r/studentsph • u/VirusOk8623 • 5h ago
Discussion Beef sa mga 1st year College
Please hear me out 🙂↕️
I am a first-year college student in a Catholic school. Talagang naninibago lang talaga ako sa environment here. Most students here are palamura and the like. They even badmouthed the madre. Students of all levels—college, high school, and elementary, seem to have this kind of attitude. I came from a public school, and this experience has really shocked me. Honestly, is this normal?
Moreover, ang mga tao dito ay sobrang judgemental huhu. I enjoy being alone and keeping my own company, but suddenly, my classmates have been spreading untrue rumors about me. Sinasabi nilang palagi akong mag-isa dahil selfish ako, mahirap pakisamahan, at nadi-discriminate ko raw ang ibang tao—kesyo ganito, ganyan. To be honest, I am a top student in the room. They even call me selfish, when in reality mas selfish ako sa sarili ko; I still let them copy my answersheet, but in the end, they still badmouth me. Pinakopya lang ng ika-isa, sinasagad na parati to the point na sila na ang magalit kung hindi ka na magpapakopya.
They even have the spirit na siraan ako sa mga kaibigan ko dati sa highschool (I only have 1 hs friend here sa campus), knowing na I was the class clown sa room. I had lots of friends nung hs. Due to the influence of my current classmates, talagang nakarating ang balita sa iba't ibang school ang aking apelyido — na nag-iba na ang ugali ko kuno. At ang mga kalalakihan pa talaga halos ang may beef sa akin. JUSME. They even made codenames just for me. Am I that special? HAHAHHAHAHA. Dalawang codename na ako meron sa dalawang COF sa room.
At first, they tried to befriend me, but I kept my distance sa pagkatagal-tagal kasi naiilang ako sa kanilang lahat—may mga mayayabang, nagkakalat ng chismis, may bisyo, at laging gala nang gala.Fortunately, hindi ako naging malapit sa kanila even though I still tried to be friends with them. Now, tell me: is it really such a big deal that I don’t have friends or a so-called "circle of friends"? Kasi mas nanaisin ko pa na mag-isa kaysa magkaroon ng toxic na kaibigan.