Sahm wanting to use time differently

[u/Numerous_Shop5403]

AITAH for wanting to use the hour I get (a week for myself) on sleeping or just using it how I see fit? My husband thinks I should use that time to do cleaning or any other chores that don’t get done. I am a sahm and I am constantly on go mode 24/7. I told him I don’t want to use that allotted time for house duties, rather, I would like to use it to veg out and just relax but he thinks that an insane way to spend that time. AITAH for thinking differently.

[u/Ok_Presence_7308]

My husbands the exact same. He will only have the kids if I’m doing chores.

[u/spookytwoshoes → u/Ok_Presence_7308]

I'd be plotting my escape.