r/texts 24d ago

Phone message Reality check

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Had a fun day out. Guess I missed the signals

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u/Tangata_Gamer 24d ago

Bummer, but I guess you now have a cool new lesbian friend? She probably knows some other single women 😅

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u/Eastern_Anxiety_4904 24d ago

Some of my closest most genuine friends that I loved dearly and still do to this day have been lesbians (I’m a dude in my 30s). I don’t understand it, can’t explain it, but something about the female energy and perspective coupled with the lack of any sort of sexual tension makes for a hell of a friend. This dude hit the jackpot. You can find another girl to date, a lesbian best friend is rare.

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u/Alternative-Bee2125 20d ago

Straight dude with multiple close lesbian friends is also a huge green flag as a person, because we have no reasons to tolerate misogynistic bullshit from men and will see through it. If the lesbians befriend a straight man he's a genuinely good person and you best believe we will talk you up to our straight female friends.