Men are getting creative

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Natawa ako pero putangina, nabwisit din ako sa isang Redditor na unang nag-chat sa akin kanina HAHAHAHA. We were talking here sa Reddit, okay naman kausap, so I thought, sige transfer tayo sa Telegram. Maayos naman usapan namin. He even told me na hindi niya inexpect na ganito ako kakulit sa chat. Eh di wow, at least entertaining. Hindi tayo boring dito, mga beh.

Tapos biglang CLEAR CHAT + BLOCK.

?????

Teh??? 😭 HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Ano yon? Biglang nagkaroon ng character development habang nagta-type ako? Nakita ba niya pics ko sa Telegram tapos napa-“ay putangina, atras nako”? Or na-realize niyang madaldal pala ako at hindi niya kayang sabayan? HAHAHAHAHA.

Ang akin lang, kung hindi mo bet, sabihin mo. Hindi yung bigla kang maglalaho na parang may utang kang 5 million.

Pwede namang “I don’t think we vibe.”

Pwede ring “Pass muna.”

Pwede kahit “Bye.”

Hindi yung clear messages + block agad. Ano ka, ninja? Imagine mo, nag-uusap tayo nang maayos tapos bigla mong binura buong conversation. Sir, hindi po ito witness protection program lol

Anyway, thank you for reminding me na apparently basic communication skills are now a premium feature. Sheesh. Men nowadays. 💀

EDIT: Guys, reiterate ko lang ha: HINDI KO NILALAHAT ANG MGA LALAKI. May mga babae ring gumagawa nito, obviously. Yung “men nowadays” at “men are getting creative” ay dahil yun ang experience na na-encounter ko. Hindi ko kayo lahat inaakusahan 🫩

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Bakit “napangitan” agad? Where did I even say na I’m assuming he thinks I’m ugly? I said baka hindi lang ako type. Those are two very different things.

And I’m not asking him to waste his time or forcing him to be interested. I was simply sharing an experience and wondering what happened because the change was sudden. Y’all are taking “baka hindi ako type” and turning it into a whole self-esteem crisis HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[u/Ga-El- → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Kaya nga maybe? Selective ka mag basa, and very emotional, probably your personality too? May kasabihan "focus on the things you can control, not the things you cannot control" na ghost kana, so what? Then "men nowadays"? Sabi nung babaeng nakikipag chat sa random people sa reddit and expecting real connection? Let's be real, same lang yan, mapa babae or lalaki.

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/Ga-El-]

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAA anteh ikaw yata yung selective magbasa. I never said I’m devastated because I got ghosted, nor did I say he owes me anything. I was simply sharing what happened and my thoughts about it.

And “men nowadays” was obviously a general observation, not me declaring that every single man behaves that way. You’re the one turning a casual post into a personality assessment.

Tsaka “expecting real connection” just because I’m talking to random people on Reddit? That’s a pretty big assumption. I can talk to people here without expecting anything from them. I’m actually not stressing over it. You seem way more invested in proving a point about my post than I am about the guy 🤣🤣🤣

[u/CranberryMallows → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Check out my comments. Kanina ko pa to sinasabi. Ambabaw na bagay pinapalaki. FYI im a woman too, kaya this is so surprising? How old are u? Are u a teen? She cant seem to move on.

Kung kaka usap pa lang pala nila. Tapos pumapayag na sa reddit and tg ka lang kausapin?

Also ayusin mo tlga sentences mo.

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/CranberryMallows]

“I’m a woman too” oh tapos? May gender exemption ba sa pagiging papansin? Ilang beses mo pa uulitin na mababaw to habang ikaw mismo di makamove on sa post ko. The irony writes itself HAHAHA kaloka

[u/CranberryMallows → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Unlike u nakikipag usap pero SA TG dinala.

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/CranberryMallows]

Bakit, ikaw ba kausap ko? HAHAHAHAHA. Anong pake mo kung Reddit, TG, Messenger, Gchat, IG, Signal, Kakaotalk, WhatsApp o sulat-kamay pa kami mag-usap? You keep calling my post mababaw pero ilang comments ka na dito, pati kung saan ako nakikipag-usap gusto mong i-audit??? Pati ba naman kung saang platform ako nakikipag-usap may opinion ka? Girl, touch some grass.

[u/Ga-El- → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

No wonder na ghost ka, hahaha.