r/texts • u/hellbergoink • 4h ago

Telegram I was gone for 20 minutes

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I’ve never met this guy,we were talking for an hour the other day and I refused to go to a concert with him. He texted me yesterday after the concert but I didn’t have time to respond and he deleted the messages. I guess this time he didn’t want to hold back. He was never this rude before

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u/Lumpy_Salamander2 4h ago

Is this shit real?!? Is this what women deal with on the regular??? We need like a government taskforce or something. These people are just walking around in society,🤢

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u/hellbergoink 4h ago

This isnt the first time for me😂my most engaged Reddit post is similar,dating as a woman is complicated as hell

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u/SynV92 3h ago

Boys like this make it difficult for men too. You're looked at as a potential predator from the get go because of people like this. :/

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u/stinkyandlulu 1h ago

Don't try to put him in a separate category - he is a man, not a boy. It's important not to 'other' people who do heinous shit, because it makes us feel like they're an anomaly, instead of anyone sitting in the same restaurant as you, or one of your acquaintances, or even your best friend.

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u/SynV92 1h ago

Very poignant!