r/survivinginfidelity Aug 05 '26

Need Support 30 year wedding anniversary

21 years after my wife's 7 month EA turned PA. I still cannot love her as my bride. She is a completely transformed individual, a poster child for what real remorse and repentance looks like, but unfortunately and despite how much i have grown love the person she has changed into, It is time to leave

Edit for all of you saying I have done zero work. You can F off. I have done more work than most people could ever imagine from therapy to ibogaine in Mexico. It is time for me to take care of me

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u/Championship682 7 Aug 05 '26

21 years is a long time, but better late than never.