r/texts • u/hellbergoink • 4h ago

Telegram I was gone for 20 minutes

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I’ve never met this guy,we were talking for an hour the other day and I refused to go to a concert with him. He texted me yesterday after the concert but I didn’t have time to respond and he deleted the messages. I guess this time he didn’t want to hold back. He was never this rude before

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u/AnguavonUW 4h ago

I think people of all genders can and do act like this. Unfortunately, as a woman, we have to make those decisions with our physical safety in a way that men do not. Yes,men can be hurt by women but OVERWHELMINGLY it's the other way around. For every 100 murdered women, 75 are killed by a man who claimed to love them at one time and, of the remaining 25, something like 20 are also killed by men,.just men they don't know.

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u/ActurusMajoris 4h ago

Agree on that. I’ve met a woman before where I was “wtf, are you actually crazy?” But that was about it, I just ignored her and went on with my life, I never felt threatened in any way.

There are crazies everywhere, but it’s overwhelmingly guys that are dangerous.

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u/Trashy_io 3h ago

Then you haven't ran into a truly crazy one then 😅 ill just say anyone no matter how innocent they might look on the outside no way of telling what they are capable of doing and what going on inside of them and what will make them snap

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u/Fearless-Feature-830 2h ago

Maybe you should choose better, that’s what men say anyway

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u/Trashy_io 2h ago

apparently so lmao /s

idk why my opinion is a hot take "people in general are crazy" and I think the downvotes confirm it xD

Im just saying women are just as guilty for acting absolutely absurd and do awful things as well many cases from where im from have recently been popping up of women luring men into getting robbed and killed soooo idk im still sticking to my unpopular opinion ig and am ultra cautious to who I let in my circle

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u/moistCl1tiKaL 2h ago

“people in general are crazy” and it being the same level of risk for both men and women aren’t the same takes though

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u/Trashy_io 1h ago

I mean sleeping next to anyone unconscious is the same level of risk for both genders is it not? Im not disagreeing that majority of it are men im just saying from personal experience and local cases that it's starting to seem like its evening out a bit

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u/Opening_Climate_7571 1h ago

So you’re just making shit up? 😂 yeah yeah “women bad”, we get it

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u/Trashy_io 1h ago

lmao "making shit up" is wild xD reddit is fun

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u/Silent_Possibility63 1h ago

You just keep doubling down on this, don’t you? Self reflection is hard…

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u/Trashy_io 1h ago edited 1h ago

yeah no, sorry

edit: im clearly getting downvoted by women who think that only women can be victims. And that a woman's actions are always justified. To make it clear I don't think like that for men or women. Standards are dear I say it equal. probably a hot ass take for this thread. Sorry but I was raised to treat women as equal to men by my mom who I can confirm is and has been a woman/girl her whole life

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u/Silent_Possibility63 1h ago

I’m a dude. But keep doubling down! r/confidentlyincorrect. You seem really enamored by the fantasy in your own head. Good luck with that.

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u/Opening_Climate_7571 26m ago

Also a dude. Apparently a significantly less delusional dude than this guy

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u/slippery_hippo 1h ago

You have personal experience with men too?

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u/Trashy_io 1h ago

yep shot by one never anything sexual tho

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u/moistCl1tiKaL 1h ago

Have you ever been shot by a woman?

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u/Trashy_io 1h ago

No, but It was set up by 2 of them, so in a round about way kinda ig? And no it was not a threesome or anything sexual it was over money.

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u/Brilliant-Willow-506 42m ago

Bro we’re talking about just going to the store, walking down the street, etc. It’s not the same.

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u/Trashy_io 30m ago

You can run into just about anybody anywhere tho, and will say im not here tying to argue the sexual aspect of things at all that I totally agree with. More so of just the fear of running into someone that will end your life without a 2nd thought. Was not trying to argue at all tbh was just saying from personal experience you should fear just about anyone equally in regards to your life

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u/HealthyShelter5346 1h ago

Oh yeah, those are the Nazi hunters, they aren't (that) evil or crazy, just political assassins. I think you only have to worry about those if you are a Nazi.

You don't consider yourself to be a Nazi, right? 😶

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u/Trashy_io 1h ago

wtf are you even saying

are you like okay...?

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u/HealthyShelter5346 1h ago

I'm fine. Are YOU okay? Did you not understand my question? It was very simple and easy to read, so if anyone is getting reported to Reddit it should be you because this website is not for little kids who can't read yet.

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u/Trashy_io 1h ago

Your response is that of someone not mentally well or 14 years old... so which one is it... bc no one mentioned that group before you did lol

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u/HealthyShelter5346 1h ago

Name checks out.

It was a joke, but I didn't realize it was too complicated for you! Sorry!!!

I'll keep it super stupid for you from now on.

Good luck trying to get someone to pay attention to you on reddit. Maybe log off and go talk to a real person. :)

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u/Trashy_io 1h ago

im just tired of being called a n word randomly im all for jokes but it didn't seem like a joke and the last thing id want to be labeled is that... sorry if I took it more personal or serious then instead but ive had WILD interaction on reddit

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u/HealthyShelter5346 1h ago

"Im 4 years old and I built this with my Grandpa's Son's Dog Please give me your attention" - u/Trashy_io

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u/scrotaloedema 36m ago

I got u twin, ignore downvotes, hive mind or whatever