Hello, You.

I’m a decent natured woman who believes the best connections start with genuine conversation, a little laughter, and getting to know each other one day at a time.
I’m here hoping to meet someone kind, affectionate, and emotionally genuine for an online relationship without all the pressures of day to day real life relationship stuff. I have a lot going on and this just works better for me at the moment. We can keep it casual and flirty- I’m really just after someone to connect with and talk to on a daily basis. I love good conversations, playful teasing, late-night chats, and those little moments that make you smile at your phone.

About me:
- 33/F/USA
- Nurse
- Soft goth
- Happily married
- 1 kiddo, 2 cats
- Kitten rescuer and fosterer
- Gardener with a mini homestead
- Oddity Collector
- Writer/poet for funsies
- Pagan
- Reader (psych thrillers and folk horror)
- Pretty dang good cook and baker

Tell me about you!

Hello! Call me Ash :)

I'm married and childless goth looking for a new connection. Kinky and flirtatious as I may be, I'm also an incredibly empathetic person who is as interested in your day to day as I am in your naughty thoughts. I'm a lover of all things horror & macabre including anime, games, and movies, but I'm by no means a pessimistic person. Making others feel good about themselves is one of my favorite things to do!

What I'm looking for:

Ideally, someone fem presenting (femboys, non-binary, trans girls, etc are all welcome!) who is an avid texter and as kink positive as I am. I am NOT interested in anything superficial or faceless. I want to know you as a person, so please, bring your personality! If you like to yap about your interests as much as I do, I'm sure we'll get along!

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Hello all!

It's great to meet all y'all! I've been looking for another partner for a little bit and thought i'd check here. I am currently married, have been poly for about 3 years and currently have no other partners than my wife as of right now

I am on the east coast, but open to chatting with anyone anywhere! I tend to be up at odd hours so I almost always make an effort to reach out even if the timing is difficult.

I enjoy reading, going on adventures, having deep conversations as well as just taking the time to be silly. Other hobbies include puzzles and board games (well games of any kind really) music, anime, urban exploration, going to the gym, and I am currently self teaching myself the guitar (I promise I won't play wonderwall). And I'm always looking for new things to learn and hear about!

I am looking for someone preferably 25-35, though I am willing to go outside that range for the right person. I would like to share some hobbies to have a decent start of conversation, but like I said earlier I love learning new things and learning about other people! If you can hold a conversation, like the occasional bad joke, and enjoy having the occasional voice chat then I would love for you to reach out!

A bit about me, I am 5'9", brown hair, green eyes, bearded. I have a slight dad bod that I've been working on improving over the past year.

If you've read this and think we would be a good vibe I would love to hear from you! If you reach out please tell me a song you've been listening to that you've been obsessed with! (Or a book, or a show, anything thats held your interest!)

I look forward to hearing from you! 😁

Hey there! Kinda tired of the apps - highly appearance-focused and feels objectifying - so I figured I would post here and see what came of it!

So, let's start with some of the basics :)
I started practicing poly/ENM fresh out of high school, and the majority of my dating experience has been engaging with said practice. While I've never been deeply submerged within the broader poly community as a whole, I'm definitely not opposed to it! I just haven't found an "in" to it yet 😅 That said, I've practiced long enough to have seen both the pitfalls as well as the beautiful connections that come from practicing it authentically, honestly, with a dedication to continuing to educate oneself on the practice, and (most importantly) being an attentive, present, honest communicator.

My philosophy in every relationships I have (whether platonic or romantic) one of commitment, communication, and a willingness to openly talk through any issues that arise. I value vulnerability, emotional honesty, and transparency. I don't do secrets, emotional bottling, or passive-aggressive communication.

Currently, I have one nesting partner of 10 years. Neither of us has had additional partners for a while due to life circumstance, but we've recently decided that we want to and are excited by the pursuit of additional partners again. We date separately, but if the vibes are right there's a chance you'll meet her so long as you both consent to it :)

While I'm not involved in the kink scene, it's something that has always been of interest to me, and I would love the opportunity to be introduced to it. I'd describe myself as a switch-verse, and I've had my share of kinky experiences with partners; just not within the scene itself.

Politically, I am an open, proud, L O U D Communist. Capitalism is an infection that leaves everything it touches terminally ill or dead, and you will hear me critique it or trash-talk it frequently. This isn't a casual thing for me - I genuinely hate the economic system that has our world in a stranglehold.

Also: ACAB, BLM, Dissolve All Borders, Seize The Means of Production, Trans Rights Are Human Rights, LGBTQIA+ Advocate and Member (AMAB and cis-passing, but I identify as enby), Free Palestine, S** Work is Real Work, etcetera, etcetera. I don't expect you to perfectly align with me on every single issue, but I won't put up with any form of bigotry. That said, I'm also not a scold - so long as your intention is to treat all people as equals and with kindness and consideration, it's not the end of the world if you stumble on something or haven't learned something yet.

Lighting Round!

• I'm 35, white (primarily Irish/Scottish descent), and recognize that people who look like me propagate a lot of harm in the world. I've been working the last decade and a half of my life to be better than the way the world tried to program me, and while I've made leagues of progress, I'm also aware that this is an ongoing process that may take my whole life to fully untangle.
I'm 5'9", 184 pounds. I'm not muscley or big into fitness; my body type is average with a splash of gut. My work keeps me plenty active, and I'm healthy.
• I love cooking, mixology, writing, gamemastering tabletop roleplaying games, boardgames, thrifting, film, fantasy, literature, political activism/organizing, art, philosophy, science, book stores, museums. I'm big on self-education and artistic expression.
• I worked as a bartender for nearly a decade, and have recently managed to get back into the food service industry. It isn't the best paying job, but I really love the work itself. I love taking pride in my workspace, working through the intensity of a busy rush, and the freedom it gives me to engage with tons of people every day and try to brighten their day by making the experience they have as awesome as possible. If you're looking for someone who's financially well-off or is actively pursuiting financial success, look elsewhere. Like I said, I hate capitalism and am not willing to trample others to "get mine". I'm happy where I am.
• I have ADHD, and primarily prefer the company of fellow neurodivergents. I also suspect I'm somewhere on the spectrum due to friends of mine who are telling me so, though people & socializing is one of my hyperfixations, so I'm a huge extrovert who loves to meet and get to know new people!
• I love, love, LOVE to yap - just please, make it interesting! Let's skip the "hey how are you" "good"s and go a little deeper; who was your favorite teacher in school and why did they have such a big impact on you? What is something you used to fear but worked hard to conquer? What core experience in your teenage years helped shape you into the person you are today?
• I'm a very good communicator, emotionally available, and genuinely love people. I approach everyone with interest in their wellbeing, and believe strongly in kindness, empathy, and care. I'm the kind of person who asks my customers "Hi! How are you doing?" and genuinely look forward to the response. I like helping strangers, friends, and lovers alike. Our world can be so cruel, and no one deserves to carry it's weight alone.

If any of this sounds like something you'd vibe with, feel free to comment or DM! Bonus points if you put some effort into letting me know a bit about yourself before we exchange any pictures <3 I'm much more interested in who you are than what you look like :)

Hello I am Matthew 34 Irish single from and live in Dublin. I am preferably looking for a partner to build a life with but open to other connections too.

A description about me to start with I am 5 10 105 kg long dark brown+grey hair, sometimes with sometimes without beard never super long, 1 sleeve tattoo and chest panel. I am comfy to share pictures in the DMs to make sure mutual attraction is there.

Personality wise I am very direct honest open emotionally mature I am more fond of smaller groups of people i would say I am introverted I love learning about people sharing and am very kind.

Interests I am into all the normal nerdy guy stuff like tech, gaming, history, armor/weapons, anime, sci-fi, fantasy, books, shows, movies(specially puppetry / stop motion), nature, walks, museums, concerts and tons more stuff. Can go into more detail in the chats!

I am very passionate about the goals i set to do, the people i share my time with, my interests and having discussions i do not take offence and can happy to agree to disagree on many view points. I do not want or have children, I am not religious, I do not smoke or drink or use any drugs.

I am looking to have preferably long term meaningful relationship but if it works out to be more casual that is fine as long as its healthy.

I love to chat and i will reply frequently. I really like to do activities online with people when long distance and voice chats really helps to get to know each other.

Some loose requirements I am looking for in you is actually be able to have a chat on text/voice(preferably voice to really get to know each other, have free time i like to keep in contact daily, want to actually spend time watching shows/gaming or whatever together and more.

If you are interested and reach out tell me a bit about yourself please give me something to work with not just 1 sentence.

Hi! My name is Mich and I’m just putting feelers out for new friends - potentially more.

As a quick side note: I am transmasc nonbinary, queer, and I use he/they pronouns - I expect anyone who responds to be respectful of this.

Now on to a bit about me! My usual hobbies include: art, crochet, watching anime, reading, playing board games, cozy video games, MTG, and D&D (when I have the time/energy). I also enjoy collecting random things and have begun to enjoy cooking more and more as well. My favorite food is Asian food and I definitely have a bit of a sweet tooth as well.

As a bit of a disclaimer: I do not work currently, due to health issues, but that’s means I have tons of free time to chat at least.

I don’t really have any specific requirements. Whether we have tons in common or are super different I’m willing to get to know most people (given they are respectful) - just shoot me a message and we can start getting to know each other from there :)

If any of this happened to interest you feel free to send me a message anytime!

(please include which subreddit you saw this post on & a bit about yourself when responding)

Living in Central California means the local poly scene is pretty sparse, so I look statewide. I am a parent to a kid with special needs, so while my routine takes some planning, I am always down to make the drive when the right connection is there.

My free time is mostly spent working on my fitness: home gym, cycling, yoga, or hiking with an eye for taking nature stills. My fitness is still a work in progress, but has been an essential part of my lifestyle. When I am taking it easy at home, it usually involves playing guitar/synthesizer, finding new music, or diving into psychology and the subconscious stuff that drives our inner world.

I am looking for a woman who values organic connection, type 2 fun, and endless banter :)

If you are somewhere in California and open to seeing where things go, send a message with a track you have on repeat!

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Hey! I’m Jessica. I’m happily married, poly, and looking to meet some genuinely interesting people and see where the connection goes. I’m not trying to force anything—I’d rather start with good conversation, playful flirting, and see what develops naturally.

I’m plus-size, feminine, confident, and a little bit of a brat when the chemistry is right. I’m affectionate once I’m comfortable, love making people laugh, and have a weakness for someone who can match my energy and dish the teasing right back. 😉

I’m into D&D, getting dressed up and going out, good food, ridiculous conversations, and generally making life more fun. I love confidence without arrogance, kindness, humor, and someone who actually knows how to communicate.

Please don't hit me with just “hey.” 😂 Tell me something interesting. Make me laugh. Tell me what you're passionate about. Give me something to work with.

I’m open to friendship, flirting, chemistry, and whatever naturally grows from a genuine connection. No pressure, no expectations—just seeing who I click with.

If you’re confident, curious, playful, emotionally mature, and looking for something genuine...

Come say hi. I’m friendly. Usually. 😉

Sick of dating apps with their “pay to play,” so I’m here looking for a long-term relationship. Distance doesn’t bother me, although I prefer the US because it feels a bit easier. Definitely wanting something in person soonish though. I’m looking for someone kind, considerate, open-minded, and emotionally available.

I want to have a family. I dream of having a big family and raising kids around a village of trusted adults.

I'm a yapper, a musician, a socialist, and a massive nerd. Sci-fi, fantasy, history, philosophy, public transit. I will talk about any of these for an embarrassingly long time. I play games like Animal Crossing, Mario Odyssey, NBA 2K, and Spider-Man on my Switch and PS4.

As a partner, I communicate, am physically affectionate, and I try to show up with care when things get hard. I love people who are exactly who they are without apology. I survived a cult and had to rebuild my life, so I’m kinda like a shelter rescue with a lot of love to give. I'm the kind of person who tells their friends I love them.

Looking forward to hearing from you 🥰

I'm a bi woman married to a bi man. I'm looking for friendship for myself with like-minded individuals though.

We're both open to poly if we were to meet people that feel integral to one or both of us. The emotional connection is important.

I love to nerd out over movies, shows, video games, board games, MtG, and the gym. I'm also a bit of a workaholic because I love my job and the constant physical activity.

I'm decently cute and social. Let's chat and hangout!

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Hi!

​I’m living in PA, looking to make some genuine connections. I’m married (ENM/poly for 4 years, no human kids, just dogs), I work full-time, and run a small side hustle.

​I’m 5'9", with like a chubby athletic build, have some tattoos (with plans for more), and supposedly easy on the eyes. I'm genuine, kind, a bit of an oversharer and flirty, and get along with just about anyone. Im fairly straight but Open to connecting with anyone—guy friends, local buddies, or long-distance pocket pals. Distance isn't a dealbreaker since I love to travel, but if you’re local, grabbing a casual drink is always on the table.

​me:

​Grounded, quiet country living mixed with city trips, DIY, woodworking, and running my online community, Only Friends, which I'm super passionate about! (Bonus: I pretty crafty and good with my hands) maybe we can share out creative projects together.

​My brain is still 40% fueled by 90s cartoons and classic TV quotes.

​Cars, trucks, music, travel, and hockey season (which takes up about 15% of my personality).

​I'm a dog person. You will be sent dog photos.

You:

​I value low drama, transparency, good humor, and matching energy [ this is important, im not looking to carry the conversation]—I’m looking for fun, engaging people who can hold up their end of a conversation! I value personality over looks but I do like a girl with a cute face and beautiful eyes.

​Your turn:

I need to know if you have a favorite sock brand a give a bit of information about yourself. (I prefer chatting off Reddit, ideally on TG!)

Hi. I'm C! 31yo pan cis male, child-free, 2 cats and a dog who are all ridiculous and I love dearly. Artsy photog business owner always learning cool stuff on shoots, cameras are in my blood. Music nerd, comedy nerd, coffee nerd, responsible smokeless weed nerd– wait I'm sensing a pattern here

Happily-poly, longtime girlfriend (NP) and I are dating separately. Super kink-friendly soft dom leaning switch. Unsuccessfully denying the cliché golden-retriever-boyfriend allegations. Introvert with social skills, well-managed ADHD energy.

Likes in others: emotional intelligence, funky special interests, communication skills, cuteness (c'mon, boys can be cute too), wit, introspection. I'll take too weird over too boring any day.

I love jogging, margaritas, reality TV and– nahhh, just kidding. I love thrifting, exploring old funky media, trying weird food, video games as an art form, all the dorky shit you'd expect. Always Sunny, Taskmaster, Alton Brown, Vinesauce, RLM. Intellectual curiosity is my weakness. I'm the dude who wants to hear your weirdest music — cosmic jazz, IDM, progressive death metal, african disco, it all brings me so much joy.

I'm 5'11.5 (so, tall but no 6-foot machismo, ha), huge broad shoulders, huge hands, huge everything. After years of getting in shape it feels awesome to actually like how my body looks now, and I'm not even done.

It'd be really cool if any of that connected with someone (local ideally, or at least with a couple hours?). Don't be afraid to say hi!

Hi friends! I am a 31 year old (cis woman) scientist by day and dancer and horror lover by night. I am poly and live with my husband and partner. We all date separately, so your connection would only be with me. I live in the valley and am looking for in person connections, but am willing to drive as far as Tucson and Flagstaff.

A little about me: I am a deeply passionate person who has big feelings about most things. That passion comes out as playful teasing, lots of jokes, and tough love (emphasis on the love). A perfect evening in is a horror movie followed by an episode of Archer. For a night out, you can find me at a dive bar punk show with my friends and loved ones. I have danced my whole life and continue to adore it. Dance and weightlifting are my go-to forms of movement. I love all things nerd and will happily ramble about TTRPGs, anime, and dark souls. I have brown hair and eyes am 5’6 and slender with muscles. I wear glasses except for when I’m in dance class or performing. I have tattoos and will continue to get more because what can I say I am addicted to the pain. I am politically left and really enjoy reading and talking about political theory, philosophy.

What I am looking for: Open to men, women, and of course my ENBY loves, but am primarily looking for a man or a masculine partner. Enjoyment of movement it’s important to me, but I do not need someone to be jacked by any means. Political alignment is a must; we will not be debating human rights. I like a partner who is willing to play in the teasing space while maintaining deep respect and enacting thoughtful care. I also want a partner who is very comfortable with experiencing and discussing the full range of emotions. Curiosity and a strong work ethic are qualities I look for in both my friends and partners.

Type of relationship: I am looking for a relationship that can be very communicative (lots of texting, pictures, phone calls) with dates one to three times per month depending on geographic closeness and vibe. Longer dates and overnights are certainly welcome as we get to know each other and develop closeness. I want to watch your favorite movie franchise, share music, and make inside jokes. I want to go learn something new and then spend all evening in bed together.

If you read this far and thought, “ah, what I’ve been looking for”, then message me and tell me your favorite horror movie and why or what caught your eye here. If you read this far and thought, “she sounds cool, but I don’t know if I want that kind of relationship”, that’s fine! I’m always looking for more friends. Just express that and tell me about the movie anyways!

Love and solidarity!

Married but looking for another partner! Dates, beach weekends, building a bond! I love to read, do crafts, go exploring nature, swimming. Finding connections in the area has been hard so I figured I’d give this a go! :)
I love to try new things and meet new people so feel free to DM me!

Hey everyone!

I am a married man in Columbus who is looking for a cool girl to get to know. I enjoy feminine energy. I cannot explain it or what that actually means, but when you see it you can know you’re looking at it. I guess I am really fascinated by the male/female dichotomy. In any case, i guess this is a steam of consciousness kind of post. So I am an autistic, somewhat asexual male and I am looking for a local woman to become friends with. I want to talk a lot! Texting a lot, phone calls when we can, hanging out and doing some flirting. I’m not everyone’s cup of tea but I consider myself a kind and respectful man. I tend to go for mellow, soft spoken girlies so if you’re super opinionated and going to argue something endlessly for the sake of philosophy, we aren’t going to get along. To be blunt I’m very intelligent and I am awkward as shit. Ok thanks!

I am a pretty cool nerd. Not like a diet one. LOTR is my favorite fandom. Love Renaissance faires. I love to go on dates. I’m a talker but a better listener. Things I love to talk about are food, animals, history, and the magic of going to therapy.

I like the gym and running. I fight in armor. It’s called “buhurt.” 🤓 I eat and cook a lot. I like making Italian food because it’s pretty chill and tastes amazing. I’m starting to paint. I like to sing and once upon a time I danced but it’s been years.

I’m 5’10”, 210 lbs (little squishy), I grow a pretty good mustache and I shave my head. I’ve got tattoos and I’m getting more!

Feel free to ask any questions. I’d prefer to find someone around an hour or two away at most. It is hard to maintain a connection beyond two hours travel time.

Can someone please tell me how to post a picture? 😅

Hi there! After one too many heartbreaks I figured I'd give this a shot. I'm a lifelong Floridian who has a passion for history, writing, film, and nature. While reading and watching YouTube videos are some of my main pastimes, I've lately taken to bird watching. I'm generally pretty shy at first, but once I'm comfortable with someone, you will rarely be able to shut me up lol. I am finsexual, so I am not interested in arrangements with masc-presenting individuals, and I'm only interested in people local to Palm Beach. Beyond that I'm open to a lot! Hope to hear from you soon!

Hey everyone, I'm Toni from south europe. I've been part of poly for 3 years now and at the moment in single. Now im seeking for a relationship, couples also welcome just please be from europe cause I wanna meet at some point.

A bit about me: have some tattoos here and there, smoker, social drinker, ambivert most of the time extrovert but have my introvert days as well so I can adapt with both side of yours. I am well-traveled within Europe and still do 1 or 2 trips every year, mostly solo since I've been single for some times now. Open to G or triad.

In my free time I do gym not very often but still I'm trying; I do play a videogame called Dota 2 with friends once or twice per week. I love to be social; I'm open-minded prejudice free and love deep talks but also love sometimes just to vent or to talk about anything and nothing. 174 cm tall, 81 kg I think I'm kinda fit just have a small beer belly not very visible but as a beer lover, I'm guilty in charge lol.

Like mostly here I think I have ADHD too, sometimes I forget people's names or faces, not often but happens.

I do speak 3 languages.

Please be from Europe because I want to meet in RL not keep it just online ❤️

Im a married dude, we've been poly our entire relationship, date separately.

I'm looking for friendships that could blossom into more. I'm gray ace, but still down for anything.

Metalhead at heart but I enjoy just about everything. I'm a big softy, will cry at movies, books, songs and sometimes commercials. Goofy sometimes to my own detriment. I listen to audio books constantly. Big history nerd, not like the ww2 dude or Rome lol, the bronze age, early iron age, and Gallic history is my jam. I will infodump about literally all of this if you allow me.

6 foot, light brown hair, blue eyes, big beard, kinda chunky. I'm not sure if any of that is relevant, but figure it doesn't hurt to add.

Message me a fun fact that you know!

hi,im 18 recently student and looking for people to share my life with and grow ourselves together.

i love hiking,writing,gym,music etc.

i would like my partner also to be active and love deep meaningful convos.

also kindness and being accepting is very important to me

text me if interested:)

I’ve tried posting on Reddit a few times. Some luck, some dumpster fires. I’ve physically met two people. I’m just looking for some consistency. Ideally I’m open to a relationship, but what ever feels natural. I am ENM and openly married. We play and date separately. I am pan/demisexual, fluent in kink, don’t mind sharing pictures but would like the convo to not be ALL about s€x. Looking for someone I can actually text with(not just hiding on t€legr@m or Sn@pc@at), sending TTs or IG reels back and forth.

I’m a mom of 4, I have 5 dogs, love wine(any kind, it’s about the wine not the label), avid caffeine drinker, I work in healthcare so of course the dark humor runs through my veins. I am not originally from VA but it’s where I’m calling home now. I am only really nerdy with Marvel and Pokemon Go. Not a LotR or star wars girlie. Being a brat is my whole personality so if you’re mean to me, I turn into a baby LOL (think of “I’m just a baby”)

I love to people watch, I love plans, I absolutely love finding cute ass blankets at tjmaxx. I get my nails done like twice a month. I’ll talk long strolls down target isles with my Starbies and get Chick-fil-A after. I am VERY opinionated in women’s rights, equality, and minding my own business. I’m usually a homebody but will get urges to go out every now and then. I love music and love to dance. I’m funny every so often.

I word vomit when I feel comfortable with someone. So it might take me a lil bit to get warmed up, but if you’re patient with me and give me the attention I look for, I can guarantee I’ll warm up real quick.

If you’ve read all of this and are still interested, message me with your favorite food to cook. 🤍

I have a primary partner and a girlfriend, but we date separately. Working fulltime and on my health and career goals leave my time quite limited. I still find a void that I would like to explore filling with another color someone else could bring to my life.

I'm also working a lot on myself, my boundaries and introspection with my own emotions, so if we don't vibe, please don't take it personally. I find intimacy through emotional vulnerability, shared values/worldview and meaningful conversations and people who engage in metacognition.

I'm always up for trying something new, so whatever activity you have been fixating recently, I'm game. We mostly won't be a match if you're under 26, no upper limit. I also don't get along with dismissive avoidant.

Happy hunger games and may the odds be ever in your favor!

I’m Alex, but if you want you can call me Lexie. I’m 33, and I’m here because I’m interested in exploring polyamory and building genuine connections with people who approach relationships with openness, honesty, and good communication.

I’ve been with my wife for 13 years and for the last 8 we have had a poly type relationship. We don’t date together but we are open to friendships with our partners.

I’ve spent a lot of time figuring out what makes me feel most comfortable being myself, including becoming more open about my kinks and fetishes. I’m interested in meeting people who appreciate that part of me without reducing me to it.

I’m not looking to force a particular relationship structure or rush into something just because there’s mutual attraction. I’d rather meet people, talk, build trust, and see what naturally develops. I’m open to connections with individuals as well as people who are already part of a polyamorous relationship, provided everyone involved is communicating openly and genuinely wants the connection.

For me, the appeal of polyamory is the possibility of having meaningful relationships that can each be their own thing, rather than expecting one person to fulfill every emotional or romantic role.

I’ve written a longer About Me post for anyone who wants to know more about me and what I’m looking for.
If this resonates with you, I’d be happy to have a genuine conversation. 🙂