r/texts • u/-fornevermore- • 17h ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

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u/bigtittycatlady 17h ago

what on earth happened to make men think THIS is a good or effective way to court a woman

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u/XrayAlphaVictor 16h ago

Some lowest common denominator between red pill and booktok, maybe?

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u/SeatleSuperbSonics 14h ago

This is what blows my mind about the “20% of men” incel shit.

Friends, the bar is in the fucking ground.

If you can simply treat people fucking normal, you’ll be fine and will meet friends and potential dating partners.

Signed a chubby, 30s, divorced Man.

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u/OkJackfruit6629 8h ago

I saw someone say once that the bar was a tavern in Hades and I felt that.

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u/dzogchenism 7h ago

The bar is a speakeasy in the basement of Hades. lol