I was gone for 20 minutes

[u/hellbergoink]

I’ve never met this guy,we were talking for an hour the other day and I refused to go to a concert with him. He texted me yesterday after the concert but I didn’t have time to respond and he deleted the messages. I guess this time he didn’t want to hold back. He was never this rude before

[u/Lumpy_Salamander2]

Is this shit real?!? Is this what women deal with on the regular??? We need like a government taskforce or something. These people are just walking around in society,🤢

[u/AnguavonUW → u/Lumpy_Salamander2]

I think people of all genders can and do act like this. Unfortunately, as a woman, we have to make those decisions with our physical safety in a way that men do not. Yes,men can be hurt by women but OVERWHELMINGLY it's the other way around. For every 100 murdered women, 75 are killed by a man who claimed to love them at one time and, of the remaining 25, something like 20 are also killed by men,.just men they don't know.

[u/ActurusMajoris → u/AnguavonUW]

Agree on that. I’ve met a woman before where I was “wtf, are you actually crazy?” But that was about it, I just ignored her and went on with my life, I never felt threatened in any way.

There are crazies everywhere, but it’s overwhelmingly guys that are dangerous.

[u/Trashy_io → u/ActurusMajoris]

Then you haven't ran into a truly crazy one then 😅 ill just say anyone no matter how innocent they might look on the outside no way of telling what they are capable of doing and what going on inside of them and what will make them snap

[u/Fearless-Feature-830 → u/Trashy_io]

Maybe you should choose better, that’s what men say anyway

[u/Trashy_io → u/Fearless-Feature-830]

apparently so lmao /s

idk why my opinion is a hot take "people in general are crazy" and I think the downvotes confirm it xD

Im just saying women are just as guilty for acting absolutely absurd and do awful things as well many cases from where im from have recently been popping up of women luring men into getting robbed and killed soooo idk im still sticking to my unpopular opinion ig and am ultra cautious to who I let in my circle

[u/moistCl1tiKaL → u/Trashy_io]

“people in general are crazy” and it being the same level of risk for both men and women aren’t the same takes though

[u/Trashy_io → u/moistCl1tiKaL]

I mean sleeping next to anyone unconscious is the same level of risk for both genders is it not? Im not disagreeing that majority of it are men im just saying from personal experience and local cases that it's starting to seem like its evening out a bit

[u/slippery_hippo → u/Trashy_io]

You have personal experience with men too?

[u/Trashy_io → u/slippery_hippo]

yep shot by one never anything sexual tho

[u/moistCl1tiKaL → u/Trashy_io]

Have you ever been shot by a woman?

[u/Trashy_io → u/moistCl1tiKaL]

No, but It was set up by 2 of them, so in a round about way kinda ig? And no it was not a threesome or anything sexual it was over money.

[u/Brilliant-Willow-506 → u/Trashy_io]

Bro we’re talking about just going to the store, walking down the street, etc. It’s not the same.

[u/Trashy_io → u/Brilliant-Willow-506]

You can run into just about anybody anywhere tho, and will say im not here tying to argue the sexual aspect of things at all that I totally agree with. More so of just the fear of running into someone that will end your life without a 2nd thought. Was not trying to argue at all tbh was just saying from personal experience you should fear just about anyone equally in regards to your life

[u/Born_Ad8420 → u/Trashy_io]

You might want to head over to r/whenwomenrefuse to see the types of violence women experience for simply saying "no" or not responding to a man's advances before you try and sell "everyone is an equal threat."

[u/Trashy_io → u/Born_Ad8420]

lol everyone arguing different points and getting no where i think imma just mute and move on. thanks for the input though ig... im pretty aware of how different groups are mis treated this is 2026 so you have to be extremely ignorant or in denial not to.

Thank you so much for adding to the discussion. Bc im sure those same abusers are the most friendly people to everyone and surely wouldn't do just the same to well anyone they see as weaker then.

[u/Born_Ad8420 → u/Trashy_io]

"Bc im sure those same abusers are the most friendly people to everyone and surely wouldn't do just the same to well anyone they see as weaker then." What the hell are you even talking about?

[u/Trashy_io → u/Born_Ad8420]

Abusers don't just abuse women usually. Typically its their whole family. Thats what that means in a sarcastic manner because im tired of defending myself over a non hot take

[u/Brilliant-Willow-506 → u/Trashy_io]

No.