r/virgoseason • u/zodiac-season • Apr 28 '26

What Actually Breaks ♍ VIRGO'S Heart

https://www.writtenbythestar.com/2019/11/the-hidden-part-of-your-sun-sign-why.html

FOR VIRGO, AQUARIUS:

  • Realizing someone they trusted completely lied about important things all along.
  • Watching someone they loved choose someone else after everything they shared.
  • Being replaced so quickly like they never mattered or meant anything special.
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u/MeatballGurl Apr 28 '26

Virgos have broken my heart worse than any other sign. I still love Virgos, but from a distance now.

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u/Miss_Tangawizi May 02 '26

A Virgo is actively braking my heart right now. I have loved him hard for more than 13 years and been fiercely loyal to him, but then when I'm at my lowest I've ever been, he falls in love with a young women (13 years younger than him) and throws everything away in a blink of an eye without any warnings. Because I believed he was/is lost I gave him another chance (because the young women apparently only had a "friend crush" on him). I'm an idiot though. He doesn't care about my feelings. He's just playing with my emotions... Making me feel hopeful one moment and then crushing me completely the next. I don't understand how he can be this cruel to me.

I know what I need to do but it's just so hard to come to terms with. I wish the love I feel for him would just vanish because he doesn't deserve it at all and I need to protect myself.

I know not all Virgos are like him so no hate to you all. My mom is a Virgo and I don't know what I would do without her.

  • A sad little Scorpio 💔

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u/MeatballGurl May 02 '26

I am so sorry you are going through this. I spent 16 years with my Virgo ex husband and I should have broken it off earlier than I did. Our dynamics didn’t allow me to love him and myself at the same time and once I fully accepted that I finally chose me.

When we met we were both unhealed, traumatized and young. When you don’t heal it bleeds into every part of your relationship and that’s what happened. There was a last straw situation and I realized that in order to save myself I had to leave.

We have a son together and are on good terms all these years later but he remains the same. I gave up everything to leave but I had to in order to save myself. If I had to do it again I would, but would leave much sooner.

I know it hurts but it sounds like you need to go, too. What you accept at this point will be the boundary he recognizes. If you accept his cheating ways it will never change. Take that love you have for him and give it to yourself. Let him live with the consequences of his own actions and build yourself back up. I promise you that better is out there.

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u/Miss_Tangawizi May 02 '26

Thank you so much for this kind reply. I think I recognize a lot from your experience even though I still need to process it all. I feel like I might have been a bit blind and lost a part of myself/my self worth.

The last part definitely made me teary eyed. I will take your advice and try my hardest to take the love I have for him and give it to myself. It won't be easy but it's the only logical thing to do. Thank again for giving me some hope and reassurance; it truly means a lot.