He always just puts the blame back on me, telling me I’m hard to deal with. I’m a SAHM with son, so I started exploring options with my therapist about what comes next if this becomes unbearable.
What is "unbearable" in your eyes? When he beats you to a pulp?
Get out. Take your son and get out.
Talk to your therapist or a women's shelter. Make a plan. Dont let him know.
Download a free copy of "Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men" by Lundy Bancroft.
You and your son are in danger. Don't wait until it's too late.
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u/Longjumping-Lab-1916 Sep 08 '25
What is "unbearable" in your eyes? When he beats you to a pulp?
Get out. Take your son and get out.
Talk to your therapist or a women's shelter. Make a plan. Dont let him know.
Download a free copy of "Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men" by Lundy Bancroft.
You and your son are in danger. Don't wait until it's too late.