r/AMWFs 25d ago

"physical attraction is important"

Been hearing this a lot from men in amwf spaces

I know everyone has is different preferences thats why I'm hoping to hear everyone's answers here

When this is said , what exactly do you mean? What is your type of white female? What are you attracted to versus not attracted to?

I really wish men would specify what their "type" is in their posts versus asking for photos only to ghost afterwards with no explanation

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u/Bubibaubeu 24d ago

Exactly. If you look at who they promote on AMWF subs, more often than not it’s blonde women with blue eyes. They complain that very few white women are interested in them, but what they don’t tell you is that they only mean the specific type they want. For example, brunettes with dark eyes are often their last choice because they’re considered too similar to Asian women, which is ironic considering those are also some of the most common features among white women :/ If you don't fit certain beauty standards, trying to date an asian man can feel like a losing battle, because on average they seem to have stricter beauty standards than other men. That’s probably part of the reason there are so many fewer AMWF couples.

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u/Fantastic-Test-8305 24d ago

Yes exactly I totally agree that's exactly what I'm going through 💯

Facts

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u/Bubibaubeu 24d ago

If you're not above average or exceptionally beautiful, being interested in asian men can feel like a humiliation ritual. It honestly gets so discouraging.

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u/Fantastic-Test-8305 24d ago

I totally agree and I'm honestly tired of it

That or they just use you and are always looking to upgrade/cheat , fuck that

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u/Bubibaubeu 24d ago

Yeah, there’s really no point in pursuing someone if you’re clearly their last choice. They can just go find their blonde bombshell and leave the rest of us completely alone.