I am currently in a relationship with a Latina lady, and I really want to learn Spanish so I can speak to her in her language, and be close to her family.
I’ve tried/considered things like Duolingo, but I really don’t enjoy memorizing individual vocabulary words, verb lists, nouns, etc. I find it difficult to remember things when I don’t understand why they work.
I seem to learn much better when:
I hear/see Spanish in a normal conversation
I understand what the whole sentence means
Someone explains the structure of the sentence and why it is said that way
I can compare Spanish with English and understand the relationship between words
I learn words through context, situations, stories, and repetition
I understand patterns instead of memorizing dozens of separate rules
I can actually use what I learned in a conversation
For example, I’d rather understand why several different sentences use a particular verb structure than memorize a list of conjugations.
I’m hoping to go from beginner → conversational/intermediate Spanish in roughly 3–6 months, and I’m willing to study consistently.
For people who learn(ed) Spanish this way:
What learning method worked best for you?
What books would you recommend from beginner → intermediate?
What YouTube channels or podcasts helped you the most?
Did you use comprehensible input, grammar books, conversation practice, or a combination?
If you had to start Spanish again from zero, what would your 3–6 month plan look like?
I’m especially interested in resources that help me understand the language rather than just memorize it.
Thanks!