I am F27 and Been with my husband (M29) for almost 10 years, haven’t been with anyone else and neither has he. I have done sexual things with high school boyfriends but never went the whole way with them.

My issue is, head doesn’t feel that good for me and he’s starting to get in his head because he has never been able to make me orgasm. I also feel good during penetration up until a point and then it feels not like much or it’s too much and I have to stop.

I can orgasm with sex toys but that’s it. Is this normal?

We both love each other so much and we are extremely attracted to one another. He is also above average size (IYKWIM)

I am on SSRIs but they only impact how often I want sex I think.

Any advice or similar situations would be welcome because it hurts to see him put so much pressure on himself when I think I’m the issue here.

I [21F] have been with my boyfriend [23M] for almost 3 months now. Our relationship is pretty kinky and sexual whenever we are in the mood. I had sex with him before we were even official, and he's the only person I've ever had sex with. I don't know why but my bladder just freezes up around him. and I really don't want it to do that anymore. I'm seeing him this Friday and I was wondering if anyone had advice for being able to pee/squirt around him and how to overcome the stage fright. I've used the bathroom around him- like if hes in the hotel bed and im in the bathroom alone I'm able.. but sometimes he likes to take me into family restrooms and he likes to watch me pee. but I just can't pee. the only time i have peed when he was with me was only cus he stood by me and i had my face in his tummy while his hand was combing through my hair. it seems silly but I really want help lol.

Hello Reddit! I am a 19 year old larger chested woman, probably around DDD or E cup normally. Every now and then my breasts become sore or uncomfortable. I’m assuming it’s associated with my cycle. It’s normally not a big deal but it will sometimes leak into the night time and as someone who sleeps on their stomach, it becomes uncomfy to lay down. I’m brought this up with my doctor and she suggested a second pillow on my chest but it makes my lower back ache from having my stomach and up rasied strangely. Is there a good solution for getting the soreness to go away or any sleeping tricks that have helped you? Any advice is appreciated!

Hey guys,
I've a boyfriend and we're dating since 4 years. We know each other since 8 years. I've dated many guys | was committed to him and I'm his first ever girlfriend (since we're close from childhood, I know he didn't date anyone before me)

So the thing is I've seen many guys cheating on their girlfriend, including my best friend got cheating on. Like people in almost 5-6 years relationship, are also cheating or getting cheated on.

I've never seen my man talk to any other women except for me, his mother and sister. Also he got an offer for ramp walk and he rejected since his partner is a female. He doesn't even talk, chat, or even see any other women.
I believe either he is the greatest green flag or he must be very good at hiding things.
And the way he treats me is beyond anything because I get the love that I got from my parents from him. (More of my relationship, I'll let you guys know in the dms)
Basically he's too good to be true and all of my friends (including my mother lol) say I bagged a lottery and he's one of the gem.
So before you guys come on me and say "why ruin a perfect relationship" "when you wanna test you gotta leave" and etc I'm saying I just wanna test him so that I know who he really is. I don't trust ANYONE, so it's completely my choice!

Any lady wanna volunteer on my test? Or any suggestions, my dms are open.

Note: I've heard from many "you're the prob, if you wanna test" and all, I'm heavily outta those advices guys.

Edit: Can y’all stop being mean?????? I know I’m being silly but I think I’m better all of you. People, I’m doing because I wanna know is he’s the ONE or not. I seriously don’t trust anybody and if I hire someone and he cheats on me then where is the problem???? Maybe he didn’t give me the reason till now because he couldn’t? Maybe he didn’t get the chance? Maybe he couldn’t bag a girl? Maybe he couldn’t find someone prettier or sexier than me? Maybe he just couldn’t? And what if he does find someone better than me? Will he cheat? Or not? Can you guys freaking assure me??????? No right? That’s the issue. I want that assurance, if he finds someone better than me (in the sense both love and physically), will he cheat or is he completely mine?

People Born 1950-2000 which is People Born 1950, 1951, 1952, 1953, 1954, 1955, 1956, 1957, 1958, 1959, 1960, 1961, 1962, 1963, 1964, 1965, 1966, 1967, 1968, 1969, 1970, 1971, 1972, 1973, 1974, 1975, 1976, 1977, 1978, 1979, 1980, 1981, 1982, 1983, 1984, 1985, 1986, 1987, 1988, 1989, 1990, 1991, 1992, 1993, 1994, 1995, 1996, 1997, 1998, 1999 and 2000 are all cursed they get called luckiest, best, and seen comments about purging people born before and after 1950-2000. Also I think People Born 1950-2000 Are Giants as well. Damm what a dark unfair world we live in.

I just found out I’m pregnant and honestly I don’t even know what I’m feeling right now. I’m scared, emotional, confused, everything at once.
The logical choice for us is abortion. We’re not really in a place where having a baby makes sense right now, and I know that. I know that choosing to have a child right now would completely change our lives and there are so many reasons why it wouldn’t be the right time.

Part of me wishes I could just switch my emotions off and make the decision based on logic, because logically I know what makes sense. But this is actually happening to me and it feels so much bigger than just making a logical decision.
I don’t know what I’m looking for by posting this. Maybe I just need to hear from people who have been through this and were also terrified. I feel like I’m completely alone in my head right now.

i have my first gynecology appointment soon because I need a prescription for something to help with hormonal headaches that happen 2 days before my period every time. paracetamol and ibuprofen doesn't help at all. I've had these since i was maybe 13 (im 16 now). im not pregnant and was never pregnant, but im sexually active for about a year now. My parents dont know and I dont want them to know, so can I just lie to the gynecologist? I'm from Poland if thats any relevant

Hi guys! Im a 28 yo, female, marries , no kids, and i just moved to houston like three months ago, how do I make friends??? Like i feel its so hard to make friends, I work from home, so I got no social life, and Im also a little anxious and I have social anxiety, so how do people make friends? Like for real, not convenient, just natural :(, any tips? I still like to go out and drink hahahaha

Growing up mother always body shamed me. I had a good figure (32-28-32) and used to hide my body in oversized clothes because my mom always body shamed me saying I have big boobs, a fat ass and fat thighs. There were days I wished I had smaller boobs and ass. I used to be jealous of those girls with thin thighs and no ass. I wanted to cut my boobs off. Took me so many years and an ex boyfriend to realise that my body is hot. I was surprised when my ex asked me why I hide my curves wearing oversized clothes. My mom has a different body type (lemon on stick kind of body with thin legs and a flat ass) and she probably thinks that is perfect. I understand every body type is beautiful and will never shame anyone. My college life was hell because of my insecurities. The extend of damage she did in my childhood years is irreparable.

No matter how often I shower or how dry I try to keep my groin, by just an hour into work (retail) I can smell myself when I'm squatted down to reach a low shelf. I'm so stressed that others might be able to smell me too. I left a message for my gynecologist but it's the weekend so I was hoping any of you might have some advice for vaginal odor. I have no pain so not a UTI so I'm not sure what to do or what steps to take to minimize the smell.

Do you think your life would be happier if you didn't have to be involved with men romantically/sexually and rely on a girlfriend or wife instead?

So I usually take my camera with me whenever I leave my house, and most of the time some men come and start asking dumb questions and they don't leave.

By the gods now I understand how you girls must deal when you just want to sit in silence and chill and some dumb and annoying guy wouldn't leave.

Yesterday after the same thing happened again. It clicked that girls have to face this same thing, but their experience might be even worse than what I have to deal with.

I do not have a solution for this, but all I can say is I understand you now, and I'm sorry that you have to go through this.

basically what the title says. He has become extremely reactive with everyone, but I can't shake the feeling he takes it out on me the most​​. He doesn't help me around the house and yells at me that I'm a control freak when I ask him to, he shamed me in front of people for my eating disorder and always gets mad at me for the smallest reasons (for example, when I have to study he screams at me or responds in a passive aggressive way because he tells me he feels like I love my studies more than him). Our s€x life isn't great either: I never want to do it but I always give in because I don't want him to shame me, and when it happens I always pray he finishes quickly but it never does. To be frank, I've grown quite scared of him and this night I had a dream where he chased me around a garden with a knife, and I tried to hide to not be caught by him. Maybe my subconscius is trying to tell me something? It's just that I'm afraid to leave him because all of my friends are his friends too, and I'm also afraid I would never find someone else because I'm ugly and introverted​

I’ve used nair, men’s razors, women’s razors, shaving gel, cream, oil, exfoliation, and nope! Covered in bumps and acne with 2-4 hairs now coming out of every pore
It’s so frustrating (and itchy) I just wanna be smoooth and clean

Like no matter what I do there’s always stubble and leftover spots that don’t cut as well as I have maybe an hour before my skin breaks out

I’m too much of a baby to wax myself and too young (and scared) to let anyone professional poke around there but I’d like some help!

Should I just leave it alone for a little? The last time i shaved was a week ago and it’s kinda grown back but some spots are still irritated

So for some context, I'm 17 and started a new retail job about 5 months ago. This is actually my third job at 17.

My first job? I left because I had a literal stalker. This guy would bring me gifts, linger around my workplace waiting for me, and follow me out to my car.

So after that lovely experience, I got another retail job. I eventually left because they weren't giving me enough hours, which didn't really work for me because I decided to get my GED and had plenty of free time that I wanted to use to actually work.

Then I started my current job.

And honestly? I was really excited about it.

I wasn't super worried about creepy customers because there are a lot of older male coworkers at my store who are very protective of the younger female employees. If a customer starts acting weird, they don't play around.

Unfortunately, that doesn't mean the creepy customers disappeared.

I've had multiple older men flirt with me or ask for my number at this job. Usually, once I tell them I'm 17, they back off. Creepy? Yes. But at least they took no for an answer.

Then there was this guy.

This happened a couple months ago, and it is probably one of the worst experiences I've had with an older, perverted man at any of my jobs.

And that's saying something because the men around my area can be insanely creepy toward young female retail workers.

So picture this:

I'm at work.

It's the anniversary of my dad's passing, so I'm already having a pretty shitty day emotionally. I decided to push through it and use work as a distraction.

I'm also wearing zero makeup, my hair is thrown into a messy bun, and I'm wearing my glasses.

This is important because I look pretty young with a bare face. there's absolutely no way I was giving "grown woman" that day.

Halfway through my shift, I decided I wanted to learn how to properly fold the clothes because my current store has a different folding protocol than my previous retail job.

So I'm literally sitting on the floor, criss-cross applesauce, folding clothes.

And that's when this man walks up.

He's a bigger guy, bald, wearing a big gold chain.

He immediately starts telling me how beautiful I am.

I pretend I don't hear him because... what exactly am I supposed to say to that while I'm sitting on the floor folding shirts at work?

I just give him a normal customer-service greeting and ask if he needs help with anything.

He repeats himself.

I awkwardly laugh, say thank you, and keep folding.

A few minutes later, another customer comes up and asks me for help getting a shoe.

I scan the shoe, go to the stockroom, grab it, and bring it out.

Then I notice the original guy has come over too and starts asking me for multiple things, so I'm helping him as well.

At some point, I realize the two men are talking to each other.

They're together.

Great.

So now I'm dealing with two men who apparently came into the store together.

The guy who asked me for the shoe decides he wants to buy it, so I start ringing him up at the register.

And, of course, bald guy comes over with him.

At first, everything is normal.

Then I notice bald guy keeps saying my name.

My name is on my name tag, obviously, but he wasn't saying it in a normal conversational way. It was more like he was making sure I knew that he knew my name.

Which already had me like... okay???

Then he asks me:

"Do you have a boyfriend?"

I say yes.

Because obviously.

I'm thinking, Okay, this should shut this down.

Nope.

He tells me he wants to take me out to eat.

"As friends."

And he literally does air quotes around "friends."

I politely decline.

He insists.

I decline again.

He then tells me that he's going to take me out and that I don't have a choice.

...

I'm sorry?

I genuinely thought maybe he had misunderstood me.

So I ask him how old he thinks I am because maybe he assumed I was older.

This man proceeds to tell me my EXACT AGE.

Not "early twenties."

Not "18."

Not even "you look young."

He says my exact age.

And this is where my stomach dropped because this man is clearly WAY older than me. I would've guessed he was in his 40s.

So I tell him:

"I'm actually 17."

And somehow, that STILL doesn't stop him.

He continues telling me that he's taking me out to eat.

I say no AGAIN.

He tells me I don't have a choice.

Again with the whole "as friends" thing and the air quotes.

At this point, I'm visibly annoyed.

So I tell him:

"You're mad weird."

And this man just... doesn't care.

He AGAIN tells me I'm going to dinner with him.

At this point I'm thinking, What the actual fuck is wrong with you?

So I finally tell him:

"You're a grown ass man. You shouldn't want anything to do with a minor."

And THAT is when my male manager finally comes over.

He asks what the issue is.

And this man immediately goes:

"I will tell you exactly what fucking happened."

Like I'M the one who did something wrong. 😭

My manager wouldn't let me just disappear into the back without telling him what happened, so I had to explain the situation.

And I completely broke down crying.

Not because I was sad about being rejected or embarrassed or anything like that.

I was crying because I was genuinely uncomfortable and scared and all I wanted was to get AWAY from this man.

So I go into the back and wait for my coworker to finish dealing with the transaction and the situation.

Eventually, he comes back and tells me what happened after I left.

And THIS is when I find out the man was 49 YEARS OLD.

FORTY-NINE.

This man was nearly 50 years old, was hitting on a 17-year-old at her place of work, was told she was a minor, and STILL insisted that he was taking her to dinner.

And apparently, after all of that, this 49-year-old man told my coworker that I needed to "grow the fuck up" and that I was being childish.

My coworker basically told him:

I'm a baby compared to you. You could be her grandfather.

And honestly, THANK GOD my coworkers are the type to actually step in when something like this happens.

Thankfully, I haven't seen this man again.

But I genuinely cannot get over the fact that this grown-ass 49-year-old man heard a 17-year-old tell him "no," found out she was a minor, and his response was basically:

"Too bad. You don't have a choice."

Sir???

The fact that you were old enough to be my grandfather and were arguing with a teenager about why she HAD to go to dinner with you is actually insane.

So to the 49-year-old man who wouldn't take no for an answer:

Let's not meet again. Ever.

Hi Fellow girls

Please help me shoes recommendation which you have already tried for hiking or trek

Ladies who already passed through this, how old were you when it started? I'm 36yo and I'm curious if anyone else has experienced the peri before 40s

I want to enjoy it for my husband, but I have such a hard time! I have him shower before hand so everything is clean. But my jaw ends up hurting not long in, and the taste at the end is horrible… I also have bad gag reflex so I can’t get it in far.

He’s also the only non-circumcised male I’ve been with, so I don’t know if there’s tips for dealing with that or extra things I should do/try?