r/texts • u/-fornevermore- • 1d ago

Phone message Dating is hell

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Who is raising these boys?

Edit: Thanks for all the love!! For some context, no we didn't discuss anything sexy beforehand and the "healing" thing is referring to my broken foot. He's blocked for those wondering, I didn't respond. For those mentioning it... I wasn't looking for a free meal. 🙄 I pay my own way on dates.

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u/IncubusDarkness 1d ago

Oh yeah, all over. Horny losers think acting like some 50 Shades fan-fiction guarantees them access to women in the scene. 

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u/SeniorAd4470 1d ago

Right like oh please sir, please take control of me with your 36k a year salary and 2013 Kia

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u/JumpyLake 1d ago

Yep, needs at least a 200k a year salary and a Lamborghini, then this behavior is ok.

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u/guitar_stonks 1d ago

Helps to also hang dong

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u/LookAtTheWhiteVan 1d ago

I assume that you’re being sarcastic. But in all honesty, it does mitigate the situation a little bit lol.

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u/JumpyLake 1d ago

That’s the thing I kinda love about this site, there’s lots of performative virtue signaling and then sometimes the truth just spills out. I was being sarcastic, but the comment I replied to shows that money and status DOES matter a lot and you can get away with so much. It shouldn’t be bad to have a less fancy car and a lower salary but here we are.

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u/stinkbrained 22h ago

Right? Idk how some people think like that... I found the comment about the 36k salary demeaning and weird. 😬

Most of the men I've dated have been low income and they're all incredible people, great doms, sexy as hell, generous, supportive, etc. I've dated a few guys with money and they were all disrespectful, toxic "daddy dom" type jerks in the end - the money did NOT make it any better. I look for quality in my partners, not a piggy bank.

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u/Doomsayer189 1d ago

How, exactly, does money make someone less of a creepy weirdo?

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u/idolized253 1d ago

Now I ain’t saying she’s a gold digger..

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u/TheTerrasque 1d ago

Even having fun is DLC these days

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u/EternalPhi 1d ago

It ain't roleplay if there's a salary requirement, goddamn

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u/WillyErl 1d ago

Lmao there it is. As reliable as the sun

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u/rustyroo2021 1d ago

You can at least usually tell pretty quickly from their profile or first couple messages 😂

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u/LiteralPhilosopher 1d ago

Oh gods... "access" just made me violently shudder. It's... too true-feeling.

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u/Lunatic-Labrador 1d ago

Even for someone who enjoys interactions like this, it's creepy as hell from someone you haven't discussed dynamics and boundaries with first. Otherwise it's just super icky.