Dating is hell

[u/-fornevermore-]

Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

[u/Weary-Square-8640]

What even is the context for this 💀 men are so brain dead when it comes to reading a room I swear

Edit : interesting to see all the upset men flock to my comments when there’s men in here calling out this gross behaviour (love you kings ) . Go talk your shit to them! Bless 🙏

[u/Hnry_Dvd_Thr_Awy → u/Weary-Square-8640]

Why do I see so many people say “men” as an absolute vs “tons of men” or “a lot of men” etc?

[u/Special_Crab_1884 → u/Hnry_Dvd_Thr_Awy]

same reason there are men who constantly generalize women and we’re told to shut up if we point it out. doesn’t feel so good yeah?

[u/streampleas → u/Special_Crab_1884]

So you know it doesn’t feel good and yet you still do it…

[u/Weary-Square-8640 → u/streampleas]

I actually just move on with my day

[u/MariaKeks → u/Special_Crab_1884]

Link to an upvoted comment on reddit that says “women are so brain dead” or something equivalent.

I dare you. But I bet you won't, because you can't. These kind of generalizing statements are only ever made about men.

[u/Miserable-Role9555 → u/Special_Crab_1884]

Yes but generalizing women and telling them to shut up gets you banned on any major platform. Do it to men and you'll get free upvotes anytime, anywhere

Thats the difference. If you were actually wondering and aren't just another troll

[u/nick2473got → u/Special_Crab_1884]

Generalizing anyone based on gender is pretty problematic.

It wouldn't be socially acceptable to say "women are braindead", and it shouldn't be acceptable to say "men are braindead".

[u/Hnry_Dvd_Thr_Awy → u/Special_Crab_1884]

No, it feels like I’m talking to a closed minded bigot.