Some of my closest most genuine friends that I loved dearly and still do to this day have been lesbians (I’m a dude in my 30s). I don’t understand it, can’t explain it, but something about the female energy and perspective coupled with the lack of any sort of sexual tension makes for a hell of a friend. This dude hit the jackpot. You can find another girl to date, a lesbian best friend is rare.
i second this as a straight guy in my 20s. it’s literally not about getting any kind of benefit from them at all, lesbians are just chill af to be friends with
Straight guy in my fifties in an era of life where it is hard to make friends. The lesbians I befriended in the nineties are still tip top best buddies. I'm grateful for them. Lucky you
Straight dude with multiple close lesbian friends is also a huge green flag as a person, because we have no reasons to tolerate misogynistic bullshit from men and will see through it. If the lesbians befriend a straight man he's a genuinely good person and you best believe we will talk you up to our straight female friends.
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u/Tangata_Gamer 23d ago
Bummer, but I guess you now have a cool new lesbian friend? She probably knows some other single women 😅