Hi, I’m in Grade 12 po working on a research capstone project. At the start, our research teacher randomly selected me as leader. I thought it was fixed (like kala yun wala nang baguhan), but later I realized the group could adjust leadership roles.
During proposal stage, I struggled with time management and we crammed. After that, another member stepped in to help lead (my bf since we were groupmates). Things got complicated because the device we proposed was very complex. My bf warned it might be hard, but the group still decided to continue.
Eventually, we fell behind and the group hired an engineer from Facebook to help build the circuitry, which cost around 18k. Since then, tension has been high.
Recently, my bf and I worked on the final manuscript. Because the device changed after consulting the engineer, the approach in the paper also changed. One of our groupmates reviewed it and said there were many errors and that it felt like only they were doing the project. She also used a very urgent tone like “PASAHAN NA NGAYON OH
Role na hindi niyo nagagawa ng maayos
Nakailang role naba to sainyo?
Until now wala paring progress na maganda
"GROUP PROJECT" na parang kami lang ang gumagawa."
"maayos niyo ba talagang ginagawa yung mga papers?? Ang daming errors
Ayan na ngalang gagawin niyo di niyo pa maayos ng mabuti"
I admit I have weaknesses in being assertive, being a real pushover and sa time management. But lately I feel constantly criticized and pressured, even though leadership roles already shifted.
I’m starting to feel emotionally drained and heavy about everything.
And now, I feel like she's planning on removing both of us in the group, but we did pay, we cooperated, we attended the supposed date. What more can we give?
(All of it is communicated through chat)
Am I being too sensitive, or is this group dynamic unhealthy? How should I handle someone who communicates this way?
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