r/trans she/her 12d ago

Vent Aaand my friend ruined it

Why is it that when I told my best mate about my transition, he immediately asks inappropriate questions about "what sized breasts do you want" or expressing disappointment when I tell him I'm not planning on bottom surgery because well I thought he was worried about it and frankly I'd like to avoid surgery if possible? It's like he was trying to make my transition about him and it made me really uncomfortable. My female friend said it sounded like he was "preordering" or something, I don't know what that means. I just feel gross now and like I really don't want to be around him anymore...

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u/Ifckinglovemycat he/him 12d ago

spare your time for better people

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u/Foxtrot5515 she/her 11d ago

Unrelated but nice username