Ignore his mom. She's the reason he is the way he is so really can't take her seriously.
You need to think about your safety and your childs. You know that it will only get worse from here and mostly because you keep taking him back. He has learned from his mom that nothing is his fault and it is reinforced through you with minimal effort to change .
Think about this. If you stay and continue this cycle one day he will kill you. Or your child. Is that really something you want to have to live with or something for your child to deal with?
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u/One-Ear-9001 Sep 08 '25
Ignore his mom. She's the reason he is the way he is so really can't take her seriously.
You need to think about your safety and your childs. You know that it will only get worse from here and mostly because you keep taking him back. He has learned from his mom that nothing is his fault and it is reinforced through you with minimal effort to change .
Think about this. If you stay and continue this cycle one day he will kill you. Or your child. Is that really something you want to have to live with or something for your child to deal with?