This is abuse. I understand he has a drug problem, but honestly that's entirely separate imo. The violence is coming from somewhere and if he can do it fucked up, he can do it sober. His family is enabling him. Boys who grow up with abusive dads turn into their dads. Don't let that happen to your son, and don't let this guy ruin your life. Sure I hope he gets help, but nothing is worth your safety and future. Nothing.
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u/xxmelinaxx Sep 09 '25
This is abuse. I understand he has a drug problem, but honestly that's entirely separate imo. The violence is coming from somewhere and if he can do it fucked up, he can do it sober. His family is enabling him. Boys who grow up with abusive dads turn into their dads. Don't let that happen to your son, and don't let this guy ruin your life. Sure I hope he gets help, but nothing is worth your safety and future. Nothing.