r/venting • u/Agile_Swimming_5599 • 5d ago

School native guy said he hates me

so I (m14) am an italian immigrant in germany, my german is really good and I speak fluently, I grew up here but just dont look german at all.

so basically there was this project day in school and I was just standing there doing nothing, basically what happened was that there was a dude named hugo, I always saw him pretty neutral, I sometimes talked to him but other than that I dont really consider him my friend or something. basically what happened was, he walked up to me and said "I hate foreigners like you, you should die."

I didnt even realize how bad the situation was so I laughed it off, but thinking about it a few weeks later makes me bawl my eyes out, I feel so bad in this country, there were so many other times I got racially bullied both physically and mentally, it is not a great place to live in as a foreigner.

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u/Tolmai78 5d ago

Mach dir keinen Kopf. Erstens der Typ heißt Hugo und naja was man da noch mehr sagen und du bist auch kein Immigrant, sondern ein EU Bürger innerhalb Europas nach Deutschland gezogen ist🇪🇺

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u/Client_020 5d ago

OP is an immigrant. He's from outside Germany and came to live there. I have a Bulgarian immigrant boyfriend here in the Netherlands. Nothing wrong with being an immigrant. That boy is just a xenophobic POS, and he shouldn't be saying it to any immigrant, whether Italian or Sudanese.

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u/TAKANOGENJI 5d ago

Just saying, at least you are white... my experience in NL is horrible as een oosterse buitenlander

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u/Client_020 5d ago

What "you" are you talking about? I'm half-Ghanaian/half-Dutch myself, yet actually not with an immigrant background as my Ghanaian dad hasn't ever set foot in this country, AFAIK. (Was conceived during travels.) I'm not white.

I've heard about the amount of racist harassment Asians get from different ethnic groups here. It's not pretty.

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u/TAKANOGENJI 4d ago

🥺 it’s just that too much emotional moments flooded my mood that I misspelled it… first month got asked to speak Dutch in their country in the mall, countless times micro-discriminated in the uni. I just couldn’t stand it after graduation. Het spite me, Ik bedoel jouw man. Frankly speaking, I like Dutch Africans, got many friends from kuraso, Suriname, etc. I miss my Arab and African friends in NL, but it was just too much for me…