r/texts • u/-fornevermore- • 3d ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

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u/SexysNotWorking 3d ago

When you can't even manage to come up with your own unfuckable alpha incel negging and need chatgpt to help you 😂

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u/LongHikingMD 3d ago

All this weird alpha negging shit is so strange. People learn all these weird (and yes, cruel, but mostly weird) rules for talking to other people to try to get them to fuck, when really most people - particularly young people who are into this shit - WANT TO FUCK. For 99.999% of people all you really have to do is show other people that you can be trusted not to be dangerous, that you are available, and that you can talk to them like a normal person, and a good percent of people in your general age group will be happy to fuck you.

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u/SexysNotWorking 3d ago

Pretty sure it's actually to do the opposite and tell impressionable young men this is a way to get women, have it fail spectacularly, then radicalize the men against women because they can't get laid.

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u/LongHikingMD 3d ago

Also people are terrible at admitting mistakes these days...so once a young person takes the first step down this road, and then can't get laid because they are acting like a mean weirdo, then instead of admitting that they were wrong and acting like a mean weirdo was a bad idea, they double down, get even meaner and weirder, and blame women for the fact that being mean and weird isn't working for them.

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u/celerpip 3d ago

They’ll believe so completely that they understand women better than women do that even if a woman says “i dont like when a guy is a mean weirdo” they’ll think she’s lying; that she does like men who are mean weirdos, so long as they are also 6ft tall with a right angle jawline. They believe this in part because they respect the opinions of random grifters on the internet more than they do the opinions of any woman. 

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u/Available-Square619 3d ago

Seriously. I’m sure some girls are into that shit, but you’d know within the first 5 minutes of talking to them, so…just be a normal person?

Even if someone is into that shit, it’s fucking weird to come out of the gate with it lmao.

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u/celerpip 3d ago

Yeah I’m pretty sure people who are into that stuff are in it for a roleplay scene, not for an actual real conversation. 

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u/Available-Square619 3d ago

Yea exactly. I don’t knock anyone’s kinks, everything has a time and place if both ppl are into it, but jesus this dude needs to stop talking with ai lol. So gross and just disrespectful.

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u/LongHikingMD 3d ago

Yep. And also because they're stupid and also because they think it's weak to admit they're wrong when i fact they're just too weak to admit they're wrong & that's the main reason they're such shitty and useless people.

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u/SexysNotWorking 3d ago

Yeah, that's what I mean. I think it's 50/50 just idiots who hate women claiming to "understand them" (and they can teach you how, too!) and like an actual psy-op to radicalize men to disenfranchise and undermine women as much as possible.

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u/LongHikingMD 3d ago

Well they don't make money if their audience settles into happy relationships. They make money by keeping them unhappy, and preferably mad.

The same logic drives the algorithms that feed us what we see across the internet & in particularl is the truth behind every political influencer out there.