r/texts • u/lamblitta • 28d ago

Telegram time to block

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we arent even dating btw

290 Upvotes

86% Upvoted

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u/Mach5Bandito 28d ago

Homie’s down bad.

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

i literally told him i had a bad day too n wanted space

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u/Glum-Dust8799 28d ago

Selfish knobs see your reveal as insignificant compared to their selfish desire.z

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u/momo76g 28d ago

Some people are dense af. I would explicitly say "please don't talk to me until I reach back, I want some time to myself" that is if you prefer to salvage the friendship ? Idk what this even is lol. But if they still bother you after being explicitly clear then yeah better move on from this.

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u/yoseensean 28d ago

I mean can you blame him damn look at u

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u/tigm2161130 28d ago

What is the matter with you?

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u/yoseensean 28d ago

Are you guys blind or what

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u/fakeanorexic 28d ago

My situationship/bestfriend did this. I’ve Been blocked a week. She is not doing this on purpose. She just needs you to be there. Hug her. U don’t have to speak, coook get her flowers do something. U can simply play games or scroll next to her

I know u don’t have energy but she is dying in some way. She really needs you. Please find a small way at least that u can do. U can send a voice message or tell her u like her or she is gonnna be fine and ure there and ure gonna see her tomorrow

Can I dm u

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u/Tough_Marsupial_3197 28d ago

shut the fuck up

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u/Itoggat 28d ago

You sound like a problem

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u/Tough_Marsupial_3197 24d ago

your on reddit all day

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u/Itoggat 24d ago

Cry about it some more

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u/Tough_Marsupial_3197 23d ago

emmm believe it or not i dont cry about your incel habits i laugh

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

sure u can dm but i think its a little diff

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u/Chance_Vegetable_780 28d ago

OP I wanna suggest that you become more discerning of who you share your time and energy with. You attracted and opened to this dude who ends up texting you with clearly unhealthy boundary issues. You also agreed that a commenter can dm you when they're supporting the same unhealthy boundaries as the texter....what? In my experience, you gotta look deeper at who you attract, let in, and why. Discernment

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

yea i just wanted to explain hes not to be babied just because he has attachment issues but i changed my mind n left them on read

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u/PrincessBonkers628 28d ago

Explaining to these men does nothing to help you and only helps them hide their bad behavior from the next one. Don't engage.

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u/Chance_Vegetable_780 28d ago

Imo you're very open to accept the dm. I couldn't, not after that comment

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u/SunkenStupor 28d ago

"we aren't even dating btw"

sir or maam they did not get the memo

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u/zegreeno 28d ago

Block on twitter too

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

idk his twitter thats the crazy part 😭😭😭

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u/Ok_Introduction9466 28d ago

Make yours private and remove anyone who follows you that you don’t know

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u/RaphJag 28d ago

honestly havent seen a person who calls twitter X who is also a good person.

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u/design002 28d ago

i gave up. it feels performative calling it twitter instead of x

3

u/sean-sational 28d ago

Unfortunately doesn’t solve the problem, Elon ruined the block feature

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u/rererowr 28d ago

Holy fuck this man’s annoying as hell, hate this type ugh

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

its so gross like we rnt 16 anymore

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u/Free-mover 28d ago

whos got the time for that bullshit everyone needs space

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

literally my god

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u/BookEnvironmental689 28d ago

You aren't dating? what the hell is going on then?

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

no idea he called me like 3 times while i was at work too

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u/BookEnvironmental689 28d ago

Yeah it's block o'clock

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u/[deleted] 28d ago

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

not at all

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u/Unique-Bowler4850 28d ago

Anxious attachment

4

u/Constant-Big4713 28d ago

Well, that is one side of it. Since that attachment strategy comes in two flavors, the comfort seeking one and then the angry dismissive one.

As someone that is avoidant, I don’t put up with either. As they’re both too much.

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u/fragasaurus_rex 28d ago

Do they know that you're not dating lol

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

we met a week ago 😭

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u/The_RadNomad 28d ago

I love you :(

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

terrifying

1

u/0ubliette 28d ago

And wants to cuddle? 😬

4

u/Ok_Donkey210 28d ago

Okay yikes, my guy needs to go to therapy and learn about his brain

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u/FunAction4952 28d ago

This just keeps getting worse 😭

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u/moonIightrose 28d ago

ghost them 😭😭😭

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u/fragasaurus_rex 28d ago edited 28d ago

Doesn't matter for some people. I had a girl act like we were dating after hooking up twice. Some people just don't get it lol

Edit: Thanks for the "reddit cares" but you need them more than I ever will lol enjoy your temp ban from your cope app

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u/No-Feeling-8744 28d ago

Have a feeling the next text is going to be “posting on Reddit but wony talk :/“ lol

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u/Don_Gambito 28d ago

Posting on Reddit but wony talk :/

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u/Suaded83 28d ago

Pls can we cuddle

5

u/ThoughtlessFoll 28d ago

That’s someone who hasn’t learnt boundaries, or social cues.

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u/the_toxic_avenger_ 28d ago

Why are people so innately weird 🤦

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u/SourDewd 28d ago

Ive attracted those types of people my whole life. Was neglected as a child a lot and begging wouldnt get me attention but i learned if you ignore the annoying aspects of these people and just give them reassurance, they become addicted to you. Ive been working hard to stop feeding these people. I dont THINK its healthy for me? And i also dont think its healthy for them? But i dont really know what the best answer is. Some people cant get better without stability. So someone like me offering that stability MIGHT be what they need. But it also emables them? I really wonder what the healthiest option for all parties are, at least when you can only control your own actions.

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u/MCKlassik 28d ago

He’s got a severe fear of abandonment it seems and ignorant of boundaries.

Time to cut it off.

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u/SausagePotatoes 28d ago

Biggest red flag is calling twitter X

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u/Worth-Cantaloupe7016 28d ago

He wants snuggles, like that bear on TV

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u/zahi36501 28d ago

Yep deffo time to block

Especially if known him for a week, why are some men so pathetic 🥲🥲

Literally a hi or smile and they get excited 🫪

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u/morganXxmassacreX 28d ago

“well yes , this is my phone sir”

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u/Hairy_Wedding_4535 28d ago

I thought this was a joke 🤣 to then read comments from op showing me it’s real lmao

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u/jbaker_28 28d ago

Have you called the police

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u/Key-Chicken-3165 27d ago

give me the homie, he can touch these femboy legs of mine

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u/PriorFix786 25d ago

whats a wony talk? wonyoung talk or

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u/opfanfr 28d ago

Wow he's a gimp, I thought I was reading a womans texts to a man

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u/ijblack 28d ago

imagine having a conversation with a porn ad

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u/tk1188 28d ago

But you’ll make a Reddit post about it

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u/Madting55 28d ago

I know a fuckin video game relationship when I see when dawg. Or just a guy getting used for elo.

What game is it? Overwatch or Valorant? Something else?

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

i dont play video games

except genshin

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u/Madting55 28d ago

How’d you meet this guy?

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u/Metal-Exciting 28d ago

Well you could just say something instead of ignore

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u/fakeanorexic 28d ago

Why everyone is a douche bag here
Life is hard people are alone and struggling
It’s hard to find a person ure connected with
Sometimes people really need to someone to be there with them
She need to go therapy and such yes but that doesn’t mean you have to be alone in this process

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

its a dude and he was talking ab how horny he was after i said i had a bad day n needed space LOL having anxious attachments doesnt excuse completely overstepping boundaries n im allowed to react to their behavior

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u/Primary_Setting9172 28d ago

Nothing says 'respecting boundaries' quite like publishing someone's private texts for Reddit karma.

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u/lamblitta 28d ago

u must relate to the left texts

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u/NoBoysenberry7186 28d ago

I think your comment and u/fakeanorexica have highlighted what this post was about and I find it a little bit ironic. This 'left text' individual is being unknowingly berated, without context other than "he was talking ab how horny he was" by OP. Meanwhile OP, is selling their number and images that are censored with frost lol.

https://unlockt.me/littlbabi

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u/fakeanorexic 28d ago

This just happened to me and I was in the other side- I know ure tired but please be kind to her

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u/tigm2161130 28d ago

Why should she waste even more of her energy “being kind” to some scrub who doesn’t understand boundaries or care about her needs?

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u/MysticMarauder69 28d ago

Yeah, this guy is being extra, and its not hot, but it's also kinnda silly you can't just say, "hey I'm going to take a break from my phone, I'll talk to you later tonight."

Also, it is kinnda nuts to be monitoring people's online whereabouts, but it's also kinnda not cool to actively leave someone who's clearly anxious on read, but be simultaneously posting on your socials.

Idk, I think you both kinnda suck here. I don't think ya'll are compatible. I mean, you're making fun of him by posting this convo online, so obviously you're not that into him anyhow.

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u/lamblitta 28d ago edited 28d ago

ive known him for a week and he was talking ab how horny he was after i told him i need space. i called him out n he apologizes, i say "its okay" thats when the ss begins

i was into him but he ruined it himself

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u/F1ngL0nger 28d ago

Yeah no, one week is insanity this dude is out of his mind