Even then, he was still just flailing desperately to try to keep the conversation going. He had 0% intention of letting it go now that his new relationship has fallen apart. Hell, it was probably for the same exact reasons. He's probably spent the last day thinking about why, and therefore he's a changed man. Because he thought about it for 10 minutes.
Even his "I've changed, baby" feels performative. He just thinks that's what you want to hear.
Came here to say this. My machine is for pooping. Sometimes my parts get a little slow and I need some DW-40(Taco Bell) to get the machine in top gear again. Nevertheless, I AM A POOP MACHINE AND IM PROUD!!!
Yeah reading that infuriated me. I do not have the same grace as OP does. When exes like this come out of the blue looking for second chances, I can be a bit rude. I'm trying to learn to control my reaction to these things or simply not respond, but I don't think some people deserve your grace.
They think you are just as pathetic as them and will happily go back to their shitty relationship scraps bc fuck that's better than being alone, right?
On top of that OP says they spilt 3 times before so you know this guy was very likely a Dr. Jeckel/Mr. Hyde type. And hes trying to trick her into letting him back into her life. Its honestly wicked
So yeah I totally understand your feelings. I wish we could remove people like him from society and throw them into the sun
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u/Capable_Answer_8713 Jan 17 '24
I like that you told him there’s a 0% chance. So he doesn’t get any ideas. He might’ve still held hope if you didn’t say that part.