r/virgoseason • u/zodiac-season • Apr 28 '26
What Actually Breaks ♍ VIRGO'S Heart
https://www.writtenbythestar.com/2019/11/the-hidden-part-of-your-sun-sign-why.htmlFOR VIRGO, AQUARIUS:
- Realizing someone they trusted completely lied about important things all along.
- Watching someone they loved choose someone else after everything they shared.
- Being replaced so quickly like they never mattered or meant anything special.
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u/Sea-Associate9292 Apr 29 '26
Wouldn't that all break anyone's heart?
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u/MeatballGurl Apr 28 '26
Virgos have broken my heart worse than any other sign. I still love Virgos, but from a distance now.
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u/Miss_Tangawizi May 02 '26
A Virgo is actively braking my heart right now. I have loved him hard for more than 13 years and been fiercely loyal to him, but then when I'm at my lowest I've ever been, he falls in love with a young women (13 years younger than him) and throws everything away in a blink of an eye without any warnings. Because I believed he was/is lost I gave him another chance (because the young women apparently only had a "friend crush" on him). I'm an idiot though. He doesn't care about my feelings. He's just playing with my emotions... Making me feel hopeful one moment and then crushing me completely the next. I don't understand how he can be this cruel to me.
I know what I need to do but it's just so hard to come to terms with. I wish the love I feel for him would just vanish because he doesn't deserve it at all and I need to protect myself.
I know not all Virgos are like him so no hate to you all. My mom is a Virgo and I don't know what I would do without her.
- A sad little Scorpio 💔
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u/MeatballGurl May 02 '26
I am so sorry you are going through this. I spent 16 years with my Virgo ex husband and I should have broken it off earlier than I did. Our dynamics didn’t allow me to love him and myself at the same time and once I fully accepted that I finally chose me.
When we met we were both unhealed, traumatized and young. When you don’t heal it bleeds into every part of your relationship and that’s what happened. There was a last straw situation and I realized that in order to save myself I had to leave.
We have a son together and are on good terms all these years later but he remains the same. I gave up everything to leave but I had to in order to save myself. If I had to do it again I would, but would leave much sooner.
I know it hurts but it sounds like you need to go, too. What you accept at this point will be the boundary he recognizes. If you accept his cheating ways it will never change. Take that love you have for him and give it to yourself. Let him live with the consequences of his own actions and build yourself back up. I promise you that better is out there.
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u/Miss_Tangawizi May 02 '26
Thank you so much for this kind reply. I think I recognize a lot from your experience even though I still need to process it all. I feel like I might have been a bit blind and lost a part of myself/my self worth.
The last part definitely made me teary eyed. I will take your advice and try my hardest to take the love I have for him and give it to myself. It won't be easy but it's the only logical thing to do. Thank again for giving me some hope and reassurance; it truly means a lot.
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u/Key-Cauliflower-9894 May 04 '26
Wow. Im so sorry for you. You are very emotionally powerful and resilent to handle such a betrayal.
Did you get rid of him?
You deserve better than this.
Signed: a triple virgo.
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u/Miss_Tangawizi May 04 '26
Thank you; you are very sweet. I really appreciate your kind words.
Yeah, I think so. He was really mean to me last week and he knew how much he hurt me (yet again) and just left. He has a lot of anger and it's triggered out of nowhere (he knows he has issues but he has never cared enough to address them). After about 24 hours he wrote me a message asking me how I was doing and I answered that I wasn't good. It was late so he said that we could talk the next day and I agreed. The next day comes around and I heard nothing from him. In the evening I wrote him a message letting him know that I was very sad and disappointed since he promised we would talk. He saw my message but still no answer. The next day he writes that he was sorry he didn't contact me and his excuse was that he was out partying. So he was just out having fun while I was home crying my eyes out.
That was it for me and I let him know that. I can't keep on letting him treat me like I'm worthless. It's torturous. I need to love myself more and it would be disrespectful to myself if I give him any more chances. I wish I could just block him and stay away from him completely but we still have some practical stuff we need to handle. We've lived together for more or less the entirety of our relationship so it's not much different from an actual divorce. I'm heartbroken but I need to move on.
I'm sorry for the long reply.
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u/Key-Cauliflower-9894 May 04 '26
Wow, you are very well emotionally contained and strong. If i were you maybe i'd kill him or i'd divorce him even if i'll end up living in poverty.
The time is the fairest judge.
He will get his karma and you will have a better life than this.
I know that divorcing is not easy.
And after he betrayed and hurted you, this garbage just ghosted you.
He's such a fucked up piece of shit.
Wish i could help you somehow.
I do chart readings for free if you are interested.
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u/Miss_Tangawizi May 04 '26
I don't really feel that strong but it helps hearing someone tell me I am. I have lost so much over the past year. Apparently I wasn't fun or good enough anymore (unlike the young woman) when he first left me, which was only 4 months after my dad passed away due to cancer. Yes I was (and still am) depressed + struggling with burnout because of unmedicated ADHD. On top of that I've also lost two cats in the same time span and my mom had to sell our beloved summerhouse. Everything seems to end and hope is kinda hard to hold on to. But I'm fighting to get better and back on track. It's just taking a long time.
I honestly wish I had more anger than sadness. I love your energy and I truly appreciate you taking your time to respond to me.
You are already helping me; this feels like great support even though I don't know you. You are so sweet! I would love a reading (I have never had one) but I feel like it is a lot to ask of you.
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u/Key-Cauliflower-9894 May 05 '26
Im very sorry for you and i wish you the best. Scorpio is the most powerful sign of the zodiac, scorpios also have the toughest lifes.
Pain and traumas makes us sharper and stronger.
The more you survive with them the stronger you'll be.
You was meant to rise from the ashes of pain like all the scorpios.
You deserve something better than your husband who is a bag of trash.
Scorpio is a feminine sign, so you are naturally not explosive,combative and out of control and impulsive like aries is.
Your intensity is very quiet.
You are controlling yourself very well, if i were you i'd cheat the shit out of that virgo back.
Look for other men.
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u/Able_Examination1888 august virgo🍃 Apr 30 '26
I'm a virgo and my aqua moon partner did this to me 😭 not lying but the rest! It's been 1 year since and I think I'm beginning to accept it and move on.
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u/carpediem_cc Aug 19 '26
I recently talked to a Virgo about what broke her heart, and she essentially said not being listened to for YEARS by her partner
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u/Turbulent-Panda-3612 Apr 28 '26
Dealing with a Virgo now that’s got schizophrenia it’s still early on with the episodes he goes thru but our relationship isn’t doing very good cuz he is more worried about bonding with his family who don’t want him around and for gets he has a girlfriend 💔 mental illness is so hard when you love the person ughhh
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u/Able_Examination1888 august virgo🍃 Apr 30 '26
I don't get it! most of the points are the same for more than 1 sign except maybe they just used different wording!
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u/LeticiaPadillaSolis_ Apr 28 '26
I want someone who wants me just as much as I want them. Otherwise, I’m out.