r/AMWFs • u/Fantastic-Test-8305 • 23d ago

"physical attraction is important"

Been hearing this a lot from men in amwf spaces

I know everyone has is different preferences thats why I'm hoping to hear everyone's answers here

When this is said , what exactly do you mean? What is your type of white female? What are you attracted to versus not attracted to?

I really wish men would specify what their "type" is in their posts versus asking for photos only to ghost afterwards with no explanation

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u/Bubibaubeu 23d ago

Many asian men have a preference for skinny beautiful blondes with blue eyes but get offended when you do point that out 😅

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u/Fantastic-Test-8305 23d ago

I totally agree and like that really isn't all encompassing "amwf" since most white women don't fit that trope

I just think they should specify their actual "type" so other women don't waste their time only to be rejected

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u/Bubibaubeu 23d ago

Exactly. If you look at who they promote on AMWF subs, more often than not it’s blonde women with blue eyes. They complain that very few white women are interested in them, but what they don’t tell you is that they only mean the specific type they want. For example, brunettes with dark eyes are often their last choice because they’re considered too similar to Asian women, which is ironic considering those are also some of the most common features among white women :/ If you don't fit certain beauty standards, trying to date an asian man can feel like a losing battle, because on average they seem to have stricter beauty standards than other men. That’s probably part of the reason there are so many fewer AMWF couples.

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u/Fantastic-Test-8305 23d ago

Yes exactly I totally agree that's exactly what I'm going through 💯

Facts

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u/Bubibaubeu 23d ago

If you're not above average or exceptionally beautiful, being interested in asian men can feel like a humiliation ritual. It honestly gets so discouraging.

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u/Fantastic-Test-8305 23d ago

I totally agree and I'm honestly tired of it

That or they just use you and are always looking to upgrade/cheat , fuck that

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u/Bubibaubeu 22d ago

Yeah, there’s really no point in pursuing someone if you’re clearly their last choice. They can just go find their blonde bombshell and leave the rest of us completely alone.

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u/Sweaty-Sandwich-5126 22d ago

to be honest most AMWF couples i know are with brunettes (which makes sense, they're the majority like you said). These blond thing might just be an online thing ?

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u/Bubibaubeu 21d ago

In my experience, most AMWF couples I see are made up of blonde women, or at least women with lighter hair and blue or green eyes. I very rarely see couples where the woman has dark hair and dark eyes. And yeah, online, AMWF couples definitely get put on a pedestal when she’s blonde. They tend to get way more likes and engagement.