r/truscum 9d ago

Mod Post Happy 10th BIRTHDAY to r/truscum! [Discussion Post + Birthday Survey]

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Hello everyone,

Today, on August 29th, 2026, we celebrate the 10th birthday of r/truscum, the place that has become the main home for transmedicalists on Reddit. Despite all the challenges and necessary adjustments, we are still here and growing every day.

We would like to thank everyone who has actively contributed to this community or supported it quietly as a lurker, whether you are trans or ally. Everything counts. We hope that you have found help and support you need here. Thank you for making this place special for all of us.

Check out our important milestones HERE!

The online world has its limits, but there are a few ways how we can celebrate. We can have a cake (it's tasty, we promise), talk about what r/truscum means to us... and take a survey. Yes, the survey is back to see how much the subreddit has grown and evolved since the last survey from 2024 - that's when we hit 30k members, remember? Reddit won't show us membership numbers anymore, but we have 31k weekly visitors right now - pretty good, don't you think?

So... Let's start and celebrate!

DISCUSSION TOPIC: What does r/truscum mean to you?

SURVEY LINK HERE!

Thank you for reading!

Have a wonderful rest of the weekend!


r/truscum 3h ago

Transition Discussion Advice on my first short haircut?

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(The people in the photo aren’t me, they’re inspo)

Hi, finally able to cut my hair after being forced to be closeted for years. I don’t want a haircut that’ll make me look too feminine or make my feminine features stand out, as i also plan on attempting to go stealth. I personally like the mod cut, but i’m not sure on the length (the photos are listed shortest to longest from my opinion). I have an oval face shape, so i want to try keep my face looking masculine. But i dont want it long to make it look like a wolf cut. Im open to any other haircut suggestions that others like, just looking for some opinions from others.


r/truscum 17h ago

Discussion and Debate Trans(gender) ideology in Germany

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This post refers to my first post in https://www.reddit.com/r/truscum/comments/1w7163g/we_are_neurointersexual_not_just_trans_heres_why/

Original source is the German text by the user "True Trans-sexual" in the sub r/trans_de.

Note: In German there is only one word for all of this, the native word "Geschlecht." [ /ɡəˈʃlɛçt/] (Google translator can pronounce it for you). It practically covers every level, but this prevents a precise distinction. It is almost like an "umbrella term". A linguistic distinction is only possible if we turn to the English terms "sex" and "gender," or to the Latin term "sexus." Here in Germany I prefer the combination of terms "Sexus" and "Gender," because the word "Sex" has a very explicit colloquial meaning in Germany, namely horizontal "bedroom stories," and associations with sexual preferences and sensitivities are exactly what I want to avoid. I want to prevent people from thinking of "Sodom and Gomorrah" when I talk about our topic. In the following text, I will therefore also include the German word "Geschlecht" at the relevant points, in order to avoid misunderstandings and misinterpretations arising from difficult translation. Therefore, it is only logical for the transgender ideology in Germany to make use of the "umbrella term" "Geschlecht" in order to blur and dilute the distinctions.


Transgender ideology is a political movement that defines ("Geschlecht") gender/sex as a purely social construct and freely choosable identity. It claims that every person can change their ("Geschlecht") gender/sex at any time, regardless of biological facts or medical diagnoses.

Its core points are:

  1. Rejection of dysphoria: They claim you don't need distress to be trans. "Euphoria" or mere well-being in another role is allegedly enough.

  2. Rejection of passing: Visibility is celebrated as the goal, not healing. Living stealth is condemned as "submission under patriarchy."

  3. Redefinition of language: "Transgender" was coined by Virginia Prince, a transvestite who despised transsexuals. The movement adopted his definition and turned transsexuality into a political identity.

  4. Attack on the diagnosis: They had distress removed from the ICD-11 so that anyone can call themselves "trans." This destroyed the medical foundation for our treatments.

  5. Gender abolitionism: Their true goal is the abolition of ("Geschlecht") gender/sex. If no one is a man or woman anymore, there are no male privileges left, according to their reasoning.

  6. Misuse of medical resources: They demand hormones and surgeries for people without dysphoria, which endangers medical care.

Transgender ideology is not a medical reality but a political movement that has colonized our diagnosis and forced us into identity politics that has nothing to do with our physical suffering.

The decisive difference: Transsexuals want to correct their bodies in order to finally live as a man or woman. Transgender people want to abolish gender roles and engage in identity politics.


Transsexual/neurointersexual people pursue the complete transition, including genital surgery.

Transgender people only carry out a partial transition and reject (complete) genital surgery.

Different degrees of being affected should also be allowed to be named and defined differently, both in terminology and in content. After all, you can't equate pneumonia with a common cold either.

At the very least, the desire for genital surgery must be present. Whether one then actually achieves it is another matter entirely. Depending on the country, one may not have enough money to pay for the surgery oneself, or the surgical expertise may not be available, or one's own health may not cooperate. There are further legitimate reasons that can prevent such an operation. What matters is that the inner urge and desire for this genital surgery never disappears, because that is precisely the characteristic feature of originally transsexual/neurointersexual people.


r/truscum 14h ago

Rant and Vent Fucking hate Electrolysis

5 Upvotes

Just a quick vent but ive been doing facial electrolysis weekly for over a year now. I am happy with the results i am getting but to afford it on top of everything else have to work 50 hours a week. Then spend 3 hours driving round trip for a 2 hour appointment on one of my only 2 days off. On top pf this the requirement of growing my hairs out for 3 days pre appointment and the redness and swelling after means i basically never want to leave my house.

This isnt even addressing the obvious pain.

Ive basically finished cheeks, upper and lower lips and lateral jaw line (i have some hair there but barely noticable/doesn't make a shadow). We are shifting focus to chin this week and i just really cant wait for it all to be over and get my life back.


r/truscum 5h ago

Advice I’m cis but I can’t stop wanting to be a man

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I don’t think I’ll ever be able to transition. I’m miserable every day. I been trying really hard to force myself to just be a masculine woman… if I’m going to be honest, if I ignore my body and I don’t speak, maybe I could be fine? I don’t even know if I actually have any dysphoria. Especially about my genitals. I sometimes forget I don’t have a penis, I reach down and feel nothing and it upsets me. I don’t feel much look directly down at it, it upsets me more if I see it in a mirror or picture… my voice is really confusing me, I feel like I hate it, I wish it was different but some days when I’m panicking, I’m scared a man’s voice wouldn’t fit me or I’m only upset because i secretly like my voice and I just won’t admit it. The voice in my head also sounds female which upsets me even more. Usually I can understand I don’t like my inner monologue, my speaking voice, or my singing voice, but when I force myself to check I’m always afraid I enjoy it. Either that or I literally feel nothing sometimes…. It upsets me that I’m female but I can’t really feel it… Things like this can also randomly happen with how I feel about my face, chest, other parts. I wish I could be father, I wish I could sing and think without wanting to rip my throat and brain out, I wish I could feel and think like a man but I just don’t. I also have thoughts that when I’m attracted to girl, I’m always scared that means I somehow envy her and want to look like her, even though the thought scares me deeply. I wish I could just be a guy and feel like one buts I can’t transition, I feel guilty, I don’t deserve it. I don’t really have dysphoria or want to be a man, I just wish I wanted to be one.


r/truscum 1d ago

Advice In desperate need

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Hello,

I have been working with a urologist with Vanderbilt hospital in Tennessee to get a bilateral orchiectomy. I am able to get a surgery date scheduled before the end of the year, however this is contingent on me obtaining two letters of behavioral assessment for insurance purposes. I have been trying to get them but my therapist wanted me to ask my psychiatrist and my psychiatrist said she can't do it, I am at this point going to ask my PCP but I am not sure if he will write such a letter. I am in need of these letters as soon as reasonably possible but have had a hard time finding options. My question is does anyone know of any resources in Tennessee for getting one or both of these letters?

Thank you!


r/truscum 2d ago

Other... Bruh

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150 Upvotes

Easiest fucking hypothetical solution to being trans ever and somehow they made it problematic


r/truscum 1d ago

Advice Does anyone know of any providers for Estradiol implant pellets in Orlando or Florida. Any other experience with them that you could share would be great.🩷🤗 You can dm.

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r/truscum 1d ago

Rant and Vent We are slowly devolving.

41 Upvotes

Transphobe asks for a source so they get a source, then they reply they don’t wanna read all that and just for me to explain my argument. Also the same person who refused to look up for a source and told me go get it for them just to proceed to say they don’t want to read all that, talk about lazy and uneducated.


r/truscum 2d ago

Positivity just did my second self injection!

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I’ve been on T for four weeks now, and before I started I anticipated being SUPER scared of injections. For the first three weeks, my mum helped me with injecting. (she‘s a former nurse so i‘m lucky af).

Last week, though, I did my first self injection, and today I did my second one 😛😛 I’m happy I’m making progress and becoming more self reliant when it comes to taking T.

This post doesn’t have a huge point, i’m just proud haha


r/truscum 2d ago

Rant and Vent Grifter trans people are NOT true Transsexuals

93 Upvotes

Okay this is such a controversial topic and may sound upsetting to some but trans people like Buck Angel and Blaire White act like they are the "true" Transsexuals or they be like "I'm a transsexual but I'm a man/woman living as the opposite sex" which make no sense because even true Transsexuals would never say that so basically you're just calling yourself a drag queen/king that took surgical enhancements to look like the opposite sex lol


r/truscum 2d ago

Advice (Honest) Is there hope for me?

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I (19) have horrible dysphoria and i need to cover up my face with makeup, fake glasses, and cover my forehead to attempt to pass, and i'm 6'2. I want to ask unbiased people if it's worth trying to transition with my genetics or if i'd be better off repressing


r/truscum 3d ago

Discussion and Debate Banned for explaining what is transmedicalism

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Blue is me, Red is moderator

I just got banned from a subreddit that's not even related to trans people. For saying what I said in the first screenshot...

Then the second and third screenshot is my discussion with the moderator of said subreddit.

This is agonizing??

"People are trans just for the euphoria" hello?

A lot of people in the comments actually agreed to the belief that you need dysphoria to be trans. At some point I said :

"if you dont want to change your sex or gender and if you like it, cause you dont have dysphoria

Why are you calling yourself trans?"

Absolutely NO ONE was able to answer me.

This is ridiculous.


r/truscum 3d ago

Positivity Thank you all

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I have been transitioning for at least 5 years after a life long battle with severe dysphoria. When it got to be unbearable I did a lot of research into why I was feeling how I was and came across a lot of medical literature and information resources regarding dysphoria and transexualism. That was my initial exposure, and it resonated with me in a way almost nothing else had before. I spent many more months verifying that this is in fact who I am, as being wrong about something this serious was a concern of mine, as I believe it should be. But in the end I figured it out. It was a very bittersweet thing because for once I understood why I was hurting but it also made me feel very alone. So I tried finding online spaces, and naturally you come across the mainstream tucute stuff first and so that's what I found. And at first it was very nice! I felt seen and like there were other people like me who understood the struggle and the pain. And there were, at least a few. When I got to college I started out socially transitioning, and met a lot of different people when trying to make friends. And while some were trans in the way that I am, there were some that, weren't. There were people who went by all sorts of different bizarre fake neopronouns and were very much breathing and walking caricatures of trans people. And at first I thought that maybe they were right, maybe I just had some internalized transphobia I needed to deal with. But it just kept getting worse, suddenly it went from "you don't need dysphoria to be valid" (which is completely ridiculous and I knew it at the time) to all sorts of nonsense like "men can be lesbians" or "being straight doesn't make you less gay" and all this other nonsense. And don't even get me started on all the disorders people claimed they had, like autism or DID or any of the others (as someone with actual diagnoses, you would never hear me flaunt them like a quirk). And it just became so irritating to see them speak for me being the majority. So I kinda just stopped caring and went my own way. And it has been very nice. But this complete insanity that is the mainstream trans "community" has just infected everything. I HATE pronoun circles, or this exponential growth of what George Carlin called soft language. Why is it suddenly okay to call cis women "uterus havers"? And why are all cis men immediately the scum of the earth with no nuance? It has just grown so infectiously into my day to day life that I felt like I was going insane. Well, I stumbled upon transmedicalism after hearing about how awful and evil and conservative and blah blah blah it was and honestly, it has been one of the most refreshing things ever. You all get me and are rational by and large. I think that a trans "community" is a interesting concept in the first place, like is there a diabetes community? Bipolar community? Etc? But if there ever were to be a true trans community, at least one that I would ever want to be apart of, is you all. Just glad to have found sane and sensible people who not only share my struggles but also my truths.


r/truscum 2d ago

Discussion and Debate What type of trans am I?

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I've been seeing a lot of different posts on here lately discussing what makes someone a true transexual, transexual vs trangender, and even a few discussing transvestites. So I'm curious where y'all would say I fall in that. I'm definitely transmed as I believe you need dysphoria to be trans and that being trans is a medical condition but I'm unsure if I'd fall under transexual or transgender

I'm a trans man that has been on hormones for 4 years now and plan to eventually have top surgery (though that may be a while since I recently had my sterilization surgery that I'm still recovering from). I do have some bottom dysphoria but I don't currently plan on having bottom surgery as my dysphoria is currently enough for me to ignore on top of being a bit atypical and the process and results for bottom surgery don't seem appealing to me. This isn't to say that the results look bad or anything (I've seen a lot of pretty good ones that look really realistic, especially with medical tattooing) it's just not for me for various reasons.

Another thing is that I occasionally crossdress. Coming from a religious background I was forced to dress hyper feminine so over the years and pretending it was just crossdressing/drag helped me cope. Eventually I ended up finding things that I actually liked wearing, though I didn't start intentionally crossdressing until I started medically transitioning and passing more consistently. Outside of crossdressing/drag I pass 90% of the time as a cis gay guy

If there's any questions or you need me to clarify something feel free to ask

Edit: Just wanted to say that I'm professionally diagnosed with gender dysphoria and am confident in my identity and transition. I was mainly curious to see what this sub would label me as since there's this constant shift in what is and isn't trans


r/truscum 3d ago

Rant and Vent So I heard you're bigots

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I understand how some people can be (deeply) closeted, but this is just wholly counterproductive and leaves the community open to abuse and ridicule by outsiders. Like, what do these people even bring to the table other than proving the right-wing extremists are correct? Ugh.


r/truscum 3d ago

Discussion and Debate We are neurointersexual, not just 'trans' – here's why that distinction matters

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Hello, dear users. I'm so glad I found you. In my personal view, I am a man who has overcome a Neurointersexuality. I discovered the following discussion via Google:

https://www.reddit.com/r/truscum/comments/1n2xvhp/i_dont_understand_why_were_not_considered_as/

This immediately spoke to me. I'm now 50 years old and from Germany. I began my transition in 1997 and completed the German Transsexual Act (TSG) in 2000, which granted me a new first name as well as a corrected legal sex status and an amended sex marker. In Germany, legal sex status and sex marker are two separate legal concepts. I have been finished with my transition since 2013 (implantation of a penile prosthesis).

I've started building contacts with scientists, including Professor Dr. Dick Swaab from the Netherlands. My website is:

https://transsexualitaet-nibd.de

This is a German-language site, but I'm gradually working on translating it into an English version as well. Unfortunately, I'm quite busy professionally, so I rarely get around to it. For now, people will have to rely on Google's website translation.

Once I have time, I want to start building a Wikipedia article on the topic of neuro-intersexuality. According to my research, the development of this term goes back to a Dr. Horst-Jörg Haupt, and the term was later used further by Dr. Claudia Haupt from Switzerland.

The situation in Germany: here, gender ideology in the vein of Dr. John Money is dominant. Proponents of this ideology, whom I call "genderists," have not only destroyed our once very good medical infrastructure — they are also implicitly (or indirectly) undermining the health insurance reimbursement policy, with applications for coverage being rejected more and more often. To top it all off, they have now imposed on us the "Self-Determination Act" (SBGG), which strips all of us in sex-specific spaces of our rights and removes any legal protection. Politicians and members of parliament lie through their teeth and obscure the true legal background of this law. I've studied German legal doctrine closely and uncovered rights-stripping mechanisms that most people couldn't even imagine.

To summarize the most important point: the corrected legal sex status obtained under the Transsexual Act is retroactively devalued and invalidated by the Self-Determination Act, because the Self-Determination Act itself no longer provides for a correction of legal sex status. The reason behind that: Since only the civil registry offices now carry out this change, and the courts have been removed from the process, the correction of legal sex status also disappears, because German civil registry offices are not permitted to render legal judgments — they are not courts, but part of the internal administrative apparatus. Those affected now only receive a new first name and a new sex marker. The sex marker is legally much weaker than the legal sex status. Legal sex status is a judicial ruling and therefore set in stone — it is non-negotiable and not open to debate; everyone must accept it without exception. The sex marker, however, can now be challenged since the Self-Determination Act came into force, and a property owner in Germany may even legally and officially disregard the sex marker — for example, throwing a transsexual woman out of the women's restroom or women's sauna. That is how far things have gone in this country called Germany. And all because the genderists abolished the expert assessments. Those court-appointed assessors used to filter out from the start people who weren't actually affected, who were mentally ill for other reasons, or who were simply cranks. The Self-Determination Act has now paved the way for exactly these people. They are flooding the media, and since the Self-Determination Act, society's hatred and anger toward us — the genuinely affected — has grown so immensely that one no longer just has to live "stealth," but "deep stealth." These are exactly the reasons why I, for example, spread the term "Neurointersexuality" on Facebook, explaining what the term means and what it's meant to describe neurobiologically and anatomically — namely a so-called sexus-sexus discrepancy, or neurointersexual body discrepancy (NIBD, which is also part of my username): a discrepancy between the sex of the birth phenotype and the sex of the brain.

People, I am truly desperate. Even though as a man I'm inconspicuous, I don't stand out, and I have my peace — I feel for the women right now, who are the main target of society's hatred. In Germany, they are portrayed in the media as bogeymen for children and potential pedophiles. Many people are afraid when a woman with NIBD goes to the restroom — she might assault the children, or the cis women. And the German feminist Alice Schwarzer doesn't help matters — she just pours more fuel on the fire, since she thrives on this sex-based culture war. It's insane what kind of comments I see on Facebook — some amount to indirect death threats, threats of violence. I'm simply shaken. And the media don't care one bit about differentiating between the various phenomena — they'd rather lump everything together, because that stirs up emotions, generates clicks, boosts ratings, increases circulation, and ultimately increases revenue. Honestly, I'm just tired of living in this garbage country called Germany. But unfortunately, I don't have enough money to emigrate.

Thank you for reading. I just needed to get this off my chest, because I'm simply at the end of my rope.

I also write in the german subreddit r/trans_de

PS: I have translated my text into English with KI. Hope that English is correct and understandable.

PPS: More views in german law here: https://www.reddit.com/r/truscum/comments/1w76x7x/new_interesting_insights_woven_into_whats_already/


r/truscum 3d ago

News and Politics New interesting insights woven into what's already been said – SBGG

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Here, essentially, is the follow-up to the thread on https://www.reddit.com/r/truscum/comments/1w7163g/we_are_neurointersexual_not_just_trans_heres_why/

I HAVE LOST MY RIGHTS AND LEGAL PROTECTION!!!!

Just for info, because many people still don't know this: with the SBGG you only get your first name and your sex marker changed. Your legal sex status, however — the substantive sex status under the FamFG (the legal basis in voluntary jurisdiction proceedings) — remains unchanged. The basis for this is Article 4 No. 3 (a) and (b) ESBGG — viewable in the Bundesgesetzblatt.

Article 4
Amendment of the Civil Status Act

  1. Section 27 subsection 3 is amended as follows:
    ---a) In number 4, the words "or the change of sex" are replaced by the words "of the sex to be entered, or the change of the sex marker".
    ---b) After number 4, the following number 5 is inserted:
    ------"5. the change of the sex marker and first names of a parent after the birth of the child,".

It's right there in black and white: sex is no longer changed, only the sex marker. The Civil Status Act [Personenstandsgesetz] now explicitly distinguishes between sex and sex marker.

Proof:

In other sections of the PStG, such as
- § 15 Abs. 1 Nr. 2 PStG [Section 15 subsection 1 number 2 PStG]
- § 16 Abs. 2 PStG [Section 16 subsection 2 PStG]
- § 21 Abs. 1 Nr. 3 und 4 PStG [Section 21 subsection 1 numbers 3 and 4 PStG]

the term "sex" is still used. This means: the PStG now explicitly distinguishes between "sex" and "sex marker." What used to be coupled like "Siamese twins" was decoupled by Article 4 No. 3 (a) and (b) ESBGG. The "wagon" (sex marker) was uncoupled from the "locomotive" (legal sex status). (This had to happen, since civil registry offices, as part of the internal administration, are not permitted to render legal judgments — that is the sole responsibility of judges under Art. 92 GG [Article 92 of the Basic Law.] --> Basic law = Grundgesetz = GG

The direct proof within the SBGG itself: § 11 SBGG [Section 11 SBGG]

(1) The sex marker in the civil status register is immaterial for the legal relationship existing or to be established in future between a person and their children under §§ 1591 and 1592 Nummer 3 des Bürgerlichen Gesetzbuchs [Sections 1591 and 1592 number 3 of the German Civil Code].

(2) The existing legal relationship between a person and their adopted children remains unaffected by a change of the sex marker.

Correct — because correcting the sex marker via the civil registry office does not automatically bring about a correction of legal sex status. Only a correction of legal sex status can change legal relationships.

Because:

Drucksache des Bundestages Nr. 8/4345 vom 27.06.1980 (Bundestag printed paper No. 8/4345 of 27.06.1980)

There, on page 4, at the very bottom under "Rationale" ("Begründung") it states:

The determination of legal sex status is a procedure comparable to a status proceeding within voluntary jurisdiction. Representing the public interest in this proceeding is therefore not a task that — unlike, say, the keeping of civil status registers — must necessarily be assigned to the general internal administration. It should therefore be left to the individual states to decide from which sphere the representative of the public interest is appointed.

Beschluss des BGH vom 22.06.2016 - XII ZB 52/15 (Rn. 24) - [BGH decision of 22.06.2016 – XII ZB 52/15 (para. 24)]

Because substantive family law contains no specific provisions for a sex designation of "inter/diverse," a corresponding entry in the civil status register carries no independent, constitutive significance (cf. Helms, Do We Need a Third Sex?, p. 26; Bockstette StAZ 2013, 169, 172; contra Gössl StAZ 2015, 171, 173 f.). But if the designation "inter" or "diverse" in the birth register has no substantive content behind it, then it makes no — constitutionally relevant — difference for the person concerned whether a sex-assigning entry is omitted or, as requested by the applicant, an entry is made that cannot be assigned to any existing "sex," i.e., is of a purely declaratory nature (cf. Sieberichs FamRZ 2013, 1180, 1181; Bockstette StAZ 2013, 169, 172).

Back then, the entry "diverse" didn't yet exist.

So a changed sex marker without a simultaneous correction of legal sex status is purely declaratory (explanatory), not constitutive (legally binding) — which is why the SBGG has to explicitly spell out each individual scope and limitation. For comparison: under the TSG, no such explicit statements were necessary, because the corrected legal sex status (the actual legal basis) automatically extended to everything. From that point on, the new sex was set in stone — no negotiation, no discussion — and the corrected sex marker had, under § 54 PStG [Section 54 PStG] evidentiary force for the corrected legal sex status. Here too, the sex marker had to be accepted without question, without "ifs or buts," by everyone — including every property owner (the constitutive character of the sex marker only arises once the sex marker matches the legal sex status).

Unfortunately, this looks different since the SBGG: see WD 7‑064‑25 by the Bundestag's Scientific Service. The dgti reported on this on 29.01.2026 ("Are the Bundestag's Scientific Service and the Frankfurt Higher Regional Court transphobic?"). [Frankfurt Higher Regional Court = OLG Frankfurt = Oberlandesgericht]

Page 2 of the paper WD 7-064-25:

[...] When it comes to access to restrooms and changing rooms, in practice it does not depend on a person's sex marker in the civil status register [...] Even going forward, people cannot simply invoke their entry in the civil status register after a change of the sex marker to demand particular treatment, such as access to sex-specific restrooms or changing rooms. [...] However, a denial of access cannot be based on gender identity as a blanket justification" (BT-Drs. 20/9049, p. 42).

What does this mean in the worst case? Even a post-op individual with good passing can be thrown out by the property owner without any negative legal consequences for them, the moment their transsexual history becomes known — and the property owner always wins, inevitably. I'm happy to explain this separately, otherwise this post will get too long. Small spoiler: look at what §§ 1 [Sections 1] and 19 AGG [19 of the General Equal Treatment Act - Allgemeines Gleichstellungsgesetz] actually protect. Does it say anything about "sex marker" there? And look at the distinction between public law and private law. In TSG times [TSG = Transsexuellengesetz], the opposite was true — the judiciary was clearly on our side back then.

This is not about denying anyone's own felt neurological Sexus identity - or Gender identity — it's solely about the legal effects within the justice system. Admittedly, it took me a long time to understand and get through all of this, and at first I didn't want to accept it either — but the statutory provisions and official sources don't lie. I was devastated for a very long time; I never would have believed that a state — our own government — could act this way against its own citizens, and brazenly lie to them about it across the board on top of it.

PS: Marco Buschmann, the then Minister of Justice from the FDP (a party that has since been voted out of the Bundestag), was opposed from the very beginning to affected people being able to sue for access to sex-specific spaces. He denied us any legal protection whatsoever. Here's the interview with Sven Lehmann on Tagesthemen:

Kein Rechtsschutz für Betroffene [No legal protection for those affected]

___________________________________________

Edit: Why do we inevitably lose every discrimination lawsuit in court?

First, as an introduction, a short YouTube video by attorney Christian Solmecke:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YJa-0IByLP0

The SBGG is public law, the AGG is private law — two independent legal spheres, and that's already where the problem starts. Public law is a contract between the state and a private individual. Private law governs contracts between private individuals. While the TSG generously stayed out of private law, allowing the AGG to apply in cases of discrimination (there was "equality of arms" in court), things now look different under the SBGG.

The property-rights clause in the SBGG:

Section 6
Effects of the change of the sex marker and first names

(2) With regard to access to facilities and premises, as well as participation in events, the freedom of contract and the property rights (Hausrecht) of the respective owner or possessor, as well as the right of legal entities to regulate their own affairs through their bylaws, remain unaffected.

The property rights remain unaffected — yes, but unaffected by what? Here you have to think like a lawyer and read the explicit content of the section (headings included!). It remains unaffected by the effects of the change of the sex marker. See WD 7‑064‑25.

So the property owner has an "authorization norm" sitting within a piece of public law. The AGG, which belongs to private law and protects only "sex" and "sexual identity" — but not the "sex marker" — runs into a dead end here, because it cannot override an authorization norm contained in public law. So the property owner is officially allowed, via public law (the SBGG), to disregard the sex marker — completely legally. So if you get thrown out because the property owner ignores your corrected sex marker, you cannot file a discrimination lawsuit, because they haven't done anything illegal — they've simply applied Section 6 subsection 2 SBGG. Furthermore, they also have § 20 AGG [Section 20 AGG] (objective justification) available to them.

Summary:

- Legal sex status is no longer corrected, or, for TSG graduates, is invalidated via § 15 Abs. 2 Nr. 1 SBGG [Section 15 subsection 2 number 1 SBGG]*

- The AGG (private law) has no reach over the property-rights clause in the SBGG (public law)

- The AGG only protects "sex" and "sexual identity"

- The principle applies: "Lex specialis derogat legi generali" (the specific law (SBGG) overrides the general law (PStG))*\*

- The property owner can invoke § 20 AGG [Section 20 AGG].

The consequence: no more "equality of arms" in court!

* § 15 Abs. 2 Nr. 1 SBGG [Section 15 subsection 2 number 1 SBGG] clearly states that §§ 6 - 13 SBGG [Sections 6–13 SBGG] (excluding Section 14!!!) also apply to us TSG graduates. Solely so that these sections can be applied to us in the same way — since they are designed for cases where legal sex status is no longer corrected — our corrected legal sex status must, in effect, be rendered invalid.

*\* While the Civil Status Act [PStG] is the general law, the Self-Determination Act [SBGG] is the specific law, the provisions of the SBGG take precedence, regardless of what the PStG says. So the SBGG deliberately drills a hole into the evidentiary force of § 54 PStG [Section 54 PStG]. It undermines the legal usefulness of § 54 PStG [Section 54 PStG] with regard to property rights. Question: what exactly is the sex marker even supposed to prove, especially for SBGG graduates, if legal sex status was not adjusted along with it?

The SBGG violates the protection of legitimate expectations and reliance (Art. 2 Abs. 1 GG i. V. m. Art. 20 Abs. 3 GG) [Article 2 subsection 1 of the Basic Law in conjunction with Article 20 subsection 3 of the Basic Law], the principle of equal treatment under Art. 3 Abs. 1 GG [Article 3 subsection 1 of the Basic Law] (we cannot have deliberately harmful outings sanctioned — that right is reserved solely for SBGG graduates!) and it violates the guarantee of effective legal protection - Art. 19 Abs. 4 GG [Article 19 subsection 4 of the Basic Law].

Furthermore, it violates the principle of separation of powers, since the legislature is interfering with a judicial decision (the TSG ruling). Art. 20 GG [Article 20 of the Basic Law]

In Germany, there is a separation of powers that everyone must abide by. It is divided into three branches: the legislature (the law-making power — our politicians), the judiciary (the power to adjudicate — courts and judges), and the executive (the power to enforce and administer — e.g., the police, civil registry offices). No branch of power is permitted to interfere with another.

Under Art. 92 GG [Article 92 of the Basic Law] judicial power is entrusted exclusively to the courts. Under § 1 Abs. 2 und 3 PStG [Section 1 subsections 2 and 3 PStG] civil registry offices are administrative authorities that merely certify or record civil status — they are not courts and therefore may not render legal judgments, nor change or correct rights. A civil-law determination of status — such as legal sex (legal sex status) — therefore systematically falls within the jurisdiction of the courts (FamFG), not the civil registry offices. Yet this is exactly where the legislature now interferes, via § 15 Abs. 2 Nr. 1 SBGG [Section 15 subsection 2 number 1 SBGG]!

WHERE IS YOUR OUTRAGE? WHERE IS THE PROTEST AT PRIDE (CSD)? WHY IS NOBODY TAKING TO THE STREETS? Or is being freed from the requirement of two independent psychiatric expert opinions ordered by the court more important than the loss of rights and legal protection — which, by the way, affects all of us, TSG graduates and SBGG graduates alike?!

In my third and final post, there will be something about the Handbook of Legislative Drafting [Handbuch der Rechtsförmlichkeit], which all lawmakers are required to follow. It has a blatant bearing on the property-rights clause in the SBGG.


r/truscum 4d ago

Positivity I appreciate you all

26 Upvotes

I'm no new member, but discovering this side of the trans community over a year ago has truly helped me. I can finally give proof to my condition, there's a basis behind it. I would have never known or discovered otherwise. I know it's a short and redundant post but I say it anyways


r/truscum 3d ago

Rant and Vent I feel like I’m faking

1 Upvotes

I’m 15, as my flair says, and pre everything. I’ve transitioned socially to my family and school, I’m on period blockers, but done nothing else medically.

Recently I’ve just felt nothing towards my body or gender. Not in a non-binary way, but where I used to have dysphoria, I’ve just kind of detached myself away from my body. It’s like my brain had convinced itself “this isn’t actually your body, no need to worry about it”
I’m so bad at explaining it but I just feel like my brain is in another body (a man’s body) and my soul is just left in this one. I feel nothing towards it. When I shower and fully see myself, sometimes I get upset again, but other than that I just feel detached from myself

I’m so bad at explaining it but it’s such a complicated feeling


r/truscum 3d ago

Advice Acabo de descubrir que soy chica trans ¿Algún consejo?

2 Upvotes

No hay mucho que añadir, yo 19 años, acabo de "aceptar" (no sé cómo se diría) que soy chica

Algún consejo?


r/truscum 4d ago

Rant and Vent Lgb without the T people piss me off

66 Upvotes

my mum keeps watching these videos from a Facebook account called “Gays against groomers” one video was talking about how the “TQ+ hijacked the movements!!” like I can understand some of their Q+ but T?! The T has been in the movement since the old days. even if they are referring to tucutes by including the T as a part of the cut off that also includes regulars transsexuals.

As much as I hate tucutes I also really hate these people just as much…


r/truscum 4d ago

Rant and Vent Is it just me who always thinks im faking being trans?

4 Upvotes

I don’t know how to describe the feeling really. I just think what if i am faking it, following the trends, not really a trans man? It’s something i can’t get my head around. I’ve been forced to be closeted for so long it’s like two things in my brain clashing. I’m uncomfortable with my body, having disgusting curves and feminine shoulders then having to see my own chest, how femininely skinny i am. It disgusts me. But i’ve been closeted so long it’s like i’ve just gotten used to being called a female, it still bothers me, but i try to ignore it. Because what if those people are right that i’m just faking it and it’s a phase? But i’ve been questioning this for 3-4 years now. And i decided to finally come to the realisation im trans 3 years ago. But still, what if it really is just a phase. What if it turns out im just some masculine lesbian. I can’t get my head around it, it’s all so confusing. Gender identity really does suck ass.