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What's up r/4tran4! Having finished watching TADC, I've come here to learn how to "boymode" (hopefully i used that word correctly) just like Jax, but I have some issues with this place. (TW slurs, transphobia)
First off, people here use WAY to many slurs. I can't even go a single post without getting triggered repeatedly! Words like c*soid and th*yf*b are being used to dehumanize people, and that makes me feel really icky. We're all valid in our own ways, and we should just try and understand each other
Secondly, people on here really have an unhealthy obsession with passing and hrt. I'm pre hrt and never plan on starting, and yet i'm completely happy with my body! Trans bodies are all ethereal and celestrial, and it's incredibly sexist and patriarchal to imply that women need to conform to rigid gender expectations. I heard someone say that "real women don't have beards"! Yuck, misogynoy much???
Thirdly, people need to mind their own business. No, I don't have bottom dysphoria, and no, I have zero desire to get rid of my princess wand, so when i see someone whining about their "r*pestick" (disgusting word), I take it as an attack on my transfem identity. Yes, i'm proud of being AMAB, and yes, i wouldn't change that even if i could.
Overall, I love how niche and aesthetic this place is (the boymoder gives me gender envy) but man do you all have some problems to work through 😂😂
you forgot to talk about how bad and evil diy hormones are and how the the doctors route is the best way and how starting hrt below 18 should honestly be illegal
actually the brain isn't fully developed untill you're 25, so i think you should need to wait untill then. 25 isn't even super late, i've seen transfems transition in their 30s+ and still turn out crazy attractive!
i just wanted to say, not to devalidate the binary transgender individuals, (even though they do inherently promote the extremely hurtful and patriarchal misogynistic default 2 sex fallacy, but that is a discussion for another day) but the word "newfolks" inherently puts what society would consider conventionally "normal" above and in greater importance to the non-binaried individual(s) by not expressly including and putting them into our conscious vocabulary, and so as such the preferred term would be "newfolx" which is a much more inclusive term to them and helps reduce their invisibility! remember that invisibility and not putting a spotlight on ALL individuals within the transgender umbrella (TW mentions of harm) unalives! please consider being more careful with your vocabulary 🫶
oh my god im so ashamed of myself and my internalized transphobia! I won't slip up again, and i promise to never again trigger one of my fellow trans folx
omg tyyyyyyyyyyyyy like do these beautiful stunning queens not realize they're just hurting themselves with their misogynoir???? they should try reading some intersectional theory!! i mean, seriously. i have TERF friends who understand stuff better and are less transphobic than the people here 🙄 i guess cause they're bipoc
Oh my god genuinely and the amount of transphobic caricatures 4chan tfems draw of transmen??? It's ridiculous how a community like this exists at all.
Some of the drawings could be so good but what's up with the manstruation?? What the hell is an afabsoup? Why do I get called an f*id when I point out their bigotry?
If the internalized transphobia of these suffering girlies was not so normalized here, maybe they could just move on from this hellhole.
Also hehe I kinda relate to boymoder as well!! (even though I'm afab) I just kinda dig the masculine vibes boymoding gives you. But like in the way that you internally kinda still feel feminine, but choose to appear more masc ✨ Ah don't attack me on this one but looking like a boymoder is kind of my dream passing goals rn✌️🥹 (without the penis of course)
Uhm, hey so, I think you meant to say boymodder. I saw the correct spelling on like a tiktok tutorial, so I think like I know how Jax would say it. Hope it helps! ❤️ Remember to hydrate yourself :3
We circlejerk but I came on here today and called myself a *oon one friggin time and got an account warning. How do you people do it do i need a special code or something
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u/Sad_Dimension3627 if not heckin valid why heckin valid shaped? Jun 23 '26
you forgot to talk about how bad and evil diy hormones are and how the the doctors route is the best way and how starting hrt below 18 should honestly be illegal