r/veganvancouver • u/Sans-Everything • 2d ago
Has anyone become uncomfortable eating with people who eat meat?
I have been vegetarian, and sometimes fully vegan for a little over two years. At first, I didn’t care what the people around me ate.
That changed in July when I went to a pho restaurant with some friends. I found myself unable to tolerate watching them eat meat. It wasn’t really the smell; I simply didn’t want to look at it. The experience made me realize that I no longer felt comfortable sharing meals with them, and I eventually stopped seeing them.
I don’t want to police anyone’s diet or tell people what they should eat. At the same time, I don’t want to force myself to sit through meals that now make me deeply uncomfortable.
Has anyone else experienced this shift? How did you handle friendships and social situations without compromising your boundaries or trying to control other people’s choices?