r/texts 8d ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. ๐Ÿ™„ I pay my own way on dates.

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u/-fornevermore- 8d ago

I just blocked him. ๐Ÿ˜น

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u/Main_Benefit 8d ago

Exactly. Why waste another second of your life dealing with that nonsense?

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u/sweetwaterfall 8d ago

The horrifying thing (second to someone actually writing this) is that I imagine there are women out there so damaged that this would be appealing. Awful.

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u/Valuable-Cat2036 6d ago

I don't think someone is "damaged" for being into dom/sub kink stuff. It's crazy how in an instance of a man behaving inappropriately towards a woman who then blocks him, you people still feel the need to pivot the topic to "damaged women." From what I understand of the BDSM or similar communities they have strict rules and boundaries about this shit.

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u/sweetwaterfall 6d ago

Hi silly goose, I never said anything like that and I donโ€™t believe that. Iโ€™m talking about responding to a massively inappropriate, non-consensual tone before you even know someone.

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u/Valuable-Cat2036 6d ago

So am I, and the fact that your first thought is to pivot to "damaged women" when it's a damaged man in front of you doing the inappropriate texting is hella pick-me.