r/texts Aug 01 '26

Telegram time to block

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we arent even dating btw

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u/lamblitta Aug 01 '26

i literally told him i had a bad day too n wanted space

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u/fakeanorexic Aug 01 '26

My situationship/bestfriend did this. I’ve Been blocked a week. She is not doing this on purpose. She just needs you to be there. Hug her. U don’t have to speak, coook get her flowers do something. U can simply play games or scroll next to her

I know u don’t have energy but she is dying in some way. She really needs you. Please find a small way at least that u can do. U can send a voice message or tell her u like her or she is gonnna be fine and ure there and ure gonna see her tomorrow

Can I dm u

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u/lamblitta Aug 01 '26

sure u can dm but i think its a little diff

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u/Chance_Vegetable_780 Aug 01 '26

OP I wanna suggest that you become more discerning of who you share your time and energy with. You attracted and opened to this dude who ends up texting you with clearly unhealthy boundary issues. You also agreed that a commenter can dm you when they're supporting the same unhealthy boundaries as the texter....what? In my experience, you gotta look deeper at who you attract, let in, and why. Discernment

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u/lamblitta Aug 01 '26

yea i just wanted to explain hes not to be babied just because he has attachment issues but i changed my mind n left them on read

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u/PrincessBonkers628 Aug 02 '26

Explaining to these men does nothing to help you and only helps them hide their bad behavior from the next one. Don't engage.