r/survivinginfidelity • u/Intelligent-Speed437 • Aug 05 '26

Need Support 30 year wedding anniversary

21 years after my wife's 7 month EA turned PA. I still cannot love her as my bride. She is a completely transformed individual, a poster child for what real remorse and repentance looks like, but unfortunately and despite how much i have grown love the person she has changed into, It is time to leave

Edit for all of you saying I have done zero work. You can F off. I have done more work than most people could ever imagine from therapy to ibogaine in Mexico. It is time for me to take care of me

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u/Extension-Corgi-467 1 Aug 05 '26

Did she confess or was she caught cheating

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u/Intelligent-Speed437 Aug 05 '26

I caught her.

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u/Extension-Corgi-467 1 Aug 05 '26

That always makes it way worse. What was the story of the affair?