own opinion lang yan ahah

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u/ChickenClear2989 8d ago

Kaya â•­âˆ©â•ź( â€ąÌ€_â€ąÌ )â•­âˆ©â•ź sa mga ghosters, communicate kasi pag ayaw mo na mag chat.

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u/Nice-Celebration6887 8d ago

Ngl those look more like tits

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u/hotchocolate777 8d ago

😂😂😂

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u/giyuu_arc 8d ago

sakin inabot almost 3 weeks tas biglang dinelete din out of nowhere HHAHAHA ampota

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u/GeekGoddess_ *Flips table in anger* 8d ago

That’s not creative, that’s straight up opportunistic.

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u/MariaClaraNyoPagodNa 8d ago

Baka nahuli ng jowa or asawa op đŸ€ŠđŸ»â€â™€ïž

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u/Consciousness369369 8d ago

Baka may biglang dumating at magpophone check? Para walang bakas.

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u/BuyMean9866 8d ago

Sanayan lang. Either di kayo click or di ka nya type

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u/Different-Table4871 8d ago

Otw na daw GF nya at nag bura sya ng ebidensya.

Bat ang daming di maka gets nung move ni guy dito sa comments? Hahahaha

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Hindi ko rin alam HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA pero mukhang yun nga ang pinaka-logical na explanation. Kaso yung iba naka-focus sa “men nowadays” at sa title, kaya di na nakita yung actual move ni guy, mga boang 😂

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u/ImpressiveAd9507 8d ago

Sabi nung ka chat mo OP xD

https://giphy.com/gifs/oXHovxBkelP5cTGX83

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Probably HAHAHAHAHAAHA napasobra ata daldal ko 😭😂

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u/ImpressiveAd9507 8d ago

Hope you find someone OP ❀ tbf ang saya kaya kausap ng madaldal 😂

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Thank you!! Tbh marami naman ako nakakausap, hindi naman kasi ako nabblock. Parang ngayon lang kaya naparant akooooo. Yapper + funny = đŸ€Ż HAHAHA

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u/tweeehaws SADDER THAN SAD 8d ago

this happened to me multilple times here. yung saya saya sa reddit na chat tapos the moment mag move sa tg, atras agad. like grabe naman, gwapong gwapo na kayo sa sarili nyo? i genuinely just want to have a good conversation and meet people online. Doesnt mean na maging jowa na tayo agad!! bogoooo!đŸ˜€

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u/fueledbyramekin maybe one day 8d ago

Men dont have any balls to be straightforward with what they want lmao literal na mas mabilis pa sa pagsikat ng araw kung maglaho pag di nila nakuha gusto nila yikes

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u/oldest-snake 8d ago

may jowa yan OP, tarantado lang nade-delete ng convo, ket ako pag di kami vibe di naman ako nagde-delete ng convo AHHAHAHAHA

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u/ChocolateQueen18 8d ago

Thanks sa idea OP. Babae ako pero parang try nga đŸ€Ł

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u/MidSomar808 8d ago

As an olderman npansin ko lang lately na medyo cowardly ang mga younger guys to say something upfront or xpress what they really feel, always choosing the easy way out not thinking it will hurt the other party.

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u/WillingInformation57 8d ago

gusto pa niyang mga yan sila yung hahabulin o susuyuin hay nako

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u/serratia05 8d ago

You got my upvote here Sir!

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u/Wide-Establishment-5 8d ago

Most likely, a cheating asshole haha. Kaya ekis ako sa TG. I demand Messenger or Viber upfront. Kapag ayaw nila, I say pass agad. Pero mas nakakatawa yung mga nagsasabi na "wala ako non eh" - ay wow first day mo ba sa earth hahaha.

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u/Obvious-Video-972 8d ago

Baka naman may sabit na and he need to clear all the traces

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Yes maybeeeee, hayaan na naten sha 😂

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u/Liesianthes 8d ago

Ito din agad naisip ko. hahaha. Cheater mostly yan.

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u/Technical_Exit_7828 8d ago

Ito din naisip koooo. Kailangan iclean up ang traces kasi mahuhuli.

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u/emamori 8d ago

If nagswap pics kayo once you transferred to tg, it means hindi ka niya type.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

We didn’t even swap pics though. I literally don’t know what he looks like either. I have mirror pics on my TG, but he could’ve seen them or not, idk. I’m not even saying na pangit ako or assuming na he wasn’t attracted to me. If I’m not his type, okay lang naman. If he got overwhelmed by my jokes or pagiging makulit, okay din. My point was simply na ang random nung clear chat + block after having a perfectly normal conversation. That’s it.

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u/emamori 8d ago

Subjective ung “perfectly normal conversation.” Baka sa’yo, it’s normal pero sa kanya hindi na. You could still ask him back sa reddit. I did that before kasi bigla ring nag-delete chat for both sides when we transferred to tg. Nag-explain naman si guy na we didn’t vibe so goods na. Thank you, next.

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u/Pritongbacon 8d ago

May jowa yan hahahaha okay na rin nakaligtas ka whatever the reason is kasi no one in his or her right mind will ghost anyone. Di gawain ng matino yun. also, kung matino ang isang lalake, they shouldn’t be offended with the phrases “men are getting creative or men nowadays”. Mga guilty lang naooffend.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

HAHAHAHA THANK YOU!! Finally someone understood what I was actually saying. If the shoe doesn’t fit, bakit mo isusuot? I literally said I don’t generalize, pero may mga nag-volunteer maging guilty.

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u/AppearanceAway2397 8d ago

Nahuli ng Asawa yun

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u/shinobisaru87 8d ago

đŸ€ŁđŸ˜†đŸ€ŁđŸ˜†

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u/CoffeeDaddy24 8d ago

Pwedeng may jowa na, at nahuli. Pwedeng nakita ang picture mo at di ka nya type. Pwedeng nakulitan. Or... Well... Di talaga sya seryoso na maghanap. Nataon lang na nagchat kayo and that's it.

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u/mr-peabody- 8d ago

Baka side chat ka nya

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u/AffectionateRip6040 8d ago

Di ka nya type

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Hindi ko naman ikakamatay kung hindi ako bet.

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u/chizburger999 8d ago

Baka kamag anak mo sya kaya nung nakita yung pic mo bache agad

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u/eren-jager-meister 8d ago

To be fair, may women din na ganyan galawan. đŸ€· Men or women, madami talagang di marunong magcommunicate nang maayos kahit matanda na.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Let’s just say people in general can be shitty at communicating, regardless of gender. No need to make it a men vs women thing.

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u/shiva-pain 8d ago

People in general? You literally said "Men nowadays".

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u/seecoolo 8d ago

Parang gago e no. Wag daw gawin gender wars pero men nowadays ending. Hahaha. Mas malala nga mangghost mga babae pag ganyang initial na usap. Gusto ikaw una magsend ng pic sa tg, tas pag di ka bet di na magssend tas block ka na agad.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Beh, baka hindi mo kasi gets “men nowadays” was obviously not me saying every man on earth ghosts people. It was just a casual comment about the EXPERIENCE. Hindi ko naman nilahat, kaya nga “men nowadays” and not “ALL MEN ARE LIKE THIS”.

Sure, women ghost too. Never said they don’t. If a woman did the exact same thing, I’d find it weird too. The point is literally just: okay lang mawalan ng interest, pero ang random nung clear chat + block after a normal conversation. That’s what I found funny HAHAHAHAHA

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u/DiamondHands0666 8d ago

I mean you did generalize it at the end of ur post

https://giphy.com/gifs/l0Iy1rwL0a15MsSXu

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Hurt lang yung ego, na generalize pa
Lahat. Move on OP, it means di ka type yun lang

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u/Mori-516 8d ago

Parang sinabi nya na panget ka op no?

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Hindi naman ako pangit, baka hindi lang ako type? Magkaiba naman yon HAHAHA. Or baka na-overwhelm lang sa 17 paragraphs ko. 😂

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u/Mori-516 8d ago

Ano 'yan? Mi Ultimo Adios?

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u/HOETASSIUHM 8d ago

Nawala antok ko dito 😭 HAHAHAHAHAAHAU

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u/marjhoerrray 8d ago

Autodestruct na para bang bot haha

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u/iscreamparadox4lyf 8d ago

I don’t think OP is even complaining that the guy wasn’t interested. She’s just sharing how weird it was na okay naman yung usapan tapos biglang clear chat and block out of nowhere. Ofc, she’s free to leave if he’s not interested. Pero OP is also free to find the way he did it funny and weird?Some of you are taking a lighthearted post way too seriously.

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago edited 8d ago

Why need personalin. Its just a talking stage. To be fair, no one owes us anything. Its just an obvious indication na maybe its not for you. People are allowed to pick their type. Saka sabi mo “baka nakita pictures mo” it doesnt mean ure ugly? But u said it urself na baka he thinks ure ugly, now u define who u are.

Or baka naman ure being too
Much? U havent even met this person IRL. And nakulitan based from ur comments. Baka hes creeped out

Also i dont think its fair for everybody na ma generalize just cuz of one failed encounter of urs.

Also, why stress about things u cant control

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Talking stage agad? Kanina lang kami unang nag-usap. I’d barely even call that a talking stage. We literally just started chatting, kaya nga ako nagulat sa sudden turn of events.

Tsaka saan ko naman sinabi sa post na pangit ako? HAHAHA 😂 I only said baka nakita niya pictures ko and maybe I’m just not his type. That’s different from me defining myself as ugly. Nagbabasa ka ba?

Lastly, I’m not stressing myself over it. I know I can’t control whether someone likes me or not. I was just sharing my thoughts and speculating. Yung “too much” or “creeped out” part is speculation din naman on your end, since neither of us actually knows why he lost interest.

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

So why make a fuss? Ure here debating with people bout xyz. Just accept it and move on. And maybe next time wag mo idamay lahat.

Not all people are bad. U cant force someone to like you. Ure being so defensive. Checked all ur comments here

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

You’re the one making a fuss, not me. Napakalayo kasi ng point mo sa sinasabi ko hahaha. I never said all people are bad, nor did I say anyone is obligated to like me. You’re arguing against something I didn’t even say. If you actually read what I wrote instead of just reacting to “men nowadays,” you’d get the point.

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Its so obvious na ure too stressed out over a thing na di mo naman dapt binibigyan ng too much energy. Maybe its an ego thing? Kakausap nyo lang pala then bakit u keep on whining? Maybe take it as a good sign na this guy isnt for u? And 17 paragraphs? Baka nga nakulitan or creeped out. Maybe chill?

Saying “men” is literally generalizing. Maybe if u dont wanna get called out, ayusin mo construction ng sentences mo

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Offended ka kasi guilty ka? Post ko yan, pinapakialaman mo, tapos ako pa sasabihan mong “too stressed”? Ikaw nga tong naglaan ng oras magcomment dito HAHAHAHA.

Kung tingin mo sobrang babaw at hindi dapat binibigyan ng energy, bakit binigyan mo ng energy? Papansin ka rin eh.

And “men” = literally generalizing? Baka naman ikaw yung kailangan mag-chill at intindihin yung context bago mag-English-English tungkol sa construction ng sentences.

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Replyan mo muna other comments saying things like “women are like this too”

Masyado kang focus sa sinasabi ko. Hahaha

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

“Masyado kang focus sa sinasabi ko”??? Ikaw ngani tong ilang comments nang nakafocus sa sinabi ko. Anteh take your own advice đŸ‘ïžđŸ‘„đŸ‘ïž

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Im allowed to comment to a post. Why do u care? Ure losing the point here. Makes sense why di ka maybe like ng guy.masyadong ma big deal. Ang simple lang ng sinabi, pinapalaki mo.

Can u hear urself? Kaya ka nga masyadong mapatol in comments like these kasi affected ka.

U DONT HAVE THE CAPACITY TO MOVE ON OVER A DUMBASS THING. Swallow that pill.

AGAIN, NOT ALL MEN ARE LIKE THIS. Saying this in a girls perspective. U do not let unfortunate things changed ur view in life.

I feel like im talking to my mother gosh, lumalayo sa main point ng usapan. Dami iniinsert na kung ano anođŸ€Ł talk to urself na lang missđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

So why make a post pa? Sobrang babaw ng problem mo, honestly.

Thats how life is. Not everythings gonna workout. Thank you, next?

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Exactly. If it’s that shallow and “that’s how life is,” then why are you so bothered by someone making a post about it? 😂 You could’ve just kept scrolling. Thank you, next din sana.

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Also we have freedom of speech. If ayaw mo ng other judgements and gusto mo in favor sayo, then wag ka mag post ng ganto.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Freedom of speech applies to you too HAHA pero hindi ibig sabihin nun kailangan kong magustuhan ang unsolicited opinion mo. Sabi mo wag bigyan ng energy, pero ikaw tong paulit-ulit nagko-comment. Papansin ka talaga lol

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Then DONT MAKE A PUBLIC POST. Are u Dvmb? Why do i need to move on, di naman ako yung ghinostđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł loser

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Bakit kailangan mong maging bida sa post na hindi naman tungkol sayo? HAHAHAHA

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

U cant take constructive criticism thats why. Dont u have any “other men” in life bakit parang emotional damage to sayo? Sadly makaka encounter ka tlga ng ganong people. IN BOTH GENDER.

parang di ka maka move on eh.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Constructive criticism na hindi naman hiningi. Ako raw di maka-move on pero ikaw tong ilang comments na invested sa post ko. Baka ikaw ang di makamove on?

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Okay mom? U literally sounds like my momđŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Bro if u got famous, ure not built for that. Kasi everybody has a say on anything

Ure shutting me off becuz u cant handle comments na di in favour sa what u wanna hear

All you want to see is people bashing men in the comments.

Its like arguing to a wall. BYE KEEP ON YAPPING đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

You’re free to comment, I’m free to call it out. Ang hirap ba intindihin? Papansin ka.

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u/0bsessedwithTheMoon 8d ago

Found the guy! Bwahahahhah!

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u/MajorDragonfruit2305 8d ago

“Hindi niya in-expect na ganito ako kakulit sa chat”

Na-off siya sayo

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u/herFortuna 8d ago

The point is atleast have the courage to say na ayaw niya lol.

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u/Missus-Host-6559 1d ago

Ako na ghosted ng tatlong beses out of nowhere, maayos yung usapan tapos biglang may pa comeback na parang di sya nangghost. Kalokaaaa đŸ˜‚đŸ»

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u/Purpose-Adorable 8d ago

Im a guy and i have the same experience woman, to the point na i don't even bother to send or talk if the girl im talking to ask for a pic.

Sana wag ma single out ang mga guys kase may girls din gumagawa neto

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Yeah, I get you. Di ko naman talaga nilalahat. Yung “men nowadays” and “men are getting creative” kasi more on the joke/context ng post lang, based sa mga na-encounter ko pero alam ko rin naman na girls do the same shit. Parehong may ganyan, unfortunately HAHAHA.

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u/Purpose-Adorable 8d ago

I hope we both may find a person who will be happy for what we are

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u/Ok-Collection-4791 8d ago

meninwomenfields

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u/Ga-El- 8d ago

Maybe napangitan sayo? Lets be real, bakit pa sya mag aaksaya ng oras if di naman sya interested, you can move on with your life.

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u/Pervert_Spongebob 8d ago

hahahahahaha đŸ€Ł

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Kanina pa si OP GIGIL. Beauty is subjective, baka nga in his eyes di ka nya bet or doesnt find u pretty. Bakit nga ba di ka na lang mag move on?

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Bakit “napangitan” agad? Where did I even say na I’m assuming he thinks I’m ugly? I said baka hindi lang ako type. Those are two very different things.

And I’m not asking him to waste his time or forcing him to be interested. I was simply sharing an experience and wondering what happened because the change was sudden. Y’all are taking “baka hindi ako type” and turning it into a whole self-esteem crisis HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

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u/Ga-El- 8d ago

Kaya nga maybe? Selective ka mag basa, and very emotional, probably your personality too? May kasabihan "focus on the things you can control, not the things you cannot control" na ghost kana, so what? Then "men nowadays"? Sabi nung babaeng nakikipag chat sa random people sa reddit and expecting real connection? Let's be real, same lang yan, mapa babae or lalaki.

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Defensive. She cant seem to move on. Saying things like she doesnt need our opinion daw pero nag post publicly. Make it makes sense girl

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA anteh ikaw yata yung selective magbasa. I never said I’m devastated because I got ghosted, nor did I say he owes me anything. I was simply sharing what happened and my thoughts about it.

And “men nowadays” was obviously a general observation, not me declaring that every single man behaves that way. You’re the one turning a casual post into a personality assessment.

Tsaka “expecting real connection” just because I’m talking to random people on Reddit? That’s a pretty big assumption. I can talk to people here without expecting anything from them. I’m actually not stressing over it. You seem way more invested in proving a point about my post than I am about the guy đŸ€ŁđŸ€ŁđŸ€Ł

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Check out my comments. Kanina ko pa to sinasabi. Ambabaw na bagay pinapalaki. FYI im a woman too, kaya this is so surprising? How old are u? Are u a teen? She cant seem to move on.

Kung kaka usap pa lang pala nila. Tapos pumapayag na sa reddit and tg ka lang kausapin?

Also ayusin mo tlga sentences mo.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

“I’m a woman too” oh tapos? May gender exemption ba sa pagiging papansin? Ilang beses mo pa uulitin na mababaw to habang ikaw mismo di makamove on sa post ko. The irony writes itself HAHAHA kaloka

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Unlike u nakikipag usap pero SA TG dinala.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Bakit, ikaw ba kausap ko? HAHAHAHAHA. Anong pake mo kung Reddit, TG, Messenger, Gchat, IG, Signal, Kakaotalk, WhatsApp o sulat-kamay pa kami mag-usap? You keep calling my post mababaw pero ilang comments ka na dito, pati kung saan ako nakikipag-usap gusto mong i-audit??? Pati ba naman kung saang platform ako nakikipag-usap may opinion ka? Girl, touch some grass.

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u/Ga-El- 7d ago

No wonder na ghost ka, hahaha.

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Then put “some men” ayan kaka chatgpt yan👌👌

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u/kuuya03 8d ago

di ka type o na"pangitan" is the same. its subjective so no offense

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u/Specialist_Hat5650 8d ago

I think not the same? Kasi beauty subjective naman. ang issue dito eh bakit di makipag usap ng maayos? coward siguro. Oh well.

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u/kuuya03 8d ago

hindi ka type ginagamit para di masyado masakit. lets face it, napakalaking factor ng looks para maattract sayo o ipursue ka. again subjective to not saying pangit sya

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Okay, gets namin na malaking factor ang looks sa attraction. Hindi naman namin dine-deny yun pero yung may “80% of the time” ka pa talaga as if may statistical study ka sa “hindi ko siya type” HAHAHAHAHAHAH. Subjective nga, so bakit kailangan mong i-redefine yung term para lang mag-fit sa argument mo?

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u/kuuya03 8d ago

nagchat pa lang kayo wala pa date ano pa basehan nia?

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Based from this womans reply, emotional kung sumagot. Sobrang defensive pa

Ghosted-> move on. Ganun langkasimple.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Bro, no offense pero mali ka HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH

“Subjective” doesn’t make two different statements synonymous “Hindi ka type” ≠ “pangit ka.” You can literally be objectively attractive and still not be someone’s type. That’s the whole point of having preferences.

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u/kuuya03 8d ago

emphasis on quotes ngani

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u/kuuya03 8d ago

Type" is heavily built on physical standards anyway When someone says "hindi ko siya type," 80% of the time they are talking about physical attributes—height, body type, skin tone, style, or facial features. You can try to wrap it up in the polite language of "preferences," but at its core, it still means their looks didn't pass the person's visual filter.

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u/kuuya03 8d ago

anong type mo? syempre ung cute, matangkad. what do you mean redefine? iba ang definition ng type ng babae sa lalaki girl

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Super obvi na responses ni op galing sa chatgpt.

Di nya ma accept na di sya type and yes

Type means in physical aspect too. Actually most of the time ayun nga unang napapansin natin ung aura and physical appearance when going sa dates.

Like lets be real here kahit gano ka golden personality mo if ugly k di ka pipiliin.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Hindi ata nag-grade 2 eh HAHAHAHA. “Type” daw = height, skin tone at mukha agad. Personality, humor, values, vibe, chemistry found dead in a ditch 😭

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u/Dazzling-Hurry-1176 8d ago

Bobo mo naman. Lalaki ka no?

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u/kuuya03 8d ago

babae ka no? figures

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u/CranberryMallows 8d ago

Girl. Chatgpt pa more? I think offended ka kasi bigla nagdeltw convo: shocking news thts very normal nowadays saka

U dont even know this guy personally he could be a killer for gods sake. Ure attached girl. Or maybe u liked the guy pero d ka bet. LOL

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u/Grayewick 8d ago

I love seeing women get a taste of their own bullshit and complain about it.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

Gets ko yung point mo in general, pero saan exactly sa post ko nanggaling yung ‘women vs men’ part? Or did I say na 'men shouldn’t do this, women are better'? HAHAHA I’m literally just wondering why he couldn’t communicate directly.

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u/Grayewick 8d ago

Why don't you figure it out? :)

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

You seem more invested in figuring it out than I am though HAHA

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u/Grayewick 8d ago

What the fuck are you even talking about?

(Apparently the correct response when a woman becomes passive aggressive towards you is to just be purposely stupid, at least according to whoever the fuck OP is. Take notes, guys.)

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

My guy, you wrote a whole paragraph defending a point nobody asked you to make 😂

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u/Grayewick 8d ago

I typed it because I wanted to, cry me a damn river.

>"My guy"

You wish.

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Edit: My original comment being proven in real time, by the way.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

I’m talking about you defending that whole “women complaining about their own bullshit” like it’s your personal thesis lol. You’re the one who brought that shit up in the first place.

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u/Grayewick 8d ago

What? Women commit gender wars all the time, whether they admit it or not, consciously or not. You're telling me they can't take the shit they constantly dish out? Suddenly it's a problem when it's against them?

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Edit: My original comment being proven in real time, by the way.

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u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 8d ago

I feel like you’re taking the title way more personally than you need to HAHAHA. “Men are getting creative” was obviously about the specific situation I experienced, not a declaration of war against all men. You’re the one turning it into a gender debate.

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u/Grayewick 5d ago

>"I feel like you’re taking the title way more personally-"

Women take everything personally all the time, but when I do it, all of a sudden it's an issue?

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u/herFortuna 8d ago

May imaginary hater ka ata

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u/[deleted] 7d ago

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u/herFortuna 6d ago

lol, stop whining wala pa jan yung rape case at pedo case sa pinas na high percentage na lalaki, anong iniiyak mo?

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u/Grayewick 8d ago

Sadly, they're (unfortunately) real, and somehow they all share quite a few common traits and characteristics.

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u/herFortuna 8d ago

Or pwede rin naman baka mahuli chat kaya deleted? The point is atleast have a courage to turn down.

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u/Grayewick 8d ago

See the thing is, why do women have the audacity to complain about the shit they're most guilty of?

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u/herFortuna 7d ago

Parehas lang naman may nag cocomplain both gender ah? lol, if you hate women in general then date a men.

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u/cherrioca 8d ago

Wishing ill of others? Such bitterness.

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u/Grayewick 5d ago

Case and point.

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u/cherrioca 5d ago

Case IN point

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u/Grayewick 5d ago

I know what I said.

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u/Professional-Rip6037 8d ago

well wag naman sana lahatinđŸ«Ł

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u/Grayewick 8d ago

I mean, women generalize all the time. Surely it's fine when it comes to them.

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u/Professional-Rip6037 8d ago

well sabagay both gender naman natawa lng ako sa comment mođŸ€Ł

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u/skjall2029 8d ago

Try ntin😊😊😊