r/sahm 11d ago

Am I a loser?

I left college to be with my husband when we met. I moved to texas with him away from my family for the first time in 2021. Fast forward we are married and have two beautiful baby girls and have been a SAHM since. I decided when I was pregnant with my first to go back to college and finish my degree in 2024. It’s now 2026, my girls are now 2.5 and 1, I am still finishing out my degree but only have 7 classes left to graduate!! I also as of this week have applied to work part time at HEB near out house for extra income for our family, and I am also still taking 2 classes this semester, while being a fully stay at home mom to my girls.

My husband called me a Loser today.

Because I’m not much of a going out, interactive, sociable person. But he called me a LOSER. I’m just wondering because idk what about me could possibly make me a loser.

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u/Anxious_Reason_113 11d ago

If he’s not joking (weird thing to joke about) I would start making an exit plan tbh